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hey guys! i'm christie aka kris. i'm 14, i live in louisville and i have brownish hair. i'M single n lOokin! but anyway. i started this advice column because people IM me all the time with their peoblems and i try my best to solve them. and my friends think i give good advice so that's why i started this page. so if you ever need some advice you know where to come. i'll give advice to anyone! and if you don't want it shown on my column then just email me your problem/question. although i do encourage you to put it in my column, but you don't have to if you feel discomforted. so i'll try my best to respond to every question as soon as possible with my best effort to answer it. thanks for visiting. come back soon and always know that i'm here for you!
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hey! one of my best friends lyks this guy. and well he lyks me, and i kinda lyk him. but i dont know whether i should just stay friends with him or wut! please help me!
--------so confused!-------
well i kno who this is! lol and i'm going to tell you what i told you before. if you like the guy and he likes you, go out with him! if he doesn't like your best friend why make her wait around for him? plus i already know she has someone in line that really likes her, but she said yes but not right now when he asked her out. so if you go out with him then that'll make her forget about that guy and go to the guy that she said yes to. everyone's happy! and i also know that you best friend is considered the "hottest girl in our eighth grade class" so she has all the guys. why not keep one for yourself? she has plenty to run too. i kno i didn't help much because i've already told you this a million times, but o well. if you ever need any other advice you know where to come!
lots of love,
kris
hey thanks for your help I realized I like my boyfriend better and I should stay with him because the other guy would probably cheat or break up with me to fast and I think me and my boyfriend really have something going! Thanks for your advice it really helped!
no problemo! thanks for writing to me. i'm glad you came to me. if you ever need anything else, you know where to find me.
lots of love,
kris
ok..i have a boyfriend right that i like very much but the other day i went out without him because he couldn't go and i hung out with this boy that i used to like but now i only think hes cute. well while i was with out we kinda flirted n now he likes me after i got a boyfriend and i used to like him a lot but i dont think i should dump my boyfriend for him because he's a flirt and messes round with every girl n usually neva has a girlfriend! so u think i should stick with my boyfriend or go out with the biggest flirt.
well you said that you only think that this boy is cute so why go out with him? if you really like your boyfriend stick with him! just because this guy is cute doesn't mean he's boyfriend material. trust me! so stick with your boyfriend. it seems like you like him way more anyways and just need a second opinion. hope i helped. tell me how it turns out.
yours truly,
kris
I have this "friend"that talks behind my back!!! she even said she hated me, to my other friend!!!I don't know what i did?!! When i try to talk to her all she does is say "i don't need advise I'm not rude so shutup!!!" I think she is also a show off to impress me and my best friend!! How can i solve this?!!!
this so called "friend" of yours isn't really acting friendly. i think you should talk to her about it. tell her you know that she talks about you behind your back and that you think it's rude and don't think that's being a good friend. if she lies and says she doesn't then tell her that you guess you were lying when you said you were friends. hope i helped. tell me how it goes.
yours truly,
kris
i have just moved to a new skool, and i have noticed that most of the girls at my skool like me. now i just got here and wont be here for long and hardly know any of them. and it's really obvious on who likes me cause i often find them staring at me then they stop when i see they are. i wanna know wat i should do about this.... i'll rate i guess if its good
Lonely Guy,
i know you're only gonna be there for a little while, but why not try dating. i mean if you like one of these girls why not go for it. just explain to her that you may not be there for a long time so it might be a short term relationship. if she understands, date her. it won't hurt to try it. hope i helped. tell me how it goes.
yours truly,
kris
Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do?
just because you two aren't still together doesn't mean you can't be friends. try talking to her and telling her how you feel. tell her that you miss her. and want her back. i've been through that too with my boyfriend. we went out for three months. broke up over the summer because he thought i cheated on him (didn't). i realized i really missed him, told him that, and lucky for me he felt the same and we've been goin out for about a year now. so just go for it. hope i helped. write back and tell me how it works out.
yours truly,
kris
ok i like my boyfriend a lot but he's shorter then me and im afraid if i go somewhere with him and my friends they will make fun of me.So should i stay with him or dump him for that stupid reason?
if you like your boyfriend a lot DON'T DUMP HIM! who cares what your friends think! it's your boyfriend not theirs! i've been in the same situation. my friends did make fun of me, but i didn't care. i went out with him because i liked him, not because of his height. so if they do make fun of his height stand up to them. tell them that you go out with him not them. so why should they care how tall or short he is. hope i helped!
yours truly,
kris
I like this boy called Daniel, but I don’t know what to do! Today in PE my friends were saying, "Let’s call Lauren's (my) crush Daz, as a code name. As in Daniel" (they have these sad code names for the boys they fancy, like carrot and cabbage). I didn't tell them that I fancied him, but they must know, and plus in art, one of them asked if I fancied Dan. I shook my head but I was smiling a bit so I guess they knew =( I'm really scared they'll tell him! he said he liked my drawing in art, and that it was better than his, and he kept touching my foot with his foot under the desk too. and my friend was making fun of me, and he stuck up for me, then he said "I'm only defending Lauren" when my mate asked why. that was a few days ago, and now he's just ignoring me (I think he was looking at me, but I was scared I would start blushing if I looked at him, so I guess I'm ignoring him too) I'm real shy + ugly lol so I don’t know what to do! I'd love to go out with him but I'm scared my friends would laugh because they always fancy popular, 'hard' boys who get into fights. Dan is really sweet and mature. and plus he probably doesn’t even like me =/ any easy tips on flirting for SHY people? 'Cos I’m not good at flirting lol =\ please help? Thanks =)
i think you should try to make the first move. a lot of guys are too shy to make the first move and feel much more comfortable if the girls does. don't worry what anyone thinks either. who cares! you're your own person. and about your friends. don't worry about them. they're probably just jealous of him stickin up for you. they just sound immature. hope i helped! tell me how everything works out!
yours truly, kris
hey. i sometimes feel like that i pick my boyfriend over my friends. like my friends have been talkin about it behind my back..like theyve been talkin 2 each other sayin --megan always ignores us for todd-- n stuff like that n now that i think about it i really think that i do. i dont want it 2 get 2 me n like not hang out with my boyfriend bcuz i love him sooo much!! so wat should i do about my friends??
this is a difficult situation that i, myself, have been in. it is hard to spend an equal amount of time with your friends and your boyfriend. and you shouldn't have to pick which one to hang out with. try to spend time with your friends and your boyfriend at the same time. if that doesn't work just talk to your friends about it. they'll understand. they're probably just jealous of how much time you spend with him, but they have to understand and look at how much time you spend with them too. if you ever need anything else just write me.
yours truly,
kris