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Heyy. I'm Kelsey. I'm not here to be judgemental or tell you what to do with your life, but it's just my personal input. Most of my friends come to me when they need something, and always tell me that I really helped them out. I've been through aylottt, and most problems out there I have experienced. I'm good with relationships(love+friendship)sports, and a lot of other things. Mainly all that middle school drama crap. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. Love always, Kelsey.
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hey kelsey..um so i was really good friends with this girl last year...and like she would ALWAYS walk with me and talk with me in the halls and like now my locker is sorta like 3 lockers away from her.. shes in my gym class and she like just ignores me. i really want to be friends with her again but shes like really popular now and i dont know what to do! and i really i mean really want to be friednds with her..im just soooo confused right now! please please help me!!
love always ♥
a lot of things change in middle school. people try new things, like making new friends. making new friends can equal popularity. you should talk to her, just maybe to reconnect those old sparks and bring back some memories.
props to rebecca.
Hey, okay i have this problem. theres this boy at school and he liks me. hes really sweet and treats me really well and is really funny and i think im starting to like him. and he asked me out but i havent answered him yet, i want o say yes. but theres reasons that are keeping me from saying yes. like my mom. she lets me go out with guys but like she ...i dont know its complicated but i want to say yes but im so confused.. and like yeah please help.
signed :: dont know what to fo
i think you should just talk to your mom. explain to her that he is a really sweet guy. maybe have him over one day so she can meet him before she lets you go out with him. talk to your mom about it before you answer him though. becuae if you say yes and then she makes you break up with him, then you have to explain to him that his mom doesnt like him and that make him feel uncomfortable. hope i helped.
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my girlfriend's prude..and i really want to hook up with her. how do i make her unprude!
just becuase she doesn't want to hook up with you doesnt mean shes exactly prude. she may just not feel comfortable with it. but have someone talk toher about it and be like "would you ever hoook up with your boyfriend?" if you really love her you'll respect that she might not be ready or want to.
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how do you find a best friend?
you cant exactly find a best friend. you cant just be like "oh hey wanna be my best friend?" being a best friend is really important. you have to find someone that you can trust,some who is is loyal to you as well you are to them, and someone who you will never get sick of. you can take one of your close friends and spend more time with them and tell them things like best friends would.
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okay , i waant to break up with my boy friend and i told that to one of my friends and she told him and now hes like .. umm why would you want to break up with me .. and idk what to do!
you need to talk to your boyfriend. just give him the reason(s) that you want to break up with him, and if he really loves you he will try to fix that. and if your reason is you justr don't like him anymore just tell him that. but in a since way, of course. just be like sorry but i really dont have those kinds of feelings towards you anymore. let me know how everything goess.
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hey every year i become friends with a group of people and then in the middle of the year the just start to not like me. i dont know what to do because i dont want it to keep happening
find a group of friends that you like being around, and stay super close to them. don't be like, overly obsessed with them, but make sure they know they are your good friends. its sorta nice to switch between groups of friends becuase you get different people, personalities, and its just a change of pace. but you realy should have like one main group of friends taht you can call your best.
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wow whoever wrote that is an immature sack of crap and plus..why the hell would they care? they must love you a lot too to actually notice what youre wearing,where you get it from, and make a big deal about it so i think they should go play in traffic..sorry to waste your time but it gets me mad when random people say stuff about that person..in an advice column?wow..anyways I LOVE YOU KELSEY!
thankss. i love you, too!
hey its me again. the one that wrote the thing about my friend that like ignores me in the halls and stuff.. i was just wondering if that happened to you? like u no is it normal.. like did u have a best friend last year and this year she just isnt as close?
yessssssssss. it reeally makes me upset when i see her talking and laughing with her other friends in the halls. it just reminds me of all the good times and laughs i used to have with her. its like, i used to be that friend- ya know? this happens almost all middle school friendships. but as you get older, you realize you don't really need a ton of friends. you just need a few close ones. get to know a few of your friends even better, and make sure you don't lose them. me and my friends made a promise that no matter what team we are on in middle school or what classes we are in in highschool, we will always be friends no matter what.
okay so last year i was good friends with this girl and we usually always hung out and now this year she found these other two friends and she always hangs out with them and in the hallway she barely says hi to me.we used to always laugh and have an amazing time together.. i just wana know what happened to our friendship?
alot of friendships change in your teen/preteen years. some girls want to hang on to the friendships they've had for so long, and other girls want to move on and be as popular as they can. i think yu should talk to your friend. when something bad happens and she really needs someone, she will probably turn to one of her old friends who is always there. you don't have to be super tight and like bff with her, but just make sure she knows your always there for her, and hopefully she will always be there for you. maybe its time you guys just took a break for a while. thats what happened with me and my friend and we didnt really talk for a while but then we became friends again and are now tighter then everr. hope i helpedd.
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omgshh kelsey this is what you said to me before............almost all of my clothes come from abercrombie. and hollister= LOVE. as a matter of fact right now im wearing an abercormbie tank top thing, an abercrombie polo, and hollister capris.....................................hahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahhahahah you dont have hollister capris i see you every day in school and you dont wear them and you dont have an abercrombie polo and like im not obsessed with money im just completely rich i mean i have absolutely nothing wrong with you but like why are you lying..i know you dont have hollister jeans and like an abercrombie polo so why did you say that you do!?!?!
ok well maybe if you havent noticed I WAS WEARING AN ABERCORMBIE POLO TODAY. and if you'd like to take a walk through my closet some day, go ahead. i bet all you find is abercrombie and hollister and your right, im sorry. they weren`t hollister capris they were abercrombie. yeah, you seem like the kind of rich bitch.=]
hey um yeah why dont you EVER wear abercrombie i mean your not gunna be popular if you dont and like why dont you wear like jeans from there or like why dont you even shop there or like in hollister?? yeah so im just wondering because like you NEVER EVER wear anything from hollister or abercrombie you shop at like pac sun i mean come on thats for surfers...yeah so bye
uhm, yeah just so you know.. almost all of my clothes come from abercrombie. and hollister= LOVE. as a matter of fact right now im wearing an abercormbie tank top thing, an abercrombie polo, and hollister capris. and there is absoulutly nothing wrong with pac sun. its not only for surfers? there jeans and stuff are just regular jeans and their shorts and shirts are fine too. you just sound like a stuck up bitch who has too much money and is obsessed with popularity. so shut your trap. i love you! =]
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heyy. i really like this guy and he's like my friend and w.e but he has a g/f and he's like obsessed w. him. but i also know that he'll never like me back... :/ i mean i guess its good to be just friends right?
being friends with him is definetly better then nothing. just talk to him about it. tell him that you have feelings for him, but you don't want that to change your friendsip (i dont assume you want it to change..) but yes, being friends is DEFINETLY greatt.
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so theres this girl right--and im sortof friends with her...but i can tell she doesnt really like me. like she planned a party and excluded me..which was really rude. and shes always talking about doing all this stuff with my friends or other people in my face, and she always has sometihng (bad) to say about my hair, clothes, or anything. i really wanna stay friends with her, but i know theres something about me she doesnt like. also, shes really good friends with like my best friends, so its sortof hard to just ignore her. sorry its long. ♥
Hey this is just a comment for everyone. never say sorry its so long. i lovee reading these. anyways, i thiiiiink i know who this is. but you definetly have to talk to the girl, or maybe your best friends who are friends with her. just be like hey, have i been annoying you lately. or did i do something wrong? if shes your friend she won't mind talking about it. but you can most definetly talk to your best friends. maybe they can ask her if shes mad at you or something. i hope everything works out.
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you should tell mike who you like
and he didnt just ask you this because he was bored
haha mikey if i liked someone you'd be the first to know =]
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heyy ok i really need help and fast!! ok so i used to be like really good friends with this boy + then we stopped talking and he acts like he absolutey hates me! it totally sux becausee he makes me laugh and i really liked him (as a friend) now like all of a sudden i realized that i like him like a lot but he still totally hates me and NEVER even like looks at me.. i really wanna be good friends with him (and maybe more..) but i have a felling hes a total jerk becausee he wont ever be around me. i know this is hard and confusing but PLEASE HELP!!!!!! 13/f
alrighty im really sorry but you worded this world and first say you like him and then dont. please re-word it or something and send it back. i'd love to help!
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Hi i am confused girl i have a problem i meet this guy this year (2006) that is really sweet and i talked to him once and that's it, i really like him but when i should him to one of my frieds she laughed and said is it him???ugly... i was sad because i wasnt getting support from one of my friends and know i dont like him but he does he always tries to cath my and and makes me smile he is sweet but i dont know How to approche him and i just know he likes me too....
confused girl
don't listen to what your friend says. it really doesnt matter what this kid looks like(althought, it does help). if you love him, go for it. your friends should be there supporting you all of them time 100% all the way. just smile at him in the hall way or wave to him. chances are if he likes you he'll smile or wave back. or you could even pretend to stumble and bump into him and just be like "oh, sorry." and then look him in the eyes. you can tell almost anything from the look in peoples eyes. let me know how everything goes!
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hey kels. well i really like this guy and hes kind of different from other guys for one reason... so people -girls- kinda dont like him. and i guess we talk but i kinda look at him a lot but when he catches me staring he just stares back blankly... not like, "ew why are you looking at me..." but just... stares back. hes done this a lot. do you think i should talk to him more or just leave it as it is and move on when i do? thanks ♥
DEFINETLY talk to him more. do not give up. he sounds like a winner! try to get to know him as best as you can. i always like to remember the saying-- i dont mind if he catches me staring, becuase then i know he was staring back ♥ . just always remember that one. good luuck!!
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im bleeding out my vigina
uhm, did you get your period? use a pad or tampon, that helps =]
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happy birthday in........ about a week!:) well, so i like "bob" and he likes a different girl every week, ahem, every DAY i mean! but, we used to be really good friends, then i told him i liked him, made it awkward...... few weeks later, tell him i dont like him, we start talking again, and then i liked him again, and I told him, we still sorta BARELY talk, and it sucks...... then he danced with one of my friends at a bm during the snowball, its not her fault i know that, but, i just got pissed off! not at her, at bob :) so yea, i REALLY don't know what to do kels!
-Shelbs
aww thanks!no offence baby, but bob sounds like a manwhoree =]. i think you should move on. if bob changes who he likes every week, that could be really bad for a relationship. and you can probably do better then him anyways. hope i helped babyy
Hi! Im Gaby :) I really need advice from sum1 whoz actually my age so,pleez help! Sorry this maybe kinda long but PLEEZ read it! Okay therez this guy Johny i wuz talking to for a while online(p.s hez in my class) and we really liked eachother and he finally told me online. After he told me he liked me he didnt ever talk to me because he wuz so embarrased. It really broke my heart because i missed laughing at hiz jokez and smiling at him for no reason.It really sucked and sumtimez i cried at night. I know its pretty stupid that i didnt get over him after all those dayz.Then came...Augustin. A cute boy in my class that i was a "little",okay ALOT, attracted to. Hez funny smart CUTE and so much more. Many girls liked him but he just never liked them and he wuld tell them to leave him alone. But when i talked to him he doesnt tell me "your weird" or "leave me alone!" Im not sure if he likes me but one time at P.E we had to play this lame game called the HumanKnot(maybe youve heard of)Well, you have to hold somones hand and eachtime he wuld hold mine.Johny looked really upset because i waz talking to him...ALOT. We were really getting alot and he made me laugh so much. I tried to ignore Johny because he culd of talked to me beforethat and he never did. I kinda felt bad for him though cuz he looked kinda sad,a face i had NEVER seen on hiz face before.I think i REALLY like Augustin and i want to get to know him more, but i know it would hurt Johny and+ i still kinda havent got over him. Wut shuld i do :/ ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!♥
awww omg wow. this is really hard. i think you should try your best to get to know Augustin. if he says all the crap to other girls and not you, its definetly a sign. johnny seems sweet and everything, but its really not good that he doesn't talk to you becuase hes embarssed. he really shouldnt be. and if you go out with johnny, he would probably get even more nervous and not talk to you. you and augustin seem really comfortable around eachother. (and you sonud like a cute couple =] )so yeah i think you should give augustin a chance but still be really close friends with johnny. let me know how things go!
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