Hi I'm Julie. I go to a small private school. Socially, i'd probably give the worst advice because i just don't make the effort to talk to people. With seeing everything, that's not true for me. I can help with boy problems for sure though. No, i'm not good in the fashion area either. For me, the idea of an amazing outfit would be a band tee & jeans or something. I don't wear makeup. I don't do drugs, drink, smoke or any of that stuff. I'm on the computer too much. I've had heartbreak a ton of times & it's horrible. Currenly, I have a boyfriend & he's amazing. I guess you could say I'm good at giving relationship advice [love life, friends, or family] because I do know about friends & how people can be mean & stuff. I know about overprotective parents since I have them, but not abusive ones. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm here to help. ♥ Julie
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hi julie im a dorky weirdo and im thinking about getting a nosejob and i want a bigger rump. the dorky boys dont even like me and i like this one cute guy but he acts like im invisible and never talks to me. i have no friends but this one teacher i have at school says she likes my clothing styles but i think my clothes are ugly and i get them from salvation army cuz my parents think those clothes are cute there but really they just smell. please help me julie! (link)
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uhhhhhh ok? well one get better low self-esteem. if you're into styles, shop at like american eagle & all that crap. if not, keep doing what you're doing. if no one likes you, get over it. no one likes me either. but sometimes that's a good thing cause someone you hate could like you & ick. yea. & why are you listening to a teacher? umm they're good for school, but other than that...they're not your peers. my mom got a nosejob, & it messed up her nose more. don't get a bigger rump, that's just gross. but yea get some self-esteem. like yourself. then get over your worthless life. i did. hope i helped. IM me or w/e cause you seem, eh...interesting?
♥ Julie
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heyy julie * its not really a problem but ok *:
im going into 7th and i was wondering, what are like the styles and whats like "in". i know it sounds dorky, but im really nervous on what to wear. can you give me like stores, or tips on how to wear my hear and stuff like that. thanks (link)
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hmm...well i'm not expert, so i have no idea what's "in". umm & it's not dorky. people consider people who don't wear what's "in" dorky. like me =] haha. but anyways, most people wear just like aeropostale, a&f, holliser, a&e, & all that bullcrap [yea i'm nice] & load up their faces with makeup so you can't even see what their face truly looks like. hmm & they all put their hair in ponytails or buns or whatever. so yea. do whatever.
♥ Julie
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ok well. everyday i find beer bottles in my parents closets. i mean that would be ok if they wouldnt hide it. and i hear them cuss alot and they have never done that before. and my brother who is 16 is in a band and his band smokes. and i found ciggarettes in his room. i dont know what to do. i cant tell anyone and i really dont know whats going on. im scared. please help. please. (link)
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wow that's horrible. sounds like the cussing comes from the drinking. & all this stuff you can't just not tell. then you might get involved in it, or be the abuse of it, which you don't need to bother with. you should tell someone if you're concerned. it's for your own safety. don't talk to your parents. cause if they are drinking, they`ll either lie to you about it or they`ll get mad at you & tell you not to tell anyone. same with your brother with the smoking. you don't need to tell a friend. but some adult that you trust who you know can do something. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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...julie its the anorexic girl again. i cant stop. i can see my ribs. what do i do?? (link)
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everything i told you on IM should help. keep letting me know how you're doing. i know you'll get through it.
♥ Julie
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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if he loves you, the only person he will believe is you. you really need to talk to him about this. because your "friend" sounds a little screwy in the head. maybe you can get a restraining order. i know some people who have. i don't think you'll lose him over what other people tell him if he cares about you how you care about him. but restraining sounds like the best idea to me. it helps. it really does. hope i helped. if you need anything more, aim me sometime.
♥ Julie
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I've been cutting for a while, and i have tried to kill myself before.And its all over a boy whos name is aaron and i think i'n in love with him. And the only time he notices me is when he wants something like sexual and then he goes to another girl when hes done with me and when hes done with the he comes back. And i wanted to know if you knew anything that might help me stop.Because everything i try doesnt work. (link)
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don't cut over a guy. he really sounds like he's not worth it. maybe you should find things that interest you, that make you happy. usually if you have good friends, they always help. cause look, i love an idiot too, but i don't cut myself over it. if you have emotional pain, physical pain, as good as it may feel for the moment, will just make it worse. also for people who cut, i suggest therapy [no you're not crazy!!] but talking to someone who understands always helps. you could even tell your parents that you just need to talk to someone about something. like i have an aunt who i can tell stuff. just try not to think about this guy. really you need to get over him because he's ruining your life. & it sounds like to me he doesn't even care. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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my best friend is really nice. except now that she's "hott" and every guy likes her she acts so different around guys. and i've told her this MANY times but denys it. theres probably not alot of advice for you to give about this, but has this ever happened to you? thanks a bunch. (link)
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uhhh...yea.....but umm if you're all mad, just get over it. everyone has inner beauty & hers might not be like yours. but guys are dumb & immature & don't go by that like some people do. cause like everyone i know is prettier than me & has more friends than me & has had at least one person like them before. but no, not julzy. but i want it more than them. & i don't want it from those losers. ok, well one loser i do. but i won't change who i am for it. i want to be loved for who i am, not how "hott" i am. if you don't think the same, that's pretty shallow. wait for the guy that's right for you. not right for how you look & how he looks. cause trust me, the guy i love looks like a pizza! haha. & not a yummy one either. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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ok well, i already asked you for advice on a really big problem and you definately helped, so now i have a little problem that i need help with [it's summer and i cant really talk to my friends about it]. well one of my best friends invited me to the american idol concert on july 31st... the one in MA, and tickets were hard to get.i said i would go [of course]. doesnt sound like a problem, but, oh it is. see, me and my friends at school are like a threesome, and my friend only invited me, not the other girl [not her fault, she only had one extra ticket]. im not sposed to tell her, but i feel really guilty. please help julie! (link)
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tell her you feel bad about it. tell her about it. make it up to her by going somewhere with her & doing something special with her. make her feel wanted & not like the third wheel. i`m going to that concert on the 31st you know, so you can like meet me. haha. but umm it's in manchester, nh not mass..so know where you're going! lol. hope i helped. oh & tell me who you are. it'd be cool to meet you.
♥ Julie
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Hey, I just got Paintshop Pro 9 and I was wondering how you get hearts, swirls and other objects? (link)
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read tutorials. search google. ask others if they have time if they can help you. fart around with it like i did.
♥ Julie
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dear julie,
how can i get a perfect man w/ perfect look?
how should i dress, talk, say, i dont know wut to do??
can u help
signed,
LilDorksife32
tell me on aol or on here (link)
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hello. you will be who you are. & if he doesn't like you for it, he's not the one. there you go. & you're such a fake. don't even lie to me. because dylan or whoever he//she is answered all of those questions wrong [i checked the OFFICIAL fansite thank you very much]. so yea. but anyways hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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heyy julie wat do you do when your friend got your other friend to go out wit your bf at the time and he dumps you for her? wat do you do..im startin to get pissed
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you tell your friend she shouldn't have done that. & she's rude. =/ that is just wrong. they're not your real friends if they're idiots. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Julie...im going out with him now!!! yesss u helped me soo muchhhh ily!! haha
...sorry about friday tho!
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YAY!!! YAY KATIE YAY!!! i feel accomplished now =] hehe who is richard anyway? lol. if only i could get help with my guy problem *sighs deeply in thought*. & it's ok about friday. so far alison & theresa said they're coming..so i won't be alone. =] & you`ll be there...in spirit...i guess. lol!
♥ Julie
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Hey Julie! I know this girl. Her name is Jazzy. Umm she used to be really nice to me and we were kinda friends..not really close though. But now she has just totally changed. When she talks about me to people she acts like she was bestfriends w. me forever but then when she talks to me she acks like she doesn't even know my name. I really want to be closer friends w. her then I've ever been but I just don't know how to approch her. Me and my other friend got wicked mad at Jazzy for something and called her some bad names but the next day we called back and apoligized big time. She said that she didn't think we were even really sorry. Now she's starting to forgive me a little bit but she doesn't want to talk to me at all. How do I tell her that I'm really sorry and just want to be friends?
Thanx a bunch--Jess (link)
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exactly how you just did. tell her you're sorry & want to be friends. express your true feelings within yourself [as fake as it sounds, it's real]. just tell her exactly what you told me. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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okay. so we are going back to school next month... but like over summer ive changed my style. but just a little bit. but im afraid that my friends like wont like it. and stuff. but im not sure why im so afraid. (link)
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because as much as you might say you don't care what others think of you...you do. lots of people find that out in their lives. i did. i changed it. =] but if they're like "eww i hate that shirt." just be like "thanks." if you say "thank you" everytime someone insults you & nothing more it works wonders & pisses them off. & if they don't like you for your "style" they're not your real friends. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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my old question and answer...
"there's these people who are really mean to me. annonymously [i can't spell that] over the internet. i don't know why, i can't think of anything i've ever done to make them be that way. but they'll make mean comments about things i can't help [hair, body, etc.] and how they think i'm stupid because i have internet things [xanga, livejournal] and they just don't get it. i think it might be because they don't understand it and are jealous, but i just can't figure out why anyone would be so rude on purpose. can you help me with how to act, and/or why they would be that way [other than jealousy, possibly?]. thanks
do they know you in person?
if not;; that happens all the time.
people either are stalkers or will become them if they have nothing better to do like that. people do that to me all the time. there's blockage for a reason. there's "i can get your IP & do crap to your computer if you don't shut up" for a reason. so yea. they're losers. they need to die. you rock cause you have internet nerdy talent, which i think is awesome. k bye. hope i helped.
♥ Julie "
well they're doing it again. yes, some know me in person. i don't know how to do ip stuff [i wish i did] and they don't get the whole internet talent thing. i just don't know how to get rid of them. i cleared out my profile [haha, you probably know who i am] and i didn't really want to. help?
♥ you know who now (link)
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i THINK i know who you are now.
but that's why there's the block button.
or do what i do "aww thanks. you're so kind. i love you so much. KISS ME KISS ME DARLING!
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Hey Julie,
i need some advice. My friend is a bit of a whore. She cheated on her boyfriend with her ex, AND cheated on him with her brother's friend!! (who is two years older then her) I've been talking with another friend and we really want to tell her boyfriend. Is this the right thing to do??
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that's not a bit of a whore. that's A LOT. ok, you can't let him not know about it. but you shouldn't tell him yourself, cause then your friend will get all mad at you, or the b/f might not believe you & it`ll all just get blown outta proportion. who you need to talk to is that skank friend of yours & tell her what you think she's doing is wrong...& that you're not the boss of her, but it's just not right & that when you hurt others like that, it hurts...bad. it's worse than physical. emotions can go haywire. people can kill themselves over those kinds of things. if she doesn't stop, then it's time to tell the boyfriend & then if he doesn't believe you, prove it. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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julie! i really like...someone who mite read this and i dont kno how to tell him cuz ive always been the shy type wen it comes to things like this (altho it may not seem like that but i am) and i really wanna see if he feels the same for me...
PS..i miss you a lot!!
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yea katie. most of us are. you should tell me who HE is. lol. but anyways...you can try to tell him yourself online. or hint at it or something. or have a friend randomly be talking to him & then be like "yea i was talking to katie the other day. i think she likes you." & then you could find out his reaction. but it's pretty hard in that kind of situation to find something to do. oh & i miss you too katie. & good luck with guy stuff. wish me luck with all the people at lca too. hah i'm gonna need it. at least i know how the guy i love feels about me. like i'm crap. yea but hopefully if the guy you like finds out, he'll stay your friend, unlike *anonymous* >.< he makes me so mad. i want him to die, & then i'd have to die with him. ugh boys boys boys. they're just so darn confusing.
♥ Julie
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I need some advice!!! i don't really have very many friends. i'm friends with this one girl. Well, she's my friend, but i'm more like her "back-up" friend. like if one of her BFF's, one of her REALLY tight friends, can't do something she will call me if she HAS to, to do something. i think she's just using me fer a trip to the mall. and this might sound pathetic, but, i think she is mah only friend. i still talk to ppl at school but i'm not that good of friends with them, to call them and say, "wanna hang?!"
i'm really, really, REALLY shy. So, its hard for me to go up to someone, even if it's someone in mah english class, and say "Hi." it's totally pathetic. but, how do i make friends???
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it's ok. i don't either. =] that's what online friends are for. but to make friends, you need to actually call them & stuff. & make an effort to make plans with them. that person sounds like a friend, not a BEST FRIEND that you hang out with. i don't have a best friend either. it's really hard to find one. i avoid people for reasons of no social skills & i just am too lazy to do anything, but i like being alone. but if you don't, you NEED to do something. otherwise, you might have crappy friends the rest of your life.
♥ Julie
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hey julie. okay well a lot of my friends keep telling me that i*m really obsessed with this guy. but for some reason i feel like its not an obsession. i feel that its really love. i mean i*ve realllyyy liked him for so long. and they told me that i*ve agrivated them because my away messages, profile, and xanga are all about him..which not all of them are. and also they say i talk about him too much. but i thought they were my friends and that i could talk to them about anything. and they kept telling me that he really liked me..er so they thought. but then today they said they were too scared to tell me the truth, and that he really doesnt like me. i had already known he didnt like me..its not like i*m stupid..but my friends are really making me mad because i REALLLYYY like him, and not ready to let go yet..WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!x0x (link)
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woa. same exact prob as me. cept mine's a LOT worse. if you love him, the heck with your friends. if they don't wanna listen, don't tell em anything. i stopped writing stuff everywhere. i just write i love you every now & then. yea my friend piss me off, but i love them nonetheless. cause they care about me, just not me loving this guy that they hate. so uhh yea. follow your heart. not your friends. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Okay well I NEVER DO ANYTHING AROUND HERE i mean when im in school i chill ya know but its summer and i havent hung out with ANYBODY!! ugh and i mean one of my friends died and my parents wont even let me go to her funeral!! i sware...and i mean i cant get ova that fact...and then my boyfriend is totally gettin on my FREAKIN nerves lol srry but i need help.... what should i do i mean im a good person and i clean and all that but i just dont know...just call me cinderella! (link)
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woa. sounds like you're parents are limiting you a lot. but to not go to a funeral, wow that's rude. your parents need help. it`s ok. i`m bored too. but my reason is cause i have 0 for social skills & i don't like making plans. my mom hates that i`m always home, sitting on my computer. but my parents are overprotective also. but you should really ask your parents why they're doing that. why do they need you home so bad. you need to talk to them, not yell, cause you won't get anywhere that way. & if your b/f is bothering you, just tell him. he shouldn't be getting on your nerves. call people though. make it so someone calls you & makes a plan or something. hope your parents let you. sorry that you're trapped like that. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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