ask MollyJayne1234



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Gender: Female
Location: Michigan :)
Occupation: Not a thing!
Age: 14
AIM: Hot2Molly999, Mhwig9
Member Since: June 20, 2005
Answers: 46
Last Update: August 21, 2005
Visitors: 3825

Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
Friendship
View All

Favorite Columnists
vballchica0011
Molly-i am sorry to bother you but i really need some help. I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me and i dont know how to take it. Should i ask him or break up with him...i just really need your help because u are a really good advice giver. Please answer bak as soooon as you can. Thanks-Unknown (link)
Uhh, if i were you i would talk to him before he breaks up with you, maybe ask him to give the reason and then if you agree it may be a mutual thing and you can talk about it, or you can break up together. things will be much better after you talk to him because hes really the only one you can talk to about this, hope it helps :) -molly


My friends really immature and im sick of her crap shes always being mean to me and she controls my life...well my parents are sick of her so they banned me from seeing her is this far? i dont even have tht many friends to begin with and so many ppl over the years have told me to stay away from here but idk what to do (link)
well if everyone around you is telling you they notice that she controls you then why dont you tell her or something? obviously she does if everynoe else sees it. If i were you i would tell her and if there was no change i would stop being friends with her all together, im sure you can do better than that.


we have this friend lets call her TH...and she keeps messing around with this guy lets call him piggy...she does stuff with him (sexually) and leads him on and makes him think that she likes him. but really, she likes this other guy called stone...should we say something to piggy about it?? because TH is really messing with both of these guys....HELP!! (link)
hmm...this is kind of confusing but does Piggy like TH? because if he does then you should say something to him and if he doensnt then i think you should say something to TH because she needs to realize that she is leading him on. does stone like TH? or does she just like him? If you write me back and give me more details i think i can help a little more...sorry? -molly


hahahah I wanna know who left that question about bowls and dank nugz, I just dont know, the fact that its about weed narrows it down to about,,, ummm half the school... big help. but molly, you cant just say sorry I cant help, at least answer them
its jesse (link)
Jesse...you obviously have no life if you take the time to write to me all the time! but whatever why cant i say i cant help if i dont know what im talking about? whatever..im not taking my time to talk to you.bye


Hey Molly-
Well, here's my problem....i used to have this awesome friend named Mazda and we hung out all the time and took oreo pictures and pretended to be dieting with our light sodas and got married to practically every boy we knew. She is super sweet and oh so much fun, but now i don't get to see her as much. What can i do to get to hang out with her more this summer??
-Fruitfly (link)
FRUIT!!! I love you hunny! haha well you could not be so DANG busy and go to Cape Cod and TST haha but next time you have a MINUTE to spare you call me and we can be Valley Girls and diet with our diet sodas and take oreo pictures with steph! haha i love you SNAFY! hehe have a great summer and CALL ME ANYTIME haha HAVE fun at TST im emailing you!! love you girly!! :) -Molly haha MAZDA!!!


Hey Molly!! ok my best friend and i have been friends for like ever!! and it really seems like were growing apart and i really dont like it but if i tell her how i feel i am afraid she will be like "well...i cant help it sorry." But i know she doesnt feel like were drifting, its not like were becoming two totally different people, it's more like she and I are not hanging out as much. Sorry if its like totally hard to understand! Thanks!! (link)
Ok..well i think i understand. You could just start calling her more and if she is making up excuses everytime then this is probably not the anwser you were looking for but maybe you should just you know...find some other people to hang out with for a little bit. Im sure things will go back to normal i know its will be hard and stuff but...this happened to me before and there was lots of drama and fighting but everything worked out eventually. So i hope it works the same for you...need anyhting else jsut ask! Hope it helps! :)


my boyfriend bought me this new bowl and im afraid my moms gonna find it, its also hidden with my stash of ganj, i love getting high and i cant let my mom take away all my goods...i have this purple haze shit its seriously chronic but i also have some dank nugz which arent as good but i dont know i smoke those every day at 4:20..but the chronic shit is for higher occassions, you know, so i gotta bounce to ada, but i need a good hiding spot for my shit so let me know where you think my mom wont find it because she'll smoke it all..peace nig...east compton in da house! ps. should i buy a dime or an eighth..ill hook you up with a 10 sack sometime..werd (link)
right....sorry dont know what to tell you about that one?


hey, i have a girlfriend and we have been together for a while now, but i for most of the time i havnt actually liked her how someone should who goes out with someone...if that makes any sense. basicly i want to break up with her becasue i dont like her enough to go out with her anymore, but she will be really sad and shit all over the walls and nobody wants that....i need your help, because you give really good adivce...:/ (link)
well...this ones hard but pretty much all you can do is just break up with her...she will be more happy that you can be honest with her than if you keep telling her you like her. She probably wont be very happy at first but i mean you cant lead her on and keep liking her. so basically just tell her you want to take a break...or you want to break up because the feeling just isnt there anymore...hope it helps! im me with anymore ?'s or just write me another message


hey molly i threw away the sandals because they can now stink up an entire room or car. my friends made me toss them out the window of a car cus they couldnt handle it. what kind of new sandals should i get, cus i've had those popular addidas ones my whole life and i want something new. Help me out. (link)
well im glad you took my advice on throwing those away haha...but i dont really know..i dont know if your a boy or girl so maybe if you write me back and tell me the details or whatever then i can help you out some more? but yea just either im me or write me another ? to help me out a little...glad it helped!


how do i let my friend know that she is a huge gossip queen... and i dont think thats we should best frinds any more??? -age 14 (link)
well if you dont want to be her friend anymore you should probably just come out with it and tell her...just be like well i feel like i need some space and dont ask her to hang out anymore and make plans with other people and when she calls you to hang out with her you can tell her you have other plans...if you need anything else...you can just ask! hope it helps!! :)


okay..so i fuck this guy almost every night..i'm on birth control so i never use a condom, but it still scares me that he is cumming inside of me..should i still use a back up contraceptive or just count on the birth control to keep me from getting pregnant...i would just use a condom as well, but i hate condoms bc they just gross me out--what do you think? or would you not know bc your like 10 years old. (link)
uhh im 14...but whatever (you sound like one of my friends...saying that im 10) but your right i dont really know because im only 14....so maybe you should ask someone else?? uhh yea sorry??


It's Sam Joyce....I like girls, but my friends consistantly call me a faggot and a homo because i pop my collars and wear short shorts. Do girls like guys that dress metrosexual because if they don't i'm just gonna go naked for awhile/get Cal Blair to show me some manly clothing. What do you think? (link)
Well "sam" maybe your friends really arent your true friends if they call you a faggot and a homo all the time? haha and if you think your clothing is bad then just ask cal because he knows everything because he is the coolest person ever...haha im not really going to anwser this one if thats alright with you...haha sorry "sam"


how do you let a guy no that you like him (link)
well this one is kinda easy but at the same time kinda hard...haha well you could just ask him who he likes...then most guys will ask back...what about you and you can then tell him, you. or you could tell him you have a "secret" that you need to tell him...and then tell him you like him...its pretty easy you just have to get the guts to actually tell him. hope it helps! :)


Hi Miss Mollyjayne1234,

I hope you are for reel becuz I relly need some help. There is this group of girls at school who are really mean to the other girls. sumtimes I am in this group and sumtimes I am not. I dont liek how they treet other girls but if I dont do it to then I wont be there frend. What do I do? (link)
Thats a hard position to be in...but if i were you i would stand up for yourself and tell the girls that what their doing is wrong and they shouldnt do it. if they really are your true friends that will care about your opinion and stop or they wont care if you are mean or not...you should have to be mean just to be someones friend. just tell them how you feel and youll know whats right either to just stop being their friend all together or they might change for you :0 hope it helps!!


dear mollyjayne1234,

My problem is that my addidas sandals smell terrible. I tried to wash them with soap but it didnt help. What do I do damnit??! (link)
hmm...well i dont really know what to tell you...uhh maybe its time you got some new shoes?? theres probably nothing else you can do if you tried soap?? sorry i couldnt be more of a help
-Molly


ok so, there's this guy that i really like. and ive like told him that i like him and stuff. and he just wont except it. i dont know what to do. It's very hard to see him go on liking another girl and knowing that every morning he wakes up with the wrong girl. i also have a friend that is really ugly. i told her that i didnt want to hang out with her anymore. but she wont leave me alone. what should i tell her. she smells really bad and she doesnt brush her teeth. ( oh by the way its you. the person that smells and is REALLY ugly is you) and by the way, this advice this is a really big help for me. i dont know what i would do without you. but i have to go. so you better write me some advice. NOW! toodles (link)
Bobbie Swaney...hmmm what to say to this one? Well first of all im not anwsering your first question because its from a movie (Hitch) and you could have just told me that i smell...im sorry! but anywho i dont know why im writing you back because i was there when you wrote this horrible "question" so yes but thanks for the notification that i smell... LOVE YOU ;)


you didnt answer the question below, ohh it will go alright in the end, thats like telling a blind person that ohhh it will all workout for the best, how you can even do that is beyond me, besides guys are better at sports than girls anyways....
p.s. the wnba has poor ticket sales
(link)
Ok, im getting kind of annoyed with everyone talking about the advice I give...but whatever i meant that if you talk to them things will all work out in the end. whoever this is you can IM me if you have a problem with the way I give advice...your not asking me anything so why do you care what advice i give other people? by the way...if this is Jesse...how many times do we have to talk about boys and girls being better at sports? thank you for the wnba ticket sale stats...i dont care! thanks?


my family always fights and im afraid that they might split up what do i do? (link)
Well is it your parents fighting or your whole family? Im sure everything will work out for the best. But if your that upset about it just sit everyone down and talk to them about it. You can even possibly get a therapist if you think it would help things. I hope that helps a little...but IM me with anything else you have ?'s on or leave me another ?


hahahahah omg margaret...this website is hilarious! hahaha you crack me up! are you trying to start your own advice column for teens all around...haha I can see it already! THE MARGARET JANE.."Here to Answer Questions From Any Lane!"
(link)
If this is Katherine...you are toooooo much! I love you hahaha!!!! And no im not trying to start an advice column for teens all around you loser!! Nice slogan...:/ JUST KIDDING! I love you dear! Your the BEST!!! haha!!!!! ;) -Love MARGARET!!!

P.S. My name is spelled Margaret Ja Y ne -Y get it? Love you!!!!


i'll try to make this a question...MOLLY FREAKING HARTWIG I LOVE YOU? (link)
HAHA...thank you :)




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker