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I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??!

Well first off if your cousin knew EXACTLY how you felt about this guy she shouldn't of done that and considering the fact she did shes very rude and what s he did was WRONG.. and things will NEVER EVER be the same between ya'll for along time... i have had that happen to me befire and i have seen it happen with tons of friends.. but just keep being strong and make sure this guy knows EXACTLy how yyou feel about him and all you can do is fight for what you want and if you dont get what you want in the end at least you can say you tried your hardest and you should be proud of yourself for trying and not giving up till there was nothing else left to do..

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