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hey yall my name is ashley im 14 and have blonde hair and blue eyes and go to Lee Freshman i love hanging out with all my friends! i know what your going through so you can tell me anything:D

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ok ive known this guy for about 3 months and we have been going out for 1 month Ive been called a slut before and i was wondering what u would consiter a slut in that situation?

what were you called a slut before for?

ok well in my openion i think you moved a little fast for only knowing eachother two months but if yall really like eachother go ahead....

ok and now for the slut part
what boundries do you have... make sure you have some dont let the guy think that youll give it up for him ! Make him work for it lol
ok well i dont think you should go too far since its only been a month that may seem to be a long time but its really not !

ok and who are the people calling you a slut .. Dont let them talk about you like that its none of their business !

hope i helped write me bk if you want
Ash

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ok what if like some girls at school like me but i dont really like them and the one girl i do like doesnt like me but we r friends and she has a bf so that sucks what should i do

well in the frist place if you dont like the girl that likes you you need to tell her ! dont just keep letting her think you like her you know what i mean ???

then about the girl that has a boyfriend tell her you never know she might have feelings for you too but dont break her and her bf up just wait and see her reaction to all this !
hope it works out
Ash

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who ever that dude is with the hair problem is an idiot...

well who ever this is is an even bigger idiot cuz you dont even know that person !

Ashley

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ok, my bestfriend resently got a boyfriend and now she is ALWAYS talking 2 him or talking about him! and i feel like i am getting replaced, i have told her a couple of times and she has said she was really sry! wut should i do? go find another best friend? wut?

no no no dont go find another best friend i promise your not being replaced jut give it time and everything will cool down i know you have other friends so maybe give them a little space but dont totally give up on her !

put yourself in her shoes i bet you would be doin the same thing!

Ash

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i am a guy that works out alot i start on my jv football team as a freshmen and am in great shape right now i am about 6ft tall and all muscle.... but the problem is that i have alot of hair on my chest and stomach i am a little insecure about it and i was wondering if that is a turn off??

ok well to me i dont like the whole harry thing its kinda gross but i dont wanna make you feel bad i mean you cant help it ! but thats soo awesome that your on jv as a freshman you must be good .... where do you go to school ?

but to answer your question yes but theres no need to feel insecure about it i mean some girl might think that hott! im not sure though
hope i helped Ash

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I th ink you are really pretty and i would like to meet you and hang out with you, but we have never met. so my question is ehat is the best way for me to get to know you and become your freind?

just talk to me .... but right now i have a boyfriend! soo maybe we could just hang out .....
Love ya Ashley

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ok i am the new kid and there is this girl that i like and she likes me. All my friends says that shes a slut and that she is gross. But i have talked to her and she says that it is all rumors. And everytime i hug her or talk to her everyone yells ewww should i worry about what other people think or what i think? cause i dont want to have a bad reputationand be the new kid

NO if your a good friend you would care or listen to those rumors and believe what the girl says
i mean im not calling you a bad person if you dont want to hang out with this girl because of her rep but dont you think since this girl has soo many rumors going around about her that she needs a friend?

on the other hand yes when some one has a bad reputation sometimes you can get the same one but thats only if you do the things that got her that reputation

hope i made since
love Ash

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i firgued it out no thanxs to you stupid blonde ahahaha you got punkd your frequilty confused dude

um... ok im sorry i didnt help you
Ash

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okay ashley..i think im too fat..and i havent eaten for over 5 days now..is this bad?
im reall unsecure

ok well the first thing you need to do is eat
not eating wont make you skinny seriously like it shuts down your matabolism or whatever and you dont lose any weight! do that wont help and next if you wanna lose weight try working out like if you really want to do this ill help you but you need to eat ..... tyl going on a diet i mean in my openion they dont work like.... running or doing crunches is the best thing and try eating healthy

write back if you want help ill be glad to
ASh

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Okay, there's this guy that i have gone out with before..it was in like the 7th grade. We broke up, and i started going out with this other guy for a LONG time..well we broke up, and now him and that other "guy" best friends.. That other guy and I have started to talk again..but im worried about screwing up their friendship..i just need some help..so i thought id just see waht you had to say.

ok im guessing your in 9th grade .... lol ..... and which guy have you started going back out with ....

ok well as long as your not leading on guy on like flirting with one while going out with the other i think your good

ASh

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Ok, so there's this guy(i'll make up name or it may get confusing----billy)...and he is VERY cute and im pretty sure i like him A LOT!....but then theres this other guy(timmy)..that i went out with for like a year and a half...but we broke up over the summer..and im pretty sure i have feelings for billy...but everytime that timmy starts liking another girl...i get sorta jealous?! is that because i still like timmy...or is it because its hard for me to realize hes not mine nemore...or what do u think is my problem?!
--CoNfUsEd

ok well you have to ask yourself this are you over timmy ......because if not and you get with billy then you always ganna be thinkin about timmy know what i mean ?


ok then you need to notice that if you really liked this guy billy that you wouldnt even be thinking about you last boyfriend i know its hard but its the truth


so what i think is that you need to move on from timmy and go for new things !

hope i helped
Love Ash

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you should know who this is, if your not, your a skankmuffin who deserves to be eaten :D

Okay, but im not mentally stable(as you sure should know) and how would you break that to someone you loved and you would rather them not worry about you anymore than they have to?

ok well im not so sure what you mean by mentally unstable so im ganna go by what i think it means lol sry if it has nothing to do with what you mean......

well if the person that you love loves you back there is no way that you can make them not worry about you know what i mean ??

but if you need help you should tell that person and they could help you through it its always nice to have someone helping you through the hard times....


write back
Ash

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hey this is the guy that liked that gurl with the boyfriend for a year well yea any ways ive moved on thanx but im going to homcoming with this gurl and like i lik was not sure if i was intressted in her romanticly then when i found out that she might not be intressed i realized i was intressted should i go for the 2 point conversion or or forfit

its a different gurl

why dont you just use names? cuz its sooo confusing you dont have to use yours .... or you can just make up some names i dont care im just confused
Ash

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NOOOOO!!!! differewnt gurl

huh ?
write me back
Ashley

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I think i love you Ahley Neal and if you can figure out who this is i will give you a biiiiiiiiiiigggggggggggggggggggggggggg hug ok?But u have to figure out who this is ok?talk to u wheneva'ok? i have to put a ? at the end to make it like a question?ok?

yeah i have no idea who this is but that sweet why dont you just tell me your name?
Ash

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why are people gay ?????

i dont know ?

Ashley

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hey this is the guy that liked that gurl with the boyfriend for a year well yea any ways ive moved on thanx but im going to homcoming with this gurl and like i lik was not sure if i was intressted in her romanticly then when i found out that she might not be intressed i realized i was intressted should i go for the 2 point conversion or or forfit

hahah well you have two choices
you can either show her you have moved one and go with her to homecomming as friends like do you really want to get back into all that ... remember how hard it was to get over her?
or you can tell her that you like her again!
write me bk if you need more
AShely

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ashley,
i really really really like this guy at school. i just started talking to him but he's known that i've liked him since last year, i can't really tell if he likes me or not. he's always staring at me, and making more
conversations with me. but then e's subbosably gong to homecoming with someone else but i don't know if it's true or not....should i just forget about this guy or not?

allrighty .....
well its not hard to find out if hes really going to homecomming with someone so just ask around , but just because there going to homecomming doesnt mean they like eachother in that way ( i just told this to someone) they could just be going as friends.... but dont forget about the guy just show him you like him i mean flirt start hanging out with him tell him to call you if hes doing something that night and if he does like you he'll start talking to you more ... i mean youll just know if he does
hope that helped
Ashley

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What if I just started liking this one girl because to me she seems like a pretty good girl to hang out with and she is super hot, what steps do i need to take to have it to where me and her go out for a while? She doesnt have a boyfriend either i checked with one of her friends? What do i need to do? i need it asap.

well if you have known her for a while you just just call her but if you just met her or something like that ( like you dont have her number) ask her i mean its not a big deal ..... then start hanging out with her like ask her to do something with you one weekend but dont just ask her out untill she het comfertable with you like get to know her first get a friendship going

Love Ashley

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Can u tell me how to make my shot automatic and i know how likes u do you?

who .... who ... tell me hahah
i dont play gaa
hahah just kiding
Ashley

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