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A friend recently bought me a voodoo doll from New Orleans. I live in New Zealand. How do I safely get rid of it? I don't want to throw it in the bin incase something bad happens. I was thinking of just putting it in the post and sending it somewhere but I am scared of something happening too. What should I do? Please help. (link)
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If your a born again Christian and belive in Jesus Christ son of the Living God, then you have nothing to worry yourself with because God is always watching over you. You can burn the doll, rip it to shreds or alternatively just send it back to your friend. Nothing is going to happen to you.
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You guys probably have read me recent questions and you can tell that I'm seriously depressed. I'm 15Years Old , and a female . Like not so long ago today I just wrote a page in a half on how I feel in the inside of me... And while I was ready it I stop and a HUGGEEE break down, and was crying until I gotten a headache , and no I can talk to no one about this SADLY ! I'm giving up , and tried of being strong Help ? (link)
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Hi their. I haven't seen your earlier question yet but seeing this post here realy makes me sad. You can talk to me about it if you wish, perhaps by sharing you'll feel beter.
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hi there...
22/f
i am stuck in a really crappy situation...
i had a bad bad experience last year. first there was a guy who totally used me (i should have seen that one coming but as it "could never happen to me" given that it was my first relationship" i didn't know how to say no cause i wasn't sure of anything... anywayyy...) school pressure, prof truing to make a move on me, parents pressuring me, money...etc. i ended up seeking an escape by getting involved with a bunch of people who are not exactly innocent...
i mean every one has fun, but these guys are on things every weekend if not drunk or partying or hooking up or getting people to hook up after fucking them up... they're an average of 3 years older than me, and much much much more experienced than i am...
i thought after that first fling with a guy that else could be out there that's wilder than that? and that is what i want to do since i am no longer naive so that sorta got me initiated into their group...because i had "potential to get corrupted" i don't judge people which is why i have so many friends with different views and lifestyles... i am okay with what they do but i can't handle these new friends without my life crumbling down...
but i can't seem to say no (as usual) and i keep getting sucked into it!!! how do i get my life back!!! how do i sever them out of it if need be without repercussions... i am not comfortable doing what they do at all... and i've got to get my act together cause i am beginning to flunk school!!!! HELP
oh and one of the girls in particular is super manipulative and she is almost psychopathic and is dressing like me talking like me always trying to find commonalities between us... sometimes i feel i am turning into her puppet. or doll she is very very dominant and i can never say no without indirectly getting the sense that i am threatened and that i will regret it...
i got sucked into it deep to the point where plans are already made for me, and if one thing isn't in common i am expendable and that i will be ruined....
what do i do??? i can't let my family or friends find out since i am pretending to have my act together!! (link)
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First of all try not to let the bad experience realy afect your confidence or esteem. Hopefully you've learn't some good lessons & as u said your not naive anymore. Now about the pressure coming from all quaters, it happens to evrybody sumtym. I'd sugest you talk to your pals and or parents. Talk to your parents about this professor and also make them understand that you realy feel pressured by them and school. Now please don't pretend that you have your act together when you realy don't it won't help you. Remember this are your family and friends, they'll support and encourage you and who knows maybe by talking to friends you'll realise your not the only one feeling pressured, and you even might get a solution. About this new people I'm realy sorry to say this but they are not your friends. A friend is a person who has the same interests and opinions as yourself & wil help and support you. By your description I don't think this people fit this category. 1st because you say your not comfortable doing what they do and that shows that you don't share the same interests. Friends are people who you can be free with and be yourself when your around them not people you feel threaghtened and afraid to say no when your around them. I suggest you leave this group quietly and cut them of from your life they're no good. Your grades are dropping a clear indicator that this people are just disastrous for you. Now while you don't mind what they do doesn't mean you have to do it especially because your uncomfortable. It's great that you realise you need to get back on track. Talk to your family and/or friends they'll gladly help you. Please realise that because your no longer naive you should hook up with this guys or do what people who are'nt naive do. Instead focus more on things that will build you, make you an even better person than you were before. Atleast should the guy who used you see you, he won't see a broken naive girl but a confident upbeat girl who is doing great despite evrything that happened. Not a girl whose life is now crumbling in all aspects. Hope I helped you in one way or the other. Sorry my answer is too long.
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