Member Since: June 14, 2008
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Last Update: June 20, 2008
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my friend wears tampons and i want to start to use them. So one day instead of using a tampon, i used my finger..so i guess i fingered myself..lol idk! But my finger wouldn't go in...so now i'm scared to use a tampon. Please tell me how it would feel!!!!! (link)
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When i first started using tampons I had a friend like you. She couldnt get it in and even called me saying she was in the bathtub hoping it would go in easier! haha. But seriously, it does not hurt. look on the instuction booklet that tampons come with to know how to use. It has pictures even. You probably just couldnt get your finger in because you were nervouse that it would hurt so your muscles tightened. Just relax, and push it in! It might feel awkward which is usuall at first, but no pain, i promise!good-luck :)
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srry if its too long
14/f yeah ..
so i tried out for my high school cheerleading team and i made it. i trust my coach cuz i know her outside of cheerleading but idk if i should tell her about cutting.i dont want her to tell my parents and i dont want anyone talking about it on the team if you catch my drif with the cheerleader-cutter thing. the scars are kinda easy to see and i cant cover them with bracelets like usual soo what should i do?
HELP?! (link)
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I know how you feel. I started cutting when I was your age, and still am 9 years later. I dont cut as bad as I did then, but I still feel like that is the only thing to turn to when i'm so worked up and thats the only way to let it out. My parents were able to see the scars, and when questioned about it I told them that i "used" to and dont anymore. They believed me, but I lied. Maybe if I had told them the truth that I had a problem, maybe I would have had the help and support I needed and would be over it. Today, I have scars all over my legs and upper arms. I think that is what helps sometimes when I want to cut again. I don't want people to see, so I hide them. I wear pants all year long, and big shirts with sleeves. Summer is miserable. You should tell someone, get help now before it gets worse. If you are too embarrased to tell your parents,like I was, talk to someone else about it who will be there for you. It's not something that just goes away. I wish you luck and support and If you ever need to talk about it or ask questions, email me. meg063085@aol.com
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