I am just a girl. I am no special person. My friends have always asked me for advice, I have always been pretty good at giving it. I am a Christian. Sometimes that influences my advice, sometimes it doesn't. My mother has always told me I should work for a teen help hotline. I love helping people, it makes me feel like I'm useful.
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Age: 17
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I have a lot of guy friends...but they are all FRIENDS.
I want them to notice me more as someone they could go out with...rather than a good friend.
I'm not tomboyish or anything...I'm not a bimbo..not a whore..slut.. or anything like that.
I'm just normal..I look like a girl...act like one that's it.
So any tips would be much appreciated.
15/F (link)
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Well the fact that guys want to be your friend shows that there is something right! about you. Guys like someone they can talk to. The next time you are around the guy you like try showing him you think of him as more than a friend by touching his arm or holding his gaze longer than neccessary. DONT change who you are to get guys to notice you.
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k, well. i dated this guy and we had a really serious relationship; like to the point that i thought i acctually loved him, and im only in 8th grade, so i know i couldnt have been. but, we dated for almost a year and now ever since that i can't find someone to math with what we had. i mean, i really like this one guy but well its complicated. but he doesnt want to date, but i feel im ready for a relationship. and like, for a couple months now i feel kind of.. eh. un social? and i don't flirt as much as i used to. and i mean, im not saying i want a relationship with someone becase i flirted with them, and i know that if i want a good relationship i need to find someone that likes me for me and blah blah blah; ive heard it. but i mean, how could i flirt without being slutty but also being kind of serious. like, i need alot of options. like, things i could say things i could do. but, i also want to have fun doing it and not drive the guys away.
anything will help. (link)
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Right now it may feel as if a relationship is the most important thing. Honestly just be yourself around guys. Laugh, have fun, go to dances, enjoy it. Eventually the right one will notice how fun and easygoing you are and want to be around you. DONT try to flirt. Just be natural and you will have more fun. dont over analyze it.
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I am 16 and a girl and need just a little advice...When i first moved to this house i saw this 1 guy at my bus stop in 8th grade that was like3 yrs ago. and he also rode my bus in 9th and 10th grade and i REALLYYYYYYY like him even when i first saw him, but now in 11th grade he doesnt ride my bus and i wanted to finally talk to him this yr to see if he actually liked me back, now i never see him and i have not 1 clue on what to do! i seriously think that he is like the cutest guy that i have ever seen and i just need some advice on what to do.please help, thanks. (link)
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Since you don't see him on the bus anymore, try to find another casual place to speak to him. If that works,first try to establish regular conversation with him. If that seems to go well, flirt a little and see how he reacts. If all systems appear to be go...go for it and tell him you like him. DONT come straight out and tell him how madly in love you have been for three years, this will only scare him away.
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