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ok 1st off I'm 13/f..ok well i met this really amazing guy and i never felt this way about someone in my whole life..i think i may b in love w. him..and i don't want to hear "oh your too young to be in love." but the problem is that hes 17 and lives and hour and a half away from me. he doesn't know I'm only 13 either. in the time we got to know each other, he is starting to like me too. one time when we were talking he told me that age doesn't matter, as long as you love them its ok. here is some of the conversation:

me:it really sucks that we're this far away from each other.
him: yeah i no. but you know what doesn't suck? i got a really nice tan today.haha
me: haha
him: and plus I'm talking to this amazing girl who totally doesn't suck.
me: ouu and who might this be?
him: her names kelly ((my name))..do you know her?
me: yeah i might...and I'm talking to this amazing, cute, and sweet boy.
him: whats his name?
me: Joe ((his name))
him: he sounds pretty cool.
him: and how do you manage to always put a smile on my face?
me: i don't know. how to manage to put one on mine?
him: well..i asked you first.
me: i don't know your just amazing...its like i don't even have to try to impress you. i could just be myself and you'd like me anyway. thats what i love about you.
him: =) why do you even have to try? you've already impressed me.

how should i tell him I'm only 13? how do you think he'll take it?
sorry this was long =(
HELP ME !!
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First of all, lets put this clearly. Most people don't usually KNOW what love is until about 16 or 17. Trust me, I used to like this girl when i was 16 (i'm 17 now), and she is 15. She always claimed she loved me and she always claimed shed try to do as much as she could to keep things going.
what a lie that was. She did absolutly NOTHING to prolong the relationship. I constantly talked to my mom about her and tried seeing if we could arrange something, while both fo her parents knew me as "some guy lizzy likes", and at one point they tried to eliminate all contact from me to her.

and she claimed she loved me. wow. and I ell for it.
Maybe you do love him, but not as much as you think you do.
trust me, this girl made me feel really special. Nobody ever thouht of me the way she did, but everything fell apart.


ok so pretty much i need help! ok well one of my best guy friends lets call him eric...well yeah ive liked him for about a year now and well my other best friend lacey knew i liked him but in like novemberish she started to like himm too and called him behind my back and i would find out from my friends, and then well she went out with him in december but didn't ask me if it was ok, but then she broke up with him in like february. well now she has another b/f and me and eric kind of like eachother, but i was talking to lacey on the phone the other day and she said she really misses what they had but doesn't know if she still likes him, she says she tihnks she does but doesn;t know...and it just sucks cause i know eric still sort of likes her but idk i really wanna go out with eric but i can't tell lacey that i like him...help! (link)
you should have a private talk with eric.

Seeing as he is your best friend, he will listen to you (his best friend), and ask him how he feels. You guys are all friends with eachother and you all deserve to know whats going on.
If they think otherwise, they arent friends.


Ok well i'm a 14/f and i've never been asked out by a guy before...
I know that i'm only 14 and shouldn't be worrying about this but my question here is "what if A guy asks me out? How should I react?"
I'm a shy person and there was one time in 5th grade when a guy said he liked me, but he was more on the popular side... soo i kinda liked him too and said yeah, i like you too. Then he started laughing and ran towards his friends, pointing at me and saying "she fell for it!!"

to make this shorter- the next time a guy asks me out... how can I be sure its a joke, or for real?? and how should i respond to both a joke and if its real? since i'm really shy.

THANX! (link)
you should probably wait it out. If he asks you out make sure hes good for you.... Otherwise youre just wasting time on him.




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