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so really like this guy [lets call him J]. but the thing is that i liked his best friend [T] and he hates me a lot [long story]
but i actually started liking J cos he always looked at me alot also smiling very nicly, often turning around when he sees me and things like that. but i kinda cant believe that he might actually like me because of the whole situation with T which makes me really unsure. also his friends often react when they see me. and J has another guy he likes to hang with [A] who points at me ALL the time when he sees me when he is hanging with J. but the thing is that when he's not with J he always smiles at me but when he's with him he points at me and looks kinda irritated or mad while J goes red or acts awkward or showes off. and now i'm a bit confused because i have no idea what's going on and if A maybe likes me. i like J but i also dont know if HE likes me because he also ignores me sometimes and often looks when i dont see it [my friends tell me lol] and i also cant believe that J MIGHT actually like me because T [his other best friend] hates me so much. and J also has these days when he ignores me alot. and sometimes when i walk by him theres just this tention between us but in a good way. and it feels like he's actually 'giving' it to me. for example yesterday he was walkin by me and half way i didnt feel anything, but then he saw me and as soon as he did i felt it again. its really freaky actually lol.
but i dno if he really likes me or if hes just making fun of me or something, because also his friends never added me back on facebook, and i tried talking to him on msn TWICE but he never answered [i wasnt sure if it's him or my msn, but i never had a problem with my msn].
and i cant deside between J and A because J is really this sexy kinda guy while A is really sweet and basicly does everything for J. i'm sure i like J more but i also sometimes get feelings for A because he's always acting so sweet.
sorry if this is so long but please help !!! thankss xxxxxx (link)
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Hey, girl. Wow it sounds like you really like this guy, J. From what you said, it sounds like he has some feelings for you too. When you were describing how T hated you and the reactions of his friends when they saw you, I think that the only reason they do that is because T might of been saying bad things about you to them and his friends thought it was only appropiate to act like they don't like you too. I'm guessing you are attractive and have a good personality because of the second looks and the tension-infected hallway passes. You said you have feelings for A also, but something tells me you'd rather be with J? My advice to you is to gather up some courage and talk to him directly, instead of msn. Get some answers girl, fast!
Vickki
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my boy friend is living in louisiana right now with his family.. he cant work because he was born with a fatal heart condition but they keep denying disbaility to him. they are on food stamps. they just got a forclosure notice today from their laywer. are they going to be homeless? they cant really stay with family they all live out of the country, all his friends have families and are stuggeling anyways.. are there any organizations or anything to help? im scared he will be homeless and i cant get him home right now.. or anytime soon because my dad wont let him stay with me (even though im 18). so anything anybody is there anything they can do??? thanks so much (link)
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Hey, girl calm down. My advice to you is that you, since you are 18, get out there and get a job that pays good money so you and your boyfriend can have a place to stay. There are also a lot of jobs that your boyfriend can get and according to the law, they can't deny him because of his condition. So, talk to him about that and see what he says. And if you guys decide to do that, I'm sure you will be just fine.
Vickki
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