My name is Lacey,I'm 16 years old.I am a very talkative person,also athletic.I play softball and outgoing and nice.I'm an open person,Willing to answer any questions.Well if you want to know more about me IM me on my s/n and i'll be sure and answer anything.
E-mail: lovelylacey08@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Houston,TX
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: LACEY LiKE WOAHH
Yahoo: Crazypink08@sbcglobal.net
MSN: lovelylacey08@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 15, 2005
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hi lacey..ok well there's this guy at my school and ive liked him since december and a lil it before that..i REALLY REALLY like. ive never liked another guy as much as ive liked this one..and i really wanna go out with him..i think that we're not going out already is cuz im an 8th grader and hers a 7th grader..he already knows that i like him because my 2 best friends told him.. so do u think i'm wasting my time..should i get over him? or keep going after him?? please help.. love, a gurl who needs HELP (link)
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Well do you talk to him alot.I mean do he know you?...Start to talk to him.Acknowledge him that you are interested in him.When you get comfortable enough.Start flirting with him.If he flirts back then maybe he might like you.I don't think It really matters If he's in 7th grade.But I don't seem to find a reason for you to think it's a issue.People might rag on you about It.But It doesn't matter.If yall both like each other than It's cool.Well hoped I helped.Bye
~*~Lacey~*~
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Help!! My Twin And I dont know what to get our boyfriends for Valentines day! Valentines is a week away tomorrow and we have no clue what to get them! We dont want to get them candy because thats sorta a girl thing. Hmmm No Clue!!! I need some good ideas for me and my twin to use! Please All answers are fine with me i am very open at this point!
--Thanks!!--
**I am thinking maybe a big basket of candy and a card???** (link)
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Buy Cologne, or some Collector cards or Boxers lol something sweet...and by the way the reason noones answering is because you keep repeating the same question over and over again.Byes!
~*~Lacey~*~
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i hate this girl... her name is LACEY. shes soo freaking rude and i cannot stand her. and by the way it is YOU. should i tell her or should i not? oops well its too late now!! bye! (link)
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That was an immature thing to do.And it's not considered telling me If I don't know who you are.And honestly I can care less what you have to say.Because your probaly an immature ignorant child who has nothing better to do with *the person* life.I say...Get a life...Bye Bye~!
~*~Lacey~*~
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I like this girl, by the way I am a guy, probably the first on your site, and I like this girl who just broke up with her boyfriend. Since we are already really good friends people say that we'll end up going out but she says that we are always just going to be friends. She does like this other guy, she hasn't ever said a name though. Is she just saying we won't go out to get people off her back? Should I ask her out? Could me doing so ruin the friendship I have with her already? I need HELP!!! (link)
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Well If your good friends usually one of you guys like each other..I'm not saying I'm right but yeah.So If she flirts with you she might like you.But If she says she likes someone.She could be fibbing, for whatever reason.Maybe she is nervous or something.Well I can't give you a straight answer.But if thats a good friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship you might want to consider not chasing for her.She might be a great girl.But friendships are alot better.Tell secrets and such.Just someone to be there.Well hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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Ok so I really liked this guy and we went out for about 4 months...Then he broke up with me right before Christmas. I was so sad!! He made my holidays miserable. When we went back to school I still liked him and he still flirts with me too! I really like him alot now! I want him to ask me out again. I have told him I like him too! He told me he didn't want a girlfriend now. Don't tell me to go onto another guy becuase I have tried but I keep ending up at the same one! PLease help me!! Laura!! (link)
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Well yall went out ...then he still flirts with you...he might still have feelings for you.But I think he doesnt want a g/f because maybe he doesn't want to commit.Then again I may be wrong.But If he doesn't like you and won't want to go out with you.I guess the only last solution is move on.Even If you think you can't you have to.You can't make a guy like you or go out with you.That would be too pushy.Might think your a bit annoying.I dont know but yeah hope I helped.
~*~Lacey~*~
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ok......i'm very expressive in wut i do and the way i am.....but my mom doesnt like when i wear 2 much black or if i find somthin i really like cuz in her eyes it 2 evil or wutever (shes religious)and i'm a christian 2 and i now were 2 not cross the line .....so how can i convince her to let me be who i am by expressing myself through wut i wear? (link)
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Well you have to confront her about this.I mean If you think that what you wear is who you are and express yourself through it then you have to convince.Try saying that this is who you are and you can't change for her standards.If you are getting influenced (taking drugs ,cutting,drinking) then you may have to change a bit.Because your mom is probaly worried about you going into the wrong path.But yeah try talking to your mom about it.And that she has to try to accept the way you are.Well hope i helped.
~*~Lacey~*~
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theres this really cute boy at my school.i will call him bob.almost every girl likes bob.but i think my bff likes him.i lyked him in the beginning of the skool year but then i stopped.NOW I THINK I AT HIM AGAIN.i really want bob to like me.WAT SHUD I DO? (link)
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Well If your close or friends with him.Confront him some how.Don't be too obvious but make it so he does know.and about your best friend liking him.I say talk to her about this situation.Don't make things between you guys.If he likes her and she likes him then you might have to accept it.If you find out he likes you then somehow you have to work this out one way or another.Make conversations with him and flirt some if he flirts back you might have a chance.Hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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im 12 and in the 7th grade.im flat chested.i want boobs .i thought of cotton but i want natural.or i want it to look natural.im not lesbian but i find my self looking at other girls chest.any sugestions? (link)
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Well it takes time for to develope.Don't worry hun.Don't fake things like that,Theres no reason to cover up things.And the you catching yourself looking at girls.Well sometimes It's okay to look sometimes.I mean It doesn't mean your lesbian or Bi just is just like comparing your self to others.And it's okay.Well hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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wut up well lets c every 1 says im anoyin n da last 3 gurls i liked said no or got another man wut do i do n every 1 thinks im a big flirt sumtimes i feel like killing my self help me (link)
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Well If they think your annoying try not to be a follower and a clingy person...Be distant for awhile and see If theres any progress.If there is try making a change.And don't be so much as a flirt.Sometimes girls don't like a pushy or touchy guy.And the fact the girls you like don't like you isn't your fault.They don't like you like that.So be it.It takes time.Phases...Hope I helped~!
~*~Lacey~*~
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I am not pretty at all ,what so ever, I'm short and skinny. I don't have many friends and am not popular. Also my teeth are all messed up and can't get braces for a while. How can I get friends and be prettier? (link)
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Well If you think you can improve your social life then you might want join some clubs.Or join a sport or activity you like.Maybe talk to some people you haven't met.If you think your too skinny maybe gain a few pds.But don't gain too much.Also If you think you could improve your physical feature maybe try new things like do something new with your hair straighten it make it wavy and such.Put make-up on...Not too much or it will look tacky or whoreish like.Well hope I helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest?? (link)
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You should really start considering STOPPING maybe.I mean this isn't a big issue for you just started...But then again it's addictive.Not that I ever did It (I haven't) But I know how It is.How once you start It's hard to stop.But seriously,You need to stop.Either by talking to an adult or guidance counselor or your friends.Maybe an active sport or club.Anything for you to get you out of all the influence and such...Well this isnt really answering your question but I'm giving you the Right answer.Hope I helped...
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is 12 too young to wear thongs? (link)
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It all depends on the purpose...If you just want attention from guys and such ...I think It's a bit young...But If you wear them for panty lines.Also there's no true age to start wearing them.And you have to have permission from your parents.Personally I started wearing them in 7th...And had permission.As long as your comfortable wearing them It's okay...Hope I helped!!
~*~Lacey~*~
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im fat!!!!!! what do i do!?!?! (link)
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If you think your obsese or such you should start exerising more and eating more healthy.Maybe exerising like 3 times a week?As much as possible and maybe jog some on your spare time.Hope I helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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ok i feel like my life is so outta hand..and i jus want a boyfriend to love me for who i am..im tired of impressing people..i jus wanna be me..and all i can think about lately is GUYS! i like this guy that has a gf but i dont wanna lik him but i cant get over him...and theni like my old bf ALOT because we flirt alot but my BEST friend likes him...so what should i do? i kno is sounds lik nothin..but i need help.. (link)
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Well...first of all this guy you like...does he like you back...?Does he seem happy with his g/f?You should talk to him about...Does he really like his g/f...dont be too obvious though.And your ex...Is he involved with anyone too?And your bestfriend...Does he seem to flirt with her too.Well talk to him about it...See how to fix things out...Well hope i helped!
~*~Lacey~*~
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okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him? (link)
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Basically talk to him alot more than you do usually and flirt with him a lil more.And if he flirts back then you might have a chance.Maybe talk to him on the phone every once in a while.Hope i helped...
~*~Lacey~*~
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ill make it short..i like this guy and he likes me but i have a boyfriend and my bf NEVER talks to me should i dump my boyfriend?
~please help!~ (link)
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Well If your boyfriend never talks to you maybe he's not interested and you should might start considering to break up with him...But don't go to the guy you like quite right after.See if your boyfriend truely likes you and is still interested...Do you even like your boyfriend?See which you perfer better.Go on from there. Hope I helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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my bf of about 3 months cheated on me [lost his virginity to some drunk girl] he wasnt sober, but he wasnt drunk... and i broke up with him wen i found ouut... but i still have feelings for him, and it hurts to see him flirting wit other girls... even tho he mainly flirts wit me. its all really confusing cause he doesnt want to go out wit me agen, in case he hurts me agen or sumthin... w/e, but we're lyk always flirting, and he still holds me and kisses me... and idk wut to do, all my frends say to get over it and not to fall for him agen... but i cnt help it, wut shud i do ? (link)
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Well one reason he could be flirting with you is to use to for whatever reason.But then again he doesnt want to commit to you or he will cheat on you again.So if you can't trust him again then i guess thats not a healthy relationship.Even though you have feelings for him sometimes you got to just let go...Well hope i helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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ok there is this guy...and i fell in love with him..but then he was really bogus...im not gonna tell the whole story..but lets jus say he "cheated" he told me he was sorry and i forgave him but then he did it again...ive been thru a lot of shyt because of him...should i forget about him? or forgive him adn give him one last chance? (link)
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Okay i understand the first time he broke your heart but the second time?You gave him another chance and he failed it ..If he made you go through alot of stuff then i dont think he's worth it...thats my opinion anyways...I tried my best...
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i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out? (link)
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Don't be in a rush you know?Take it slow.Approach the guy you like in a casual manner.and start making a conversation...don't make it too obvious,but mention who he likes and if he gets a bit quiet then he might like you.hope i helped
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I dont know how to make friends. I dont really belong anywhere in school i just talk to who ever is around. The group i want to fit in with doesnt seem to pay attention to me and i dont know how to become friends with them. Can you help me with that? (link)
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Sometimes you have to explore other groups and maybe approach them and try to get to know them.If they can't accept the person you are then I guess you can make other friends
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