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i want to enter my horse in the Brook Fair race but she dosent like to ride alone how can i make her feel better by herself HELP ME I DONT HAVE MUCH TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 (link)
Well, start taking her out on the road or trails by herself, and make her feel comfortable by herself.
But do not let her try to run back to the barn or where ever you keep her, if she does turn her in the opposite direction and make sure that your in charge, don't let her take over you, you have the reins.

And whenever she's doing things that you want her doing, pet her neck, relax on the reins/bit, and keep rewarding her for the right things she's doing.


I love horseback ridin and have had many experiences with horses trying to control me instead of them. ;]

Hope I helped.
-Ginger.


ok i need help asap! this guy that i really really really like well we've been talking for like forever now about doing stuff. and i already promised him i would. like promised for sure. but now i'm getting really nervous about it.. like i'm scared to death, but i really want to do stuff, stuff as in i'm going to give him a blow job and he's going to finger me. i've never done any of this so please help me! any tips on what to do?, how to make it not awkward?, and how to not be so nervous? thanks a ton! (link)
Honestly, if I was in your position...I wouldn't do anything until after ya'll are dating. Because most likely, the guy is just gonna be like "Ohhh Yeah, She Did This To Me...And I Did This To Her" and brag to his friends, and just run off with it. And for you being nervous, I've been thinking about it (hopefully not doing that in the near future... maybe in a couple of months or so w/ my boyfriend) and I'm scared to death too.. not sure if I'm ready or not... lol. :)

So if you do, do stuff with this guy... give me some tips. :)


My ex-boyfriend hates my guts to say the least, I'm okay with that. I've got alot of new friends and more importantly, guy friends :] Anyways, the problem is, he's taking alot of my old friends away from me. They disregard the fact that he slept with another girl while dating me, and flirt with him anyways. I can't even go to my bus stop anymore because three of his friends (my old friends) are there, all the ever do is talk about him to make me mad. I'm not sure what to do, it takes all of my energy to hold back punching them all in the faces. (link)
If I were you, I would give them a reason to talk about you. And go up to your ex and say "Look we dated... now its over... you cheated on me... I don't care anymore... so get over yourself and leave me alone... I'm done with your shit..."
Hope I helped.


Alright well I like this guy , and I always try to find a reson to talk to him.When should/what should I say to him ? He's the loud type , so ussually I just comment/ask about something he yelled/said loudly.He's also pretty smart , could I ask him for help ? he sits 1 desk behind me. in English / homeroom / math and 3 desks in front of me in History.I don't know what to say to him on msn.this is the typical convo :

me: heey .
him:hey
me: whats up .?
him: nm u?
me: nm just [what I'm doing]
him: ic

Then I'll just bring up something , or ask about homework / school. and sometimes he'll talk like crazy but most times he doesn't.What should I talk about ?!?! (link)
Haha, this totally reminds me before me and my current boyfriend started dating. Well we talked exactly like that for months. Then one night I was kidding around with him and just started asking him questions about himself, and asked him what he liked in a girl... i felt like an idiot after asking that but then he told me what he liked in a girl... so then once you see him at school, just smile or just say hey to him in public and eventually ya'll will become friends and hopefully more than that. :) Good luck!


if you're going out with someone, not blind dates but the date that you go because you like each other, do you automatically become boyfriend and girlfriend? or does that depend on the couple? (link)
Honestly, I wouldn't consider you two dating until he's actually asked "will you be my girlfriend" line.

I'm in the same shoes as you right now, lol.




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