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Hey Stephanie! (f.y.i i'm a 14 year old girl)Okay, i've seen you give advice to some of your buds and i wanted to ask you... so i like this guy, a lot, went out with him and broke up... i broke up w. him... and still love the kid to death... he was prolly one of the best things that ever happened to me.. .and i genuinlly care about him... but i broke up with him based on what other people told me.. and now different friends are telling me to go back to him.. and try to "mend the relationship" but what if i just think it's better to have a good, reliable friend that i have a crush on.. as apposed to trying this a second time and commpletely ruining any chances for friendship...?
i mean i was thinkin' about htis quote just a few seconds ago..."... Love like you've never been hurt, and live like there's no tomorow" and i did allow myself to let loose, and love him... for once i let loose and just put myself out on the line... and for some reason i'm not sad... 'cause i feel like i've gained a friend... is somin' wrong with me? (link)
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hey!...no there is definately nothing wrong with you!...i think that IF you reallly truly, genuinely love him, and cant live with out him its best to give him another shot..but if you think if you went out with him a second time and yall are the kind of people who if yall break up you never speak again...then i think yall should just keep it up as being really good friends....always remember....you shouldn't listen to what people say to you...you ahould always confront the person first..here are some quotes...i hope i helped you!!!
"I used to find myself longing and waiting for the future to come...now i long and wait for the past to return...."
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"i love talking about you, because i can never run out of things to say, i never have a bigger smile or louder laugh, and even with everything that i say, im still the only one that understands why I love you."
xoxo stephanie!
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ok my crush is on the "'aol'' i reallly want to talk to him bu ti cant because in some ocasions hes been rude but sometimes he wasent ..should i iam him or not?cause im the one always making te first move and im getting tyred of it (link)
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well...you should just say hey or whats up first but not like tell him your whole life story before he responds first..dont be too annoying and keep it cool...if you need any more tips you can just ask me for more advice ANYTIME!!
xoxo hope i helped a little
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ok so i like this guy but his in high shhool we arent tat good friends att we see each other and say hi and talk ...hes my crush tat i dunt talkt o cause im nervouse and he seems tat way..i like him a lott and i dunt hink nuthign but him in skol.. but should i like hjim cause i only see him on the weekends and im woried tat he has a crush on other girl and i dont even no how he acts w/other girls in skol..i havent seen him w/a girlfriend or gurls wen i see him on the weekends wat should i do..like he seems he likes me wen hes around ma friemds say he likes me cause they see how he stares at me and acts around me.but i dunt now why would he pick me!!if hes in high =skol and could meet other girls better than me..the thing is i m not interested in any of the ghuys in ma skool only HIM..helpp (link)
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RELAX...and calm yourself..i think that you should just talk to him in person....with no people around..and tell him how you feel about him, it seems to me that he likes YOU for who you are instead of the girls that are in high school with him..i have faith that yall will work it out someway or another so you both will be happy!! hope i helped.
xoxoSTEPHANIE
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Ok I have a tought decision on whether to go to college park or the woodlands highschool
THWS i will be starting for 2 years and have really good football but i cant make the baseball team which is complete bullshit because the baseball coaches are complete dush bags and if i cant make it i cant use my talkent and For college park i will have great opputunity smaller class to get in the top ten percent and play varsity everything and ontop of that THe coaches at the TWHS as well as my friends are presuring me to go to the woodlands but my parents and other coaches that are really good and they dont have varsity and everything first year in football what do i do i feel like i battle with this more than i do with other problems? (link)
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ok....i see what kinda situation your in ...i was in the same one..but for cheerleading..lol, i really think that if your main passion is for football then go ahead and go to CP and if you'd rather be with your friends...but if you REALLY want to be in baseball and college park would be easier...then go to cp....follow your heart.i know that you will make a wise choice
xoxo STEPHANIE
(i personally think you should go to cp because i will be a cheerleader there and cheer you on to victory!!)lol
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ok so i reall y like this guy but everime he seems me hes like''i dunt like u '' stop talking to me..and im like ''boy i dunt like you''buit i really do in the inside and hes always rude to me...what do i do should i stop liking him or wat? (link)
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hunny...if he talks to you like that you SHOULDN'T like him!! you dont need his in your life is he is going to act immature!...dont worry, there are plenty of guys out there for you!!xoxo GOOD LUCK!
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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55 (link)
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wow...this sounds exactly like my friend i transferred to public school and we are still great friends like 2 peas in a pod friendship.... there is ALWAYS room for another best friend...DONT REPLACE HER....i hope i helped!!and remember" make new friends and keep the old one is silver and the other gold....."
xoxo STEPHANIE
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i really like this guy at the beggining he likes me and he asked me out buit i said no thne latar in life it all wen t backwaords i liked him but apparently he tought different now ..i lerned tat u appreciate wat u have but we there gone now he moved away really far but ill alwyas have him in my heart wat should i do? (link)
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im sorry to tell you this...but hunny i think you lost him for good! those are a one in a lifetime oppurtunities that you have to take! but dont worry there are plenty of other fish in the sea and one is bound to like you!!
xoxo STEPHANIE
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ok so ma crush seemes like were really crush to huick up we just need to talk but i got a haircut and im scared wat hes gonn asay should i be scared? (link)
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dont be scared! appearance means nothing..its the inside that they look at!
xoxo STEPHANIE
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ok well this gusy i really like he tell people different stuff he tell me nothing he tells my gilfriend he dont like me and he tell his guy friends he does ...whats wrong w/him does he know wat he wat?wat should i do (link)
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go up to him and ask him yourself...he is bound to tell the truth!!
xoxo $tEpH@n!E
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the guy i like its really shy well wen hes by me... not wen his w/his friends why does he change?........but i act the same way towards him like will look down at the floor we we see each other and everywre i go he seems to be there is it atat were starting to have a cruch on each other
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hunny....that is called a crush!!
xoxo STEPHANIE!!
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how do i now if he likes me? (link)
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have your best friend research for you... thats what mine does..and unbelievably....it works..give it a try!!
xoxo stephanie
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ok well advice att my mom gave me its not to chase a guy but then if i dunt chase hi8m h will not be in to me asmuch cause he wont see me so should i chase my chrush or not? (link)
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never force the relationship....it will seem too pushy wait for him to come to...just when you see him in the halls flash a huge smile and if his whole face lights up....hes in...but sont seem desperate...hope i helped a little!
xoxo good luck!
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ok sorry ..well like i said there was a time tat i feelt a chemestry between both of us but then somwtimes i dont ..he always keeps coming bakk to my heart..is it true love or should i just forgett about him... ohh yeah were a year apart we dunt go to the same skol..would tat hurt me...and i also get distracted in skol just thinking abou thim what should i do? (link)
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hunny... we all get into this situation sooner or later look deep inside your heart and see if you really like him...maybe ask one of your best friends to talk to him for you....to ease into it....and age is just a number, dont let that stop you from liking him!! it wouldnt hurt you one bit if yall went to different schools...i went out with a guy for 4 months and we went to totally diffferent schools!i hope i helped you....u can always come back to me and ask me anytime you want advice!
xoxo good luck!
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okk well i made myself to go to takl top him next time i see him but i dunt want to seemm like out of nowere im popping out w/some stupdi thing we bearealy talk he knows my name and weve done stuff his shyness went anway but now hes bakk w/his shyness what r the best words to start having a conversation without beeing all weird popping oput of nowere?and wen his w/his friends he acts different tha nwen hes alone shoild i go wen hes alone or w/frinds (link)
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definately when hes alone....i know my best friends ex would ALWAYS act different in front of his friends...just be open and friendly and just say "hey! havent alked to you in awhile..whats up" that will break the ice!! i hope i helped...
xoxo Good luck with him!
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gurl i like this guy there was times tat i feelt the chemestry between both of us but thn there were times i idint i prayed god if he wasent meant toi be to get him out of my head but the only thing i think its him 24/7 but then its not right were not even friends what should i do (link)
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im sorry can you reword the question?i think it got cut off.
im sorry
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ok my best friends like this guy but like he asked me to make out w/him and i sadi yes and i new she kliked him i feelt really baddd...i didint now wat i was uding she was never gonna forget me i now i didi wrong its somethiong i regret wat should i do (link)
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well im sorry that he hit you right on the spot...of course its peer pressure.you should automatically tell your best friends about the incindent and hopefully thell forgive you! we all make mistakes in life so dont sweat it gurl!!
hope things work out!
xoxo GOOD LUCK!
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hey i dunt now wat to do i like this guy but like i dunt wantt o ask him if he likes me i rally watnt to go out w/him but i dunt want it seem desperate me asking a guy out...but i rerealy like him and im scared if hes mean to me what should i do?and if he is mean to me how do i act!!help (link)
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RELAX!!!!!!....it will all be fine in the end..if the guy does react mean in the end then you obviously SHOULDNT like him if he has that kind of personality...there is nothing wrong with girls asking guys out either it is perfectly normal! try to get to know him by gathering a few of yalls friends and going to the movies or something!!you'll do great!!!
xoxo GOOD LUCK
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hey what does the quote''someone asked me i f i knew yuu...i seddenly flashbakks came bakk to mind..i responded no not anymore''mean its agood one and thanks but i dunt get it (link)
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it means that you used to know the sweet..loving guy that he USED to be....then all the flashbacks of him being his OLD self came back to mind and you remember hows hes changed so much that its like hes a different person...like you dont know who he is anymore....i hope you understand now
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hey i really like this guy he really liked me at the begginning but just wen he was gonn ask me out things changed.and we becasme more shy towards each other its been like a year and we still go on search of one another but we dont talk we just go places so we can see each other soppucly not knowing were there.i dunt know wat should i do maybe its better this way not talking to each other and just keep seeing weach other it will last longer i need help do u think he still likes me or didi the love he had for me went away and we dont have hope anymore see everyfridays its wen i get to see him cause wen we were friends i told him igo to the movies every friday since then he goes evrysingle friday and if he doenst i miss him butthe funny thing its we dunttakl to wach other we just stare wen he/me arent looking wat should i do (link)
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its no prob. hun....happens to the most of us!i think that you should just start talking to him more and not be so shy! show your personality and dont be afraid! yall SHOULD talk to eachother because obviously yall have this secret vibe going!i hope things work out!!
xoxo GOOD LUCK!
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ok well i like this guy a lot but,he asked me to mkae out with him in the m,ovies and i said yes becasue i love him and he was like all happy w/friends then he tell the whole shool and like his friends then he tells my best friend tat he only used me and he didi nt liked me.but all my friends say he really likes me because of how he acts around me ..what should i do helpp!!didi he use me onoly to male out..or he really likes me because out of all the girls in the movies he picked me.and if he tells my best frined he only used me and he dont lik eme and he acts like he likes me and he doent tell it to my face?aa help (link)
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well....that was a very immature, horrible thing to do sice you LOVE him go up to him...dont yell at him, and talk quietly and ask him if the rumor was true..believe me..it works, heres a good quote..."someone asked me if i knew you...i suddenly flashbacks came back to mind..i responded "no....not anymore"
xoxo GOOD LUCK
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