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I've been threw alot in my 19 years any subject you can think of death, love, family, friends all the dramatic things.
Gender: Female
Location: Ct.
Age: 19
Member Since: January 19, 2005
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Over the weekend I did a really stupid thing. Ive been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now and nothing has every happened romantically between us. It crossed my mind a few times but nothin ever came of it. Anyways over the weekend we slept together. he has a girlfriend and i feel really bad. i never really had feelings for him but now i do and he told his girlfriend about it and he wants to try to stay with her. We havent really talked about why it happened and whether we have feelings for each other or not. I want to talk to him about it but i want to bring it up without looking like im clingy and all "where is this going" kind of annoying.
I really dont know what to do. Any advice would help. Thanks (link)
the only reason you have feelings for him now is because you slept with him. he has a girl, and he wants to stay with her you should try and talk to him but if you two were drinking then its a shame that happened and try not to let mess up your friendship


Alright my friend is so happy with her boyfriend they have been together for 5 years and are getting engaged... well whenever i hang out with them i kind of get jealous and sad because the way they act.. i wanna be loved too.... and i love this one guy, not my friends boyfriend another guy. and he acts like he likes me I mean holding my hand kissing me... ect. But... it makes me want my guy even more when I am with my friend and her boyfriend... I miss him so much.. but I dont wanna make my friend mad what should I do?? (link)
Be happy for your friend, she would be happy for you. Yoyr time will come and who knows maybe when its turn she'll be alone.




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