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hey everybody! My name is anna. I know life can be confusing at times, so if you ever get down and want some questions answered. ASK AWAY! I'm here. I'll listen. Thanks.
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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early?
Children are often curious of their body. There is nothing wrong with exploring your own body. It is kind of strange that at 5 years old you masturbated, but hey, different people start at different times. Its absolutely normal. Don't let anybody make you feel as if you're a freak of some sort. Because you're not. Theres nothing wrong with scrutinizing the female body, especially while you're growing older and experiencing puberty. So as the famous crusaders says "Let's explore!". heh. =)
Hope i helped,
anna
My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!
What do i do?? please help...i rate high.
Thanks so much..
Wow, it makes me mad to know that men like this are actually in this world. Egh. Okay well first of all i'm so sorry to hear that your whole family has to deal with this kind of bullshit. Nobody should have too. Your mom probably has a low self-esteem and can't stand up and leave this guy because of the thought that nobody else would ever love her again.
Question: Where is your father? Or is this man your father?
I suggest that you take matters into your own hands. Either try to find a man better for you mom, or just talk to her. Sit her down alone and bring your whole family. Show her how much this is affecting you. And how its def. affecting her relationship with you. Show her, make her see it. I hope it all works out. Keep in touch.
*anna*
if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??
Heh. Thats probably the most common question anybody has. No you're not a slut. You're just a girl having fun. Who can blame you? I know from personal experience. You're not a slut, and if somebody claims that you, they're just ignorant. Forget them.
Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs.
ah! what are you doing?! don't do that! why on earth would you do that?! heh. if you dont want pubic hair there are ways of getting rid of them, such as wax,shaving,etc...yes even for guys. but dont pull on them! that will cause infection, and thats no good.
My friend and i have been friends forever! and now were not so close anymore. is that bad?
No sweetie its not bad at all.
People change, its normal. I think your friend and you are just growing up, seeing that you are different people now. I know its hard but just try to hang out with different people. You and your friend are just growing apart. It's normal. You're growing up. Try talking to your friend. If it gets worse, then it wasn't meant to be. Everything always happens for a reason. =)
*anna*