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if i have chlamydia does that mean he cum up me (link)
Chlamydia is an STI caused by a bacteria called Chlamydia trachomatis. It is the most common STI (in the UK at least, where I am).

It often has no symptoms especially for men. You can get Chlamydia from having unprotected sex with someone who already has it. Whether or not that person cums has nothing to do with it. If your genitals were in contact, you could have got it.

1. Always use a condom even if you use other forms of contraception. Not using them can lead to much more serious STIs and STDs in the future not to mention pregnancy.

2. If you think you have any kind of STI or STD, go to your GP or doctor, or a sexual health clinic. Don't be embarassed, they have seen it all before and if you leave it untreated it can cause long-term problems including infertility (not being able to have children).

3. There is a lot of information out there about sexual health, I'm here to answer questions the best I can but remember, google is your friend.

Hope I helped x


thank you for your answer
everytime a female "cums" or "gets wet" is that considered an orgasm? (link)
'Cumming' is another way of saying orgasm, however getting wet is different.

You get wet at the start of sex so that it doesnt hurt when the penis is inserted. If the woman isnt wet, it would hurt a lot which is why you use foreplay before sex to create that wetness.

Getting wet is only for this reason, its unrelated to orgasms.

Hope this helps x


18/F So basically, I want to become more conservative with how I dress...and beyond that live a pure life. (Do charity...speak kindly to others.) What is a religion I could get involved in? But, the tricky part is: I don't really care to read or devote my life to a book. (torah, koran or bible) I just want to find a group of people who try to make a difference in their community and have values. Thanks for any suggestions! (link)
This definately sounds like you don't want a new religion, just want to be a better person.

You don't need to change or find a religion for this, just do it! Look around your town for volunteer work, dress however you like and make friends with the people who are into the things you're into. Don't feel you have to have a label to be a better person, many people are out there who are like you, just without the labels.

Good luck x


what are the characteristics and the exact definiton of an orgasm for a female? lyk wat happens and wen does it happen and how does it feel? (link)
Orgasms feel different for everyone, depending on who you are with, what they (or you) are doing, how sensitive you are and other factors.

Some women go thier whole lives without orgasming while others find it very easy to orgasm.

Climaxing with a partner during penetrative (Vaginal) sex is actually more difficult than TV, films and many books would have you believe and it requires techniques that often need to be learned.

The characteristics of an orgasm for a woman are generally a tightening of the muscles which will feel just like tensing your whole body and a sensation of pleasure (often described as a 'wave of pleasure').

Some women feel an orgasm in the general pubic and vaginal areas where-as others describe it more as a feeling that goes through thier whole body.

I hope this helps x


I've had severe excema for 17 years, seen lots of western and alternative doctors, with no results. IGe levels are 14000+ (normal is 0-158). Does anyone know a really good health practioner with success with severe skin problems? Most things I eat, breathe, drink cause problems (organic food etc doesn't help much). Associated asthma. I've stumped some of the best. Any feedback on the Allergy Associates of Lacrosse, WI? This has ruined my life, and I am seeking help to find health. Thanks a lot. (link)
Eczema tends to run in families who have a history of allergies and asthma. It can be triggered by the immune system over-reacting to something in food or in our environment.

There is no cure HOWEVER there are three things that can treat it. You just need to find what works for your body.

1) People with eczema dont process fatty acids from food normally. Suppliments can (after around 3 months) have a dramatic effect. Evening Primrose Oil, Starflower oil and Blackcurrent seed oil are available at health food shops and dont taste so bad either!

2) Herbs are traditionally used to treat eczema and have done for centuries. Liquorice root, Burdock root, Chamomile and Calendula and lastly Witch hazel are some of the most affective.

3) Skin calming fatty acids are in oily fish however if you are veggie then pumpkin seeds also contain this. Not to mention hemp, walnut oil and flakseed oil. Pumpkin seeds are good in soups and salads!


Hope I helped you, good luck! x


oh my gosh, you guys..I thought I was doing so great! 2 months ago, I measured my waist, and it was 77 cm all around, and since then I've counted every single calorie, worked out 30 minutes every day, both running and boxing and even some weight lifting, and also swimming, I made sure to keep it very variated, and today it's been exactly 2 months, and I looked to see my progress and it was 82 cm all arounf my waist! I've been crying for an hour now, how is that possible? How could I have GAINED weight, when I've done everything to LOSE weight?
I promise you I havn't cheated with what I've been eating, or my excersize..that's why I was so surprised, I thought I was doing so well!!

Help me please!! (link)
It may be that you arent getting enough of something. A vitamin etc. When you dont eat quite enough, your body thinks theres a famine on and stores fat up. If you are excercising so much, make SURE you drink plenty of water or juice and eat enough.


whenever i start my computer the whole screen starts to blink but i can like go on the internet and that wont close out but i cant like go into the my documents folder because whenever it blinks, that closes. so does anyone know what is happeneing and how can i fix it ? other than going to a mechanic (link)
Adaware or AVG downloads will clear that up, if not then seek a windows expert.


i have the thinest hair like...ever. its so flat all the time and i hate it so much! I really want hair extensions because my hair dresser told me they'd make my hair thicker and longer (i can never grow it long because its so thin and brittle that it breaks easily). If anyone has ever had them, I'm interested in knowing if they're worth it (because i know they're pricey) and about the upkeep of them.

thanks! (link)
I have had extentions many times and I think they are a very good way of trying a different style. They can last for up to 6 months+ if you look after them properly. Make sure to go to a reputable salon and have them done EXACTLY the way you want them. Check www.angelemma.com for upkeep tips too! Hope I helped. If I did rate please.




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