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hey ok well people say i give good advice i am 13 years old so thnx for rating me

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its my friend's birthday party tomorrow and i said i could go then my mom told me that my cousin's birthday (shes my age) is the same night and we were invited over for dinner. which one should i go to ???

sorry this might be a little to late but ask your mom if you could go to your cousins party first and leave early so you still have time to go to your friends party.
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one of my friends is realllllly sensitive and me and my friends have tried to tell her and she lies almost all the and we cant take it anymore(her name is alex). everyday literally she gets into a fight with me or my friends over nothing. an example was one time she and my other friend were sleeping over my house and we were listening to my ipod and we were listening to alex favorite song so when it was over she grabbed my ipod(video)and played it again and when it was over she played it again and again so im like alex can we listen to another song? and she said fine and threw my ipod on the ground and locked herself in my bathroom and called her mom to talk her home.. AND IT WAS 1:30 AM !!! what the hell do i do ??

tell her and if she doesnt change get rid of her it seems like you have plenty of friends you dont need one like that.
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how can you ask your boyfriend for money without him thinking you are a golddigger?

ask him and tell him what you need it for also tell him you will pay him back when you get the money but i wouldnt do this alot.
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Ok so my bf and i have been together for a lil over 6 months and theres this other girl who lives just a town over. She's really gettin aggervatin cuz she keeps callin and textin my bf sayin she wants to do him and all that kinda stuff and he tries to ignore her but she wont stop.. i finally asked her about it and she kinda admitted to it. Today she got one of her friends (who happens to be one of my friends too) to call and tell me that she said not to drag her into this (as if she didnt drag herself into it) because it was between me and my bf and my insecurities! What to i do to get her out of both of our lives?!?!?!?!?

ok you can try to ignore her or like ask your boyfriend to get a new number but she might find that out just keep telling her to stop and try to find someone else to huck her up with so she wont be so busy texting your boyfriend.
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i have really good grades but some of them are gettig lower. i think the reason is because i ahng out with my friends too much. i never want to miss out on somethign with my friends. i still want to do good in school but i just can't stop making plans.

ok well if its ok with your friends plan a study day with them and ask your teacher if you can make up some thing that you did really bad or if you could do something for extra credit , if you keep slipping in school your parents might not even let you hang out with them for a while.
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i'm a 13 year old girl that was friends with this other since 1st grade. we are sooo close but i've also been like really jealous because last year another girl in our group and her were in the same class and i really like her too as a good friend and they have become insepreble since now and no matter what i do to try to seperate them they just won't. i tried to tell them but they just shut me down, made me cry for 2 days and didnt take it seriously at all . they just said i was calling them gay and were making fun of me. now we are friends but its still an issue. what do i do?

ok well you can just let those two be friends and find someone else to hang out with but just dont stop being that girls friend..
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can you get pregnant if you swallow cum?

from swallow gum no.
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Ok well im 13 years old and im in 7th grade, i really like this kid, but he likes my cousin, what should I do, i have been nice to both of them and they both dont know i like him, he is asking her out today, and the only reason is, is because i helped him ask her out and stuff, what should i do since i REALLYYY like him?

hoppe you can help

tell your cousin how u feel maybe she wont go out with him but if she is going to say yes to that asking out question try and let them be try not to see him as much.
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i'm a 13 year old girl and this boy have been friends since 3rd grade and we have been really close until 6th grade when he told me that he liked me. after that i felt really uncomfortable around him even though we still have been good friends. one day he asked me out and i didnt know what to say. later on i kept questioning myself if i really do like him. months later we still have been good friends but i dont like to talk to him like face to face only online and on the phone. how can i overcome this fear? also i have a friend that told me recently that he liked him and he liked him back and now they are going out and ive been always there for both of them. i also feel kind of jealous because he liked me first. their relationship is terrible.. they never talk and they are both asking me what to do. how do i handle this????

ok your probaly jealous because you liked him liking you but for them asking you what to do and stuff tell them that you have been telling both of them what to do and you arent going to tell them anymore.
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my names jessica. i`m 14 .. okay so there was this kid. and we liked eachother for like 2 months. and then he went and hooked up with another girl.. and then he called me like 20 times and apoligized but i like never forgave him. and i havent seen him forever... so i have kind of gotten over him, but everytime i see him or talk to him i start to like him again.. and i just want to be his friend but he invited me up north to his cabin/house place.. i`m going.. but i dont think i want to like him again.. what do i do??

tell him that you going up there is only going to be in friends nothing more and if you start to like him you start to like him its only for one day right and if he does go back with a different girl if you two become girlfriend and boyfriend again than he might do it again but for now see how he acts around other girls.
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ok...i'll try to make this short
this kid dom went out with caitlyn for a loong time, like probally over a year? you get my point lol and well they've broken up like 9-10 times, but they've been broken up for about 2 weeks now..and the other day in literacy, he wrote me a note, and we got into this subject about if i gave head to anybody, and things like tht, and as he was writng these things i started to like him, and to impress him ..i told him tht i gave handjobs and blowjobs..me and him talked to almost 2 weeks over winter break..so he likes me, i like him..he ALWAYS talks about sex though, and i'm not sure i'm ready to give tht up...and even when him and hims gf were going out he say'd he'd cheat..i sorta go along with what he says, should i try to go furthere with this or end it before i get hurt?

( he even called and asked me to hang out )

ok 14 female ohio..i turned 14 today!!!

ok thanks...comment back whenever u have time, your advice rocks

ok well happy birthday and i wouldnt do anything you dont want to and i wouldnt give him hand jobs or blow jobs cuz you can get std if he cheated on his girlfriend its most likly he will cheat on you so if you hang out with him tonight go ahead but just keep in your mind that he might cheat on you two.
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well, i live in new york and my name is jessica, and i like a kid the lives in florida named brandon... we havent met yet... but i think i really like him.... hes funny, nice, and everything i've been looking for... what do u think i should do... should i tell him...? or should i just kinda let him make the first move?

ok you havent met him yet so like you know him over the computer or somthing like that well if its over the computer than tell him you like him but dont give him to much infomation thats like about all you can do since like you havent met yet wow but i would tell him youy like him and than wait for him to make the first move i guess on the computer lol.
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Ok So i have this friend and we have been friends for awhile now and we have always been a little more then friends like we both had feelings for each other but never did anything about it and we could ((we probally still could but dont)) tell each other anything and talk for hours and i had all my trust with him and everything and after one night when we had like a really good conversation i decided i really did like him alot and i wanted to change just being friends so the next day i asked him who he liked and he said i dont know so i was like maybe i shouldnt say anything so i didnt and the next thing you no the next day he has a girlfriend and i thought he told me everything and he didnt even tell me about this girl probally because i hate her but now we dont even talk and if we do its an argument and he always makes me feel like everything is my fault and he doesnt even realize how much he has changed cause of this girl but he has and he wont even talk to me about anything and all my girl friends tell me Just be really nice to him and be there for him no matter what so then he will feel bad in the end and just wait it out and see what happens and then my guy friends tell me to tell him your through with him and just quit talking to him so i have absoutly no clue what to do... what do you think?

you can try both like if he talks to you be nice but dont start the conversation with him and if he does break up with instead of him cause even if he wants to go back together ask him a bunch of questions like why were you so mean to me when you were with your girlfriend and such like that but thats in the future so for right nowif he talks to you be nice but dont start the conversation.
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well i met this guy on a cruise .. i talk to him on aim and i asked him who he likes .. by the way he lives ibn chicago but i live in ny .. well he said noone then he said well i like this one but not a lot lot lot and im like who and hes like blahh blahh blahh im like its not like i know her ... blah blah blah .. he said i do .. then after a while hes like nvm you dont know her i changed my mind and im like who was the person b4 you changed your mind and hes like it wouldove been you and im like so its not anymmore and hes like well a little .. now does he really like me or not ? cuz i really do i told him i used ot and hes like you used to ? and im like well istill do ...

ok well if you told him you use to and you still do maybe he will change his mind about liking you a little and start to like you more you can try and find out who he likes and flirt with him more.
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Okay well i have known these two guys for about 4 years now and i went out with one of them in liek 5th grade (his name is matt) some stupid little love thing riight yeah well i was online with one kid jay that i was likin for a while and he was like sayin that he liked me too and then matt sighed onn and he was like hey call me soo i talked to him on the phone for like 3 hourss and i just absalutely love both of them but i found out matt likes me again too and i dont know what to do with this..can you help?

ok well you should pick one guy only see which one you like more like which personality you like more thats all you can really do unless you pull a name out of a hat lol.
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so there is this girl that i rly like and i jus wish to get on her 24/7 she feels the same way but not as strong so she gets scared and i dont kno how to talk her through it. Does this mean we r not made for each other or does it mean....what? so i hear u r the best advice giver around here and prolly like 15 years old but what the hell is she trying to tell me?

ok you can tell her how you feel or even try asking her it is probaly because she doesnt want to get so serious maybe. and thanks for saying that.
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ok....so there is this amazhing guy in my spanish class. i rlly rlly rlly like him. he told my friends that im too young for him cause hes a junior n im a freshman. n he has a g/f. but lately we have been having these sexual convos online n he asked me to cheat n his g/f w/ him cause he likes me but doesnt wanna end it w/ her. so i said yes cause i truly love this guy. pleaz help me. is this the rite thing to do or not. thanx
in love

ok that kind of not right cause his girlfriend probaly feels the same way you do about him but even strong cause she has all those memories of them both so i would tell the guy you are going out with now that you have to break up with him until he breaks up with his girlfriend. thats ok if you dont want to do that just think how you would feel and if he is doing that now to his girlfriend and she doesnt know if you do become his girlfriend he probaly might do the same thing to you.
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Ok theres this guy that likes me n we went to a bday party...we were in my friends room on the bed w/ another guy n girl n they started makin out...so they guy(who ilike too a lil bit) kept tryin 2 kiss me but i didnt want to cuz ya know it was my friends bday party so he kinda got mad but later he asked my best friend if i was prude n she said no...but im not prude i jus didnt want to make-out w/ him so i wanna kiss him now but i dont know how to approach him...any ideas?

you can tell him why you didnt want to kiss him but if its okay now you want to kiss him just you try and kiss him instead of him trying to kiss him and dont hold off on this.
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sorry, but you give the worst advice ever.. you need to think before you just type a bunch of nonsense.. and people that ARE asking her personal questions.. you need to ask a professional not some girl on the internet.

-thinkaboutwhatyoujustread.

ok listen up stupid girl i do give good adice cause if i didnt why would people be iming me saying thanks for the advise it really worked so you need get your facts straight you bitch.

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ok theres this guy like ireally like. and well i thought he liked me too. like he called me like twice a day all the time. and he would like choose to be with me instead of hanging with all his other friends. and like when his friends would call and stuff. hed just be like im busy right now and hung up. but like its really weird bc these past couple of days hes been kinda i dont know i guess you could say just avoiding talking to me or something. i really dont know i dont get him. one day he likes me the next its like he isnt the same person. but it really sucks bc im completely in love with him. and he just ..is starting to kill me basically. like yesterday he got on, on aim..and he didnt im me..i imed him..and he didnt answer so i was just like screw it w/e. im not going to be like all up in him saying like why arent you talking to me and stuff. im not going to be like this annyoing pest. or w/e. so today he gets on again. and then i asked one of my firneds if he was responding and stuff. and she was like yea hes talking to me. so i was like ok well w/e. and like 2 hours later he signs off. without saying anything to me. so of course i have to think what am i doing to deserve this and stuff. i hadnt done anything to him at all. and i know for a fact in the begginning he liked me. cause hes best friend told me he did. but now im thinking i was just getting my hopes up wayyy to high. i love him more then he'll ever know. like now i cant stand talking to him but yet im still completely in love with him. i love the sound of his voice, and the way he says my name. im just completely head over heels with him. but hes just like ignoring me. and my christmas was defintaly ruined just by him. and i cant get over him cuz he seriosuly was the only thing that meant something to me. i know he needs space. but thats what im giving him. and then i know that once i give him so much space. he just wont be there anymore. and you cant imagine how much i need him in my life. and it sucks cuz i honeslty dont know what i did. and i know i prob. dont deserve it. but i really dont care. i love him so much. so yea. please help!

tell him how you feel cause his friend was probaly making that up to get him to have a girlfriend but if you tell him how you feel maybe he will start to like you. if he doesnt start to like you with all you did try and find someone new but get over him first cause thats not fair to the other person tell your friend to ask him if he likes you since he talks to her i dont know just try what ever else comes to mind.
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