Member Since: April 18, 2011
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Last Update: September 27, 2011
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So, this is a long one.
I had a guy track me down on Facebook and send me a long message about how I tortured and bullied him in school.
But most of what he said I don't remember, and a lot it couldn’t have happened. I had a rather severe anxiety disorder throughout my early teens, a few years are just emotional blurs to me, but some of things he claimed I did - like speak up in class to embarrass him, or make up a nasty song about him - it’s really near impossible for me to have done. I didn’t speak in class. I started to cry or throw up when I had to make presentations. I wouldn’t speak aloud to people who weren’t my friends. I stayed inside at recess and shelved books in the library... What I DO remember is coming home violently crying because of what this boy had a habit of taking things from me and flushing them down the toilet - to the point that my mother called the school, and had my desk moved away from his.
In high school we never had a single class together and were in different academic streams. But in grade 11, he tried to make himself useful to the drama club, the rest of the stage crew holding a meeting on how to politely kick him for his incompetence and arrogance. I defended him. Sure, he’s was a bit of an ass, but he was obviously trying to be useful; we should try and create tasks for him. But the senior stage manager decided to ask him to leave. I wasn't there, and we never spoke of it.
I haven’t responded to him. I didn’t know what to say. Maybe he is confusing me with someone else as well. It doesn’t seem worth it to argue with him and tell him he has a whole bunch of it dead wrong. Maybe I should message him and say like "I’m sorry you had a tough..." What do you think? (link)
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This boy sounds like he is causing trouble. Message him back saying most of the stuff in the question... Because it was in PRIMARY SCHOOL so even if it was you, then it shouldn't matter because everybody gets a little bit of torment in primary school. Don't EVER get upset by people like that! Good luck xxx
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I feel like my love life is falling apart :( Long stories short..
I have always like this one kid, we've been friends for a long time but he has an ex girlfriend of 3 years who he still hangs out with like every day and basically I feel like he doesn't give a shit about me.
Then there is this other guy who I recently used to talk to for about 4 months but then he said he didn't want to "talk" to me anymore and we haven't talked since he texted me a month ago asking if we can be friends still (i said yes of course). About 95% sure he is talking to a different girl.
I can't stop thinking about all of this. It makes me want to cry. I don't know what to do anymore...
I am doing online college so I basically only have one best friend so I don't get out that much to take my mind off of all of this. I have the worst luck when it comes to guys and relationships... (link)
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Look, You seem like a lovely person. You also seem quite sensitive. I wouldn't get to upset over this boy because he obviously is messing you about. Don't cry over this, because it may hurt but he is NOT worth your tears. If you don't trust him, you can't like him that much. Think about it... If there is somebody that you really do love then you will trust them totally. If he is talking to another girl, then you obviously deserve somebody so much better than him.
If you feel as if you need to get out more, organise a night out with some girls you would like to get closer too and party! You might meet some guys there too ;) good luck xx
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Can u get pregant by a 14 years old boy? (link)
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Yes this is definately possible. During sexual intercourse, sperm can leave the penis and enter your vagina. If you are worried about being pregnant, take a test, or if it happened recently you can get some tablets by consulting your local Doctor.
However, to be impregnated, I think you have to have started your period.
If you are not trying for a child, ensure that you use contraception. Condoms are the best way to protect against pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
Message me for any more help xx
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Whenever my mum sees me she points out everything that is bad about me. For example, I have just had my hair cut, and when I got home, she said she hated it. She said it was too thin, not long enough etc. I just feel so upset about my life and I want to die. (link)
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Thanks everybody for your advice. I decided I would tell my mum how I felt, and I told a teacher at school. I hope everything will okay!
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Me: 15/F
Her: 14/F
The last few nights I slept at my girlfriends and we got a little carried away at night. We ended up fingering eachother but we managed to keep quiet. Anyway this mornin I accidently gave her a hickey. I was really sorry about it. I actually really didnt mean to do it. Anyway i came home today. I while earlier she said her dad said "I want a word with you tomorrow" when she asked why he said "That on your neck for starters" She said she was scared to. They saw the hickey this morning and said "Y'know it can give you skin cancer" I gathered there was dangers but it was only a cm big. Yet it still made me feel really bad. Anyway i'm worried her parents heard us and ask her.For all they know she is still a virgin... I dont want her backed up into a corner. I don't want her dad to get all protective and tell her she cant see me anymore..
Does anyone have any advice or any other ways to look at it?
One way I looked at it was its either going to be bad. Or he will just warn her and talk to her about the dangers and her age and dangers.
What do you think he will do? (link)
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If I am honest, I have lesbian interactions with my bestfriend every now and again. It may seem silly, but it's true. Don't worry about the hickey, let it pass. The father won't be able to stop you two if you love eachother. There is nothing wrong with it, just don't suck her on the neck. What arrouses me is when you just slowly kiss it, or bite it gently. It works with vagina licking too. Don't worry about it... Just move on. xx
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