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Hey, I'm kristy/kristina, whatever you wanna call me. My friend sarah started one of these and told me to and it looks fun.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Age: 16
Member Since: April 27, 2005
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Last Update: May 23, 2005
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when ever i run the mile fer gym im always dead by the first lap - still knowing i have like 3 more to go - anything i could do to improve my time and keep me lasting longer ? (link)
I used to have that problem, then I ran on the tredmill everyday and you can time yourself that way. Pace yourself, don't run, and relax, listen to music that helps me.


my parents really want me to get more active and get into a sport but they just dont realize how hard it is to make high school sports and they just think im good enough for anything when im realy not... but i feel like im disappointing them is there anything thats easy to get into where like maybe i wouldnt need to make varisty or jv but more like no tryouts (link)
Track, if you like running, personally not my favorite... But I don't think there are tryouts for that and if so, it's easy to make. I don't know maybe do a CYO sport or something.


doo u have a cell phone? (link)
Nope, mom doesn't let me, I always end up costing her over 100ish.


i had sex which pregnancy test do you recommend and im scared will they let me buy it if im under 18, are you for abortion or what would you do if u actually were pregnant (link)
I've never used a pregnancy test, maybe EPT my friends use that. Yeah they let you buy it whatever age i'm almost positive, and i'm definitely against abortion. Keep the baby.


So i like this one guy and he likes me too, but the thing is i wis kinda 'with' this other guy before and me and the guy i like did stuff so i told the guy i was with that and he got pissed caus he likes me but i really dont like him like that and hes all mad and stuff but i dont know what to do (link)
Okay I think I got that..haha, um well if by "with" you mean going out then techniqually you cheated, and he has a right to be mad. You're going to hurt one of either way, so just see what makes more sense to you. Follow your heart. But keep in mind other people's feelings, it might be best to not get involved with either.


is it weird to think death is exciting? (link)
A little...


ok i know you have a lot of friends so its gona be hard to relate to this but i feel like no one cares about me at all i have friends and all but none of them seem to even notice when im down and they just arent real friends or anything is there anything i can do .. (link)
A lot of people can be like that, but most of them are just waiting to be told of your problems, and some just can't read people. I would try and just talk to them and explain that to them, i'm sure they would care, and if they don't then who needs 'em? If you ever wanna talk IM me or just come up to me:)


hi i go 2 victor and as you know theres alot of skaters that all do pot and then the ones that arent are preppy..and they all do pot too. is there anyone in our school thats not fucking addicted to some shit? (link)
Haha I totally agree with you, the majority of our school is definitely on something. I hang out with some of them they're cool and everything but it's pretty disgusting how they do that. But yes there actually are some guys that don't do it, and their my friends, and they're amazing.


Hey Kristy, There is this thing in my past that I deeply regret more than anything in the world. It bothers me all the time, and I can never get my mind off it. I just find myself always wishing to go back and change this one little thing that turned my life into this. I really need your help, thanks. (link)
Stop thinking of the past! No matter how much you wish to go back it will never happen, focus on now and what you can do to make things better.

Regret Nothing, Live for Everything.


did you really used to cut yourself? i dont believe you thats personal, or did you just decide to say that for attention like always? haha yeah thats what we thought (link)
Actually I did, only twice though. I know it's personal but I stopped and I was only trying to help someone, and I don't look for attention that way so obviously you don't know me.


r you ever going to respond to the advice? I want to talk to u, i go to your school but im sort of nervous u seem like u dont like me.

:( (link)
Talk to me!!! If I seem like that then I totally don't mean to, just come up to me and start talking, i'm pretty much cool with everyone. :)


i was watching the oc the other night and that girl reminded me so much of you!! the blonde chick that hooked up with trey! i was like kristy!! shes really pretty! just like everything about her..just totally reminded me of you! the only reason im telling you is cause you watch it! but yeah i just felt like saying that, you should be on that show ur like perfect for it you got the whole drama attitude and looks and your an actor right!? yea i just think you would be good, oh by the way whens ur play for that musical thing? dates and stuff, i would come! ok bye!! (link)
I don't know whether to be flattered or insulted? Thanks I guess, cause yeah she's pretty, but she's also a slut so I don't know where you got that from. I don't really act, the musical is postponed cause of some issues. Thanks, bye.


do you delete any entres? if you do b.c like people are shit talkin you then you dont havta b.c we all kno that your really nice and its not true its just funny to see people talk shit about you when your like perfect and better than them! ♥ (link)
The only thing I do is i'll sometimes just skip over some that aren't really asking for advice but yeah some are shit talking me, I don't delete them because of that but more cause this is an advice column not some guestbook or whatever, so yeah.


Hey I heard youre not a virgin, did you use condoms and birth control? Or what? And where did you do it, like I want to but I have no place I could! :/ (link)
A condom, i've never done birth control. I normally would do it at my boyfriends house.


im really falling apart in school i cant concentrate and i dont do my hw. i try but im so lazy and i just cant concentrate and if i do it then im just so eager to finish to i can be my lazy ass self again. my grades are rapidly slipping and im gonna fail and im just a wreck about it cause i cant concentrate!!! i dont have add either lol..but yea what do you recommend? (link)
Sounds exactly like me last year. Everyone has their lazy moments, but what I recommend is doing it someplace not so distracting, like the living room or kitchen. I used to do it in my room and the computer would always bother me and my pictures & posters and things. But whenever I do it in another room I always get a lot done.


people are like not even asking u for advice there just asking questions about u and stuff lol..but unlike them i have a question that i need advice... me and my friends were downstairs the other night and went to the fridge and there were like 9 beers or something and they all wanted to try it ((there were 4 of us)) and i knew my parents would notice and stuff so i said no but they kept like going at it and i know its peer pressure and shit but i gave in besides i wanted to so we drank one each then we wanted more so we had another one so there is one left!! and neither of my parents have gone down yet because we dont really use it alot but im so scared like they are gonna kill me what should i do.... (link)
Fess up, honesty is important, especially when you tell the truth before you're caught. Unless you can think of an excuse as to why 8 beers are missing, then that seems like the best way. I don't know, if you have siblings, blame it on them? Haha that's bad advice but I don't know what else to tell you. Parents have to know by now that their kids are gonna drink no matter what they say, if I were you i'd take all the blame though, or else your parents might not allow you to see your friends, but who knows..it depends how protective they are. Hope I helped!


i hate my life (link)
I know, things in life can be bitches. But I rather think of it this way- don't say you hate life, because there are alot of good things but more that you hate situations. It just helps me when I feel depressed.


hey i got you'r website from joanna im from n. carolina i dn how i got this but whats ur name and like where do u live in new york and stuff (link)
I don't know a joanna or anyone from north carolina, but I went there for spring break. I didn't give out my screen name though so I have no idea how you or your friend got this but it's alright. I live in upstate New York.


when r u gonna update ur site and lj? (link)
I have pictures to put on webshots so i'll do that soon, and i'll do my livejournal soon too!


hello; what type of make up do you use? i like it...

ps. are you really pregnant
pps. would you be willing to help me out with my livejournal w.o a name and stuff jus over this?

thanks if you can; byee. (link)
Hi! I use lancome eye liner, shadow, & lip gloss, and maybelline mascara. No i'm not, and yeah I can but it would be hard over this but if you don't want to give your name then you can talk to me through a different screen name or whatever, doesn't matter to me.




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