Okay. First, I am bisexual, not confused. I went out with this really amazing girl. Seriously. I was so happy, and I truely wanted it to last forever. But, I then, starting doubting this after a few things happened. So, now I am going out with this other girl. See, I already went out with the girl I am with right now. Seriously, I am starting to doubt this to, and I miss my ex-girlfriend. Now, this could just be me. So, I guess it could be just pressure, but what should I do?
Well all ii knoe to say iis follow your heart and qo out wiith whiich ever one makeSz yooh happiie. ii mean ii would say qo back out wiith your ex because iif yooh`ve went out wiith the qurl your wiith before and iit diidn`t work then iit miite not work aqaiin. But ii dono what else to saii reeliie ... =/
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ok well this might sound weird .. but my best friend has given head .. and like a lot of my friends have too ( their boyfriends ) and like i now just have a boyfriend and im kind of getting an urge to do " stuff " with him .. but hes not one of those people that want to things like that .. how should i tell him i wanna do stuff with him but not pressure him into something he doesnt wanna do..
Well just, ii quesSz liike, try a move. Well nevermiind ii take that back. Just talk to hiim about iit. Just tell hiim that your wantiinq to try stuff and that iif he dosen`t want to do iit he dosen`t have to, that yall can take thiinqSz slow.
... Hope ii helped =/
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My friend dresses like a guy and..idk i feel sometimes embarrased around her because shes so guyish and i know she can be really pretty but she just doesnt try what do i do?!?!
Well sometiimeSz lesbiianSz dresSz liike quySz or then aqaiin, tomboiiSz. But thereSz reeliie nothiinq yooh can do except tell her how pretty she iiSz nd eveverythiinq nd ii mean iif that dosen`t work then thereSz reeliie nothiinq yooh can do cause she`Sz qunna dresSz how she wantSz too.
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hey.. well there is this guy that i really like. We only went out for about a month, but i liked him for more than a year. He dumped me for this girl who he has been dating on and off for like 2 years. He says that he doesnt like her anymore, and that he likes me, but he wont do anything.Like dump her or tell her how he feels or anything. So i dont know what to do. Hope you can Help.
Well the onliie thiinq yooh can do iis eiither waiit tiill he doeSz sumthen` about iit, or tell hiim to step up to the plate nd do sumthen` or he`Sz qunna loose out.
Hope ii helped =/
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Well I'm in love with this guy..and I think he might like me too, but the thhing is, I don't know how to tell him how I feel. See..hes oneof those types of guys who dont really like to show very much emotion or let their feelings show. But I am one of those people who like to tell other people how she feels. PLEASE HELP!!
Just talk to hiim on the iinternet or wriite hiim a note nd let hiim knoe how yooh feel about hiim.
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theres this guy i went you with and we broke up and i wanna be with me still but i dont think he wants to be with me
Just tell hiim how yooh feel nd that yooh reeliie liike hiim nd wanna be wiith hiim nd see what he saiiSz.
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well i geuss ill start here... i went out with this guy for a year.. we honestly thought we were gunna be togetehr forever even tho forever doesnt last but it did in his family his mom was wiht his dad since they were my age.. and same with his aunt and uncle.. i basically lived at his house i was never home.. i stopped hanging out with alot of my friend and only seen my bestfriend 3 times like hung out wiht her in that year..we told each other we loved each other and everything but im suicidal and he ahted seeing me cut myself so around my birthday in june he saw cuts on my arm.. and said rpomise me you wont do it again and im big on promise so i said okay i rpomise.. well i got so sick of dealin wiht everything adn was wicked depressed and sad and streesed in ajnuary so i cut.. he seen it and we got into this huge fight it lasted forever but we ened up breakin up.. my question isnt really a question so its okay if you cant help me.. but now hes wiht this gurl and ive never liked her.. and hes known that he told her he loved her and everything its been 5 months since we broke up ive told him so mcuh and everything and i havent dated one guy since we broke up.. he told me i couldnt date anyone in his family and i said fine if you dont date her but then he does anyways..im feelin so lonley and depressed alot of stuff happening wiht friends and family adn hes not there for me anymore.. and hes moved on but im having trouble on doing that is there any advice you can give me to help me mayb move on from all this.. and be stronger.. thanx
Well, My adviice to yooh iis defiinatliie not cut. ii do iit so ii knoe how yooh feel. But cuttiinq dosen`t solve nethanq nd iit has taken meh awhiile to fiiqure that out. Get your liife straiiqht, quiit cuttiinq, Nd then let hiim know that yooh don`t do that nemore nd everythiinq nd tell hiim how yooh * truliie * do feel about hiim nd tell hiim that yooh never meant to hurt hiim. ii went threw that same thiinq wiith mii last boiifriiend. ii dono reeliie what else to say except IM meh iif yooh needa talk =)
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sorry this might be long ill try to make it as short as i can..
well me and my ex friend have been friends for 10 years.. and i know ppl change but shes changed so much shes started sleeping with guys for drugs and is always calling me names like a "cunt" "bitch" "slut" and just anything she backstabes me alot and i cant trust her like i use to.. everyone tells me eveything she says about me and i belive it to.. the thing is about 2 weeks ago i finnaly got fed up with it all and i started treating her the same way she treated me and thought she got the hint i didnt want to be friends with her anymore.. but she didnt so a couple days later she showed up with my other 2 friend and this guy.. and me adn my freiends were in my kitchen and she comes out and is like "krystal" call mike and see if he can get us any alchol 2nite and i found out she slept with him and shes had sex wiht about 14 ppl (not exagerating) and shes in 9th grade and so i go "why amry to get laid again" tryin to be a bitch and she gives me this look and goes how did you know.. anyways so she finnaly figured out i didnt want to be her friend and weve had some fight so i just block ehr on aim and stuff just to get her out of my life bc i dont need her drama..but i feel like im throwing away 10 years of a friendship we had plans to move to cali when we were 17 and gratuated but not anymore.. should i try and be her friend again? or am i doing the right thing?.. thanks
Well beliieve iit or not ii thiink that`Sz the riite thiinq. Yooh shouldn`t qet cauqht up iin alla that stuff. That`Sz just qoiinq to put a bad iinfluiience on yooh. ii knoe iit may be hard to do that to your " best friiend " but sumwhere out there iis sumone who iis way better then that. ii knoe how yooh feel. The same thiinq has happend to meh wiith a qurl ii qrew up wiith nd ii knoe iit`Sz hard but thiinqSz happend nd sumtiimeSz we dono why. But iif yooh wanna talk about iit more just IM meh on AIM or yahoo nd ii`ll help yooh more. Hope ii helped =/
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why are people against blacks n whites datin..its gay
qood questiion. But ii don`t qotta answer for that one =/
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heyy, okay i`lL get right down to my little "problem". There is this guy that i met and he goes to another school and we started liking eachother after awhile, like alot. so i asked around in my school and his and people say he's a bad kid and stuff!! IDK what to do, i want to go out with him but i dont want people to think i`m bad if i do!! PLEASE HELp??
Well all ii can say do iis qo out wiith hiim nd try nd see iif he`Sz reeliie " so bad " but don`t let anybodiie knoe yall are qoiinq out untiill yooh fiind out he iisn`t " so bad ".
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ok theres this guy at my school that i REALLY like and i told him i love him then signed off[on the cmoputer] i dont no wut else i should do
Just talk to hiim at skewl or call hiim nd talk to hiim. Maybeeh he qot kiicked off or somthen`. That happend to meh before but ii mean he diidn`t chanqe the feeliinqSz.
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I am having a problem with trusting one of my friends. She tells me she won't tell but then i hear about it from other people and there like "___ Said it" So i don't know what to do. cuz were like sisters me and her. And she tells me she isn't and idk what to be like.
Well, all ii can tell yooh iis just trust her. ii mean iif she iis your true friiend and everythiinq she wouldn`t liie to yooh. Nd other`Sz are prolliie just jelous of yallSz friiendshiip.
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