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My best friend of 11 years likes they kid i used to.. seems simple but me and the kid were really close but then he kinda played me so we don't talk anymore.. but i know he still cares about me.. he's always asking my friends how i am.. if i still talk about him.. if i still like him.. which i don't.. the only time he's ever mentioned is when someone else brings him up... anyway.. i know for a fact the only reason he'd ever go out with her is to piss me off or make me jealous but i'm not like that.. i know he's gonna end up hurting my friend and i don't want that at all but i can't just go up to her and say "oh hey, he's just gonna play you to get to me" it doesn't exactly roll off the tounge.. any advice? (link)
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ok well i dont think that you should tell your friend that what he did to you, he might do to her - because she might think you`re jealous. i think you should let them go out and see what happens and if he hurts her, then just be there for her and be a good friend; if he tries to get back with you - don`t go back with him; people will notice hes a "player". good luck =]
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ok my ex boy friend denies that he ever went out with me and starts spreding rumurs that im a lier and stuff. But i think i still like him and he only broke up with me because his friends dont like me, but i think he still likes me. How do i find out? (link)
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i think the best thing to do is to not let him know what he did bothered you. if you still talk to him, i dont think that you should tell him you still have feelings for him because he might tell his friends and if they don`t "like" you then they will try and make you unhappy - again. although its hurtful you should try and move on, and if he really does like you, he`ll come back to YOU. good luck =]
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i have this best friend of all times that me and this other friend gave some fades:we told her that we didnt want anybody else to have them because me and my other friend worked really hard on the fades/quotes. but a few days ago, i found out that she gave them away to people.i am mad at her (( but not ALOT )). anyways, on the other hand: she also told one of my secrets that i didnt want her to tell. another thing that she did was: theres this really cute/funny/nice ( all that stuff ))boy that i liked. But i was stupidly gonna ask him out when all of a sudden i look at his profile and it said: girl: elizabeth ...... I WAS SO MAD because i knew that that was my best friend's other friend. (( i know, this is confusing - lol - )) anyways, i dont know what to do because i cant get rid of her because shes my BFF. What should i do? (link)
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i know how you feel, i think that what you should do is tell her how that made you feel.. she`s not just going to GUESS that what she did made you mad .. although she should know telling your secret was wrong and would hurt your feelings if you knew. also, maybe you should try getting away from her for a while, like hanging out with other people or taking up new hobbies/interests. it doesn`t mean you dont have to be friends with her anymore, just take a break to let her know the things she does anno you or make you upset. good luck!
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i feel like im losing one of my friends, i mean we used to be really close and ive known her for a really long time, but now i feel like i dont know her, but i still want to be friends with her. please give me some advice. thanks (link)
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next time you see her or speak to her maybe you can ask her to hang out .. if she says shes busy than let it go and ask for another time but if she keeps saying shes busy or ditches you etc. she isn`t making an effort to be friends and you don`t need that -- also, you can ask her if she thinks your growing apart also .. it hurts to lose a friend. good luck =]
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OK... my friend has a boy friend and they have been going out for a few months now... she doesn't stop talking about him and all she does is think about him... and whenever she is around him it feels like she is starting to disrespect me =( and i have been best friends with her for a while.. sometimes she'll give me looks and give me an attitude in the middle of nowhere... and i really like her and i really want to be friends w her.. but it seems her bf is getting in the way of our friendship... what should i do to save my friendship?
-nobody cares =( (link)
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aww well maybe you should tell her how you feel about this .. im sure you`ve probably already tried this but maybe you can say to her - look, we`re best friends and i want things to stay the same, but i feel were growing apart .. maybe you should just yet tell her you think her BF is getting in the way. after you tell her you think you`re growing apart you should say something like .. im really glad you have a BF and your happy but i feel that once he came into the picture you don`t want to be friends anymore, and tell her the things she does to you [dirty looks, talks to you w/ an attitude] hurts your feelings. good luck!
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OK here we go. My bffl likes my most hated enemy. I think if they go out then hes gunna try and snub me out of her life. but i dont wanna stop her from going out with him. im confusled (link)
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ok well i think that the best idea is to let your friend go out with your enemy, if it seems that you`re enemy is trying to "snub" your friend out of your life, then you should let her know! .. also, you never know what can happen, if she goes out with him it might give you a chance to become friends with this so called enemy. a bad thing to do though, is when they`re going out, don`t say things like EW i HATE so & so .. because that can hurt your friends feelings.
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ii've been 14 since april and my boyfriend just turned 13 yesterday.. i love him with all my heart and soul and i think that age doesn't matter but my friends seem to think otherwise.. what do you think? (link)
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well thats something thats up to you .. if you do love him with all your heart and soul then it shouldn`t matter what your friends say - you should always do what YOU want, that makes YOU happy - not what your friends want. if they keep saying things tell them you dont care, and you love him. i think its just fine =]
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my BEST FRIEND, thats rite my bffl!!
WELL i have never met anyone who complains about every thing as much as her.. like she isnt good enough and it makes me feel like i have to help her ALL THE TIME and try to make her feel better about it and im sick of it so i really need you to help me ... (link)
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i think the next time your friend says something to put herself down or says something that makes you feel like you have to make her feel better, you should say something like - why do you feel that way? .. maybe you can better understand why she says these things, but you`re also showing you care. also, something to do is change the subject when they say something, so they get the clue you don`t want to hear them putting themself down. good luck!
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one of my boyfriend's close friends likes me. told me and ijust don't know what to do.. i'm the only one that knows.. i really love my bf.. and his friend is sweet and all.. and i still want us to be friends buti just dont know how to handle this.. can you pleaseee help me (link)
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well i think the best thing to do is to make sure your BF`s FRiEND knows you`re in a relationship and you love your BF [do this in a very nice way] & that you want to stay friends with him. Although the "i just wanna be friends" speech hurts, you don`t want to ruin your relationship with your boyfriend. good luck! a tip though - i think it would be better if u DiDN`T do it online .. maybe on the phone or if you feel comfortable, in person [but not with a CROWD =]
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O.K, I have 4 boyfriends..I know what your thinking...well anyway, i love all four of them soo much, but they don't really know that i have other boyfriends...i don't know if i should tell them ...or be a playa like i already am =) And i mean like... when my other 3 boyfriends see that i'm pregnet what are they going to think!?! Errrr. Please Help me! - Signed Confused (link)
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ok well the worst thing that you can do is to keep all of your boyfriends at one time. i think you should tell all of them the TRUTH, and maybe stay with the one who "got you pregnant". theyre probably going to be very mad, but the best thing to do is be honest =\ good luck!
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So..I have this boyfriend, but i really don't wanna be his girlfriend.I mean were good friends and all, but he won't understand if i just break up with him. Please help me! (link)
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well i think that you should tell him that you just want to be freinds .. tell him in a nice way so that you don`t make it seem like you WANT to hurt his feelings. you should still try to hang out with him and be friends. good luck =]
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I have a boyfriend, and i love him so much and he loves me too, but whenever were hanging out with a big group of people...my friend (whos a girl) she is always all over him, and she even has a boyfriend, but she's soo shy to talk to him and she's always looking at other gies and..uhh it's just soo annoying! and she always tries to act like me and it's been bugging me lately, whenever i try to talk to her she gets very mad...and now i have to go on vacation with her for a week and i'm not so sure i want to...but i can't tell her no she'll be crushed. OH YA...and she's bringing a boy with us! OMG how uncomfortable can that be?!? IDK what to do! haha these are soo mani problems i have but please try to help me! i'm leaving this saturday 7/16/05 so please try answering before then...thanks! (link)
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ok well the next time you`re hanging out with all of your friends & ur boyfriend, and this friend of yours is on-top of him, maybe you can pull her to the side for a second and talk to her, or later that day when your not hanging out, you can call/im her and tell her how you feel. now .. i totally understand how the fact that she is copying you really bugs you and gets you annoyed but maybe she looks up to you and it might sound weird, but maybe she wants to be like you. i also understand that having to go on vaca with her is uncomfortable for you, because 1)your getting sick of her 2) she annoys/copies you .. but maybe this is a chance for you to talk about everything with her .. like how shes on top of your bf and etc. but if you REALLY dont want to even talk to her or anything, maybe you should just try and find other things to do around hanging with her .. or hang out with other people there - good luck! =]
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okay.. my boyfriend and i have only been going out a short time but we've both liked eachother for months before he asked me out and we talked all the time.. lately he hasn't been online to talk and i haven't seen him in weeks.. i love him so much and i know he does too but it's werid not speaking to him.. i can't even call him cos he doesn't have a cell phone and his parents have this like "no dating" rule so i cant call his house cos they don't even know.. it's sooo confusing and i miss him soooo much.. what should i do?? (link)
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aw well i think maybe if you know any of his friends [that are boys] you can have them call your bf and ask him to call you, or ask them to make plans with your bf [with you included] .. if you don`t .. then maybe u can try calling his house and saying "hi this is his friend so & so". if none of those work, then maybe you should wait a little bit longer, but if you keep waiting and waiting, your just going to be left alone - hurt. so try those things =] good luck!
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ok so i have liked this guy all year nd i still do..typical stuff.i liked him since like .. hmm october? he liked me nd asked me outt but i sed no bc i wasnt allowed to date . the day that my mom sed i cud date, he asked out another girl bc i dont no wtf got into him. he hu with her nd i got so mad bc i like him so fuckking much .. nd wen i asked him bout it he acted like he always does but every1 sed he was so pissed bc i annoyed him so much and he didnt like me..so then wen he nd the girl he was goin out with broke up i was happy bc he was single nd he knows that i like him alot nd he knows that im completely obsessed but he dont like me..and not 2 much lata he hu with this girl that i used to be like..friends with and she knew i liked him so much nd she hu with him neway nd also wenever she was newhere with him she was all over him and if i was there she wudnt let me get newhere near him even tho she denyed that..nd the nite she hu with him i was at a bday party and it ruined the nite for me..and i asked him about that nd he sed that he didnt like her..nd so y did he hu with her?bc he felt like it..nd i cant hu yet nd when i told this girl how i felt she was like .. well we both lyk him so w.e..nd this other time i sed that i had dream about hu with him and she sed that she had..different dreams..lyk wut a weirdo..nd so after like a month or 2 she didnt like him ne more and he STILL doesnt like me nd every1 tells me that he doesnt like me at all like that and that he doesnt wanna go out with me nd he thinks im annoyin but i cant help but like him so much and i wish i cud just handcuff him to a bed nd have some hott sex with him even tho im not alowed 2 and im not so sure how to have sex..but i rele like him so much and he doesnt like me nd every1 says i got no chance wit him bc he thinks im so annoyin and wutnot..but i can never stop thinkin about him nd wenever ne1 of my friends..even my closest 1s get close to him i immediatly hate them..like just a little while ago one of my best friends and him planned this whole 'we are gonna get married blah blah blah' thing with him and now i just hate her since she knows i like him and hes like .. my man but every1 says that anyone that likes him can bc he doesnt belong to me but i rele like him nd i just dont no wut to do! ~allie (link)
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well lotss of people have that same problem - they like someone for SO long & feel like they need them so much and love them so much, then end up getting hurt because the other person doesn`t like them. i think what the problem is, is you`re getting jealous when he hooks up or hangs out with other girls .. because you have feelings for him [which is completely understandable] - but what you need to know is that you can`t control what he or other girls do. although he KNOWS you like him, he might just be "playing the field" right now, and not knowing that it hurts your feelings. although it mite take time, and hurt you i think wats BEST for you is to get over him .. he doesn`t seem like he`s even making an effort to try and even be a good friend to you! .. so just try getting over him & dont get mad/jealous when other girls hook up with him, its not worth it for you to get upset =[ good luck!
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okay so my friends are suddenly being really mean. theyre lyk taking me out of all these isj and not calling me and stuff like that. i wanna tell them but dont wanna lose them as friends. what should i do? (link)
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i think the best idea is to tell them you feel left out .. sometimes people don`t tell others their feelings and then they don`t KNOW they`re hurting you. if you tell them how you feel, they`ll probably try and fix the problem and include you .. it`s not worth it to lose them as friends if you really love them =] Good Luck!
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i screwed up with my friend and now we dont talk. i act like i dont care but i really do and i want to know how they feel. help ! =) (link)
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maybe you should call him/her .. when you call say something like "i feel like i really messed up and i dont want to lose you as a friend" and/or appologize .. or next time you see the person, say hey and act friendly =] good luck!
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Heyy, ok well i have this friend and were like best friends but the problem is that i always invite her over to my house but she doesnt invite me over or any of our other friends, and its not like she has a small house either!! What should I do? (link)
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well if it bothers you, next time you`re going to hang out ask her - say something like do you want to hang out at your house? .. if she seems like she RELE doesn`t want to, maybe she doesn`t feel comfortable letting people into her house. if she seems that she is uncomfortable, try talking to her about it. good luck =]
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Hi lindsey. your freind shannon finley, hopefully uk her w.e. uhhh she insulted the greatest band of all time SLIPKNOT \M/ along with dayna who later insulted after i threatened to not talk to them. i have a short temper n they know it so im thinkin on shud i completely reck them with no mercy or let it slide and not talk 2 thm till they cry???
- Cory (plzzzz help me)
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ok well .. everyone has a different opinion about things, so i think that if they dont like the band "slipknot" you shouldn`t get upset. also, maybe you can just tell them that it annoys you when they iNSULT it directly to you.. dont "reck them" or not talk to them .. just tell them nicely. =]
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hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox (link)
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aww ok well maybe you should talk to him and say that you wanna hang out more .. if he says "i dont know" then he isn`t a good boyfriend and isn`t putting effort into your relationship! when and if you hang out .. do fun things that you both enjoy so that he knows to hang out with you more. also, you dont always have to listen to what your friends say! .. do whatever YOU want to do and what YOU feel comfortable doing! good luck =]
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hey Linz .. okay hears the story
ok my best friend has liked this guy for like 8 months and she is like over obsessive and the boy even knos it ..he sez he will h.u widd her when she grows up and looks like her older sister who is pretteyer . . . but hears the problem
her best friend [[ not me ]] our other best friend swares she doesnt like him ..
but he likes her and he is always trying to h.u with her and they hooked up in my friends pool like a month ago.. every1 got madd ...then 2 weeks later they h.u on my friends trampline..she spit in his mouth to get him off cuz every1 was there.. she said she would never do it again ..but tonight in the movies they did it again [ btw right now my friend is in the haptons so she has no controll of wat goes on and has no clue ] but im on the phone widd her right now ..what would you do in the friendship situation?
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ok .. i think what your friend needs to do is maybe reinforce that she likes this boy to ur "other" best friend.. if she doesn`t "care", then she is not a good friend at all - although there really isn`t anything your friend can do, for this guy to say he will hook up with her when shes "older and prettier" is rediculous, and he seems like a real player. i think even though it`s going to be rough, your friend might need to move on and not get herself so caught up with this boy! also, if she feels that she can`t even trust this boy while she`s not even going out with him, maybe he isn`t worth her getting upset & obsessing over him! =\ good luck!
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