Hey...im 14, a girl and just started the 9th grade a few weeks ago, there wis this one guy everyone was always talking about...all the girls from my middle school thought he was just SO hot but the girls from his middle school don't really care for him...well of course I had to fall for him...i've gotten a lot less shy when it comes to guy but I still have that "barrier" so like i got his sn and started talkin to him like the 4th week into school...I never really knew what to say to him b/c I didn't know him very well at ALL. (I love guy friends...and I wanted him to at least be one) Like he kinda seems to flirt with everyone ya know? but he flirts with me alot when i'm around him, it's akward...it's like i can't tell if he means ir or is just leading me on...the thing is, is that he doesnt really know me that well or how i behave or ne thing like that so i guess he doesnt seem to comprehend that i dont just want a "more then friend" thing outta all guys ( even thought i wouldnt mind one with him ;) ) so he kind assumes i guess that i'm just always "pushing myself on him"...one of his newer friends is like my best guy friend (even though me and him are having a shaky realtionship right now) and so like at lunch ill go and sit with my "best guy friend" so i can sit with him (no one knows that though! lol) and i just get so many mixed signals...but oh yeah...i'm white and he is too but he thinks that i date black boys and like them and all and I don't but idk for sure if he understands that or not or just like messes with me just so we have something to talk about ( ihope you understand what i mean by that, like just so that theres something he can say to me...i just had to add that too)...anyways, but...yesterday night my friend (in 10th grade) had a party and he was there too...and i found out from another friend that when he was standing with these like 3 or 4 other people he said something along the lines of that i liked him and was like "obsessed" with him...and that just really confused me! b/c i know i say that kinda stuff about people when i want ppl to know that this one guy likes me, i guess to brag in my own way or something but idk what guys mean when they do it! (he said this at like the middle of the party) but then he was like flirting with me towrds the end of the party...) idk if he just does that kinda stuff (like flirt with me and all) b/c he knows ill do it back or has figured out that i like him, but im just so confused and would love to knwo what to do! the thing is that i dont treat him any different than any of my other guy friends and dont talk to him more and in a diff. way...so thats why i said he just doesnt know how i act very well...i just dont know why he would say that i was obsessed! it just makes me feel so stupid ya know! im just so used to like recebtly all these guys that i go to school with and good friends with sayin how i could get ne one and then he comes along and is just kinda thrown in that circle and i hope he's not going to mess it up! im not going to lie i would love to have him! but...i just wanna know how he sees me! like if i really do annoy him or if he's just saying somehting differnet on the outside then on the inside ya know? and i also said that he's gettin tight with my best guy friend and he better not tear me and him apart! :-/! gosh im just so confused! just can you tell me what to do, if i should just not talk to him so he doesnt keep on thinkin im obsessed or w/e...any advice what so ever is welcome! please help me in any way you can! and i know this is a mess so hope ya can understand what i mean! ya may needa think long and hard about this response! thanks SO much! i just had to tell somebody! :-) im really really sorry its so long i just couldnt make it short! hope you arent upset....
heyy! yea that is long but i dnt mind .. yea all you can rele do is tlk to him and tell him how you feel n blah .. i dnt kno exactly wut u were trying to say but i definitly got the picture ( lol ).. you dnt want him to think ur obsessed but just tlk to him .. that the only thing you can really doo ... i rele hoped i helped .. just let me kno how evry thing went!
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ok im 12 ... but eveeryone says i look 15 or 16 i ahve b 34 breasts and everything and im not like gorgeous but im pretty ... guys say im the hottest girl in my grade of course we only have 93 people in our grade but yes the thing is im in 8th grade and im 146 and i really wana loose weight .. i dont look fat but just saying i weigh that sucks i play alot of sports but i dont know what to do i just wanna be like everyone else at like 103 and stuff any suggestions ?
hey! try to go on a diet .. not a major one but just a simple diet .. and try to excersie evry day .. hope i helped!
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Hay.. im havin boy probs.. and im onli 14... I am goin out with this boi.. but... i think it took taday to get me to relize i dont like mi boi friend as much as i thought i did!! i went down ta da river taday n theres this other guy down there that i have liked before n i think it took taday ta make me relize that i didnt like him nemore..n i like that other guy.. But i have been friends with this guy fer a while now.. n i think he likes me too.. but he's got a gurlfriend!! i dont kno what do to.!! i need advice!!
hey! well tlk to ur bf snd tlk to the kid you like.. if you dnt have feelings for ur bf then break up with him .. try to find someone else until the kid you like is ready to break up with his current gf .. hope i helped!
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Well you see..i was at secrets dance club in Albany with my girls and like..i met this guy. I love him soo much. I know that i just met him and stuff but i couldnt help it. You dont even understand how crazy i became about him. When i was there we danced together. ya know, like that dirty dancing movie kinda dancin and stuff and then he asked me out and i couldnt say no. I of corse said yes and then we hugged and stuff and then he danced with this other girl and let her wear his jersey and stuff. Some people sayi over reacted but i couldnt help it..he hurt me worse then i thought was even possible. I pushed him off of the girl and left. I cried all the way back to my house and i havnt really heard from him since. That was all on August 22 and its September 20th nnow. Ive gone back to secrets looking for him like...1,000 times! But he hasnt been there. Someone that was there last saturday said that he was the kid that i fell in love with's cousin and that he hated me...i almost cried. But he gave me the kid that i love's # and i called him but i couldnt hear him and i 4got the # and now im stuck..i fell so far in love with him that i cant even eat or sleep now..what should i do? And how do i get him back?
If you can help me out on this one you will be the greatest ever. you dont know how badly im hurt..all i want is some help to get him back so that i can heal my scats he*s left me with..Thanks oX
hey! try to tlk to him .. tlk to him about wut happened and how you felt or feel .. im sure he'll understand .. tlk to some of your friends as comfort ... all i can rele do is tell you to tlk to him .. im sure evry thing will work out ... hope i helped =) xoxoxo
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hey, I will be 14 next month, and I am in 9th grade. There is this guy that is going out w/a senior. We have gone out before. He a couple of my classes, but in those classes he is always staring at me. We r really good friends, so I dunno if this means he likes me again. HELP!
hey! tlk to him ... to c wuts up .. ask y hes staring at u and all that .. he probably likes you but u wont kno for sure unless u tlk to him! hope i helped =)
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Ok there's this kid named Chris and he's pretty much all my classes. Sometimes I'll just glance over at him and hes like looking at me or staring at me. The thing is I never really talk to him or anything. I just wanted to know if he likes me? I don't think so but you can never tell! Thanks! I rate!
hey! well u should tlk to him and ask y hes stareing at you and that stuff .. im sure he probably likes you .. thats wut most guys do when they like someone but dont jump into all of that .. just tlk to him first and then u can determin wheather or not he likes you .. hope i was of help :) please rate .. hehe..thnks!
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Hay! Im 14 years old and... WeLl.... Im having a promblem with mai boyfrind. It all started a couple of days ago when a couple of kids around mi house started talkin around his school. Sayin that i dont like him nemore and that i like 2 other guys.. Well the two other guys are mai friends ( and i dont like them like that .. one of them is like mi brother) But when mi boyfriend asked me if this was tru i told him no ( which it wasnt)n then i had asked him if he believed me .. He told me Yes! But then the next day he was possed to b at baseball practice, and instead he was at a friends house.. which i didnt kno at the time.. Well they got online and his friend ( one of the ones that every1 thinks i like)IM's me n sais soo i hear u like me n i was like Yeh.. well i heard u like me.. n hes like hell naw.. n then hes goes soo u do like me.. n i was like no ur a playa all u are to me is mi friend.. When wen mi boyfriend asked him what i said he had told him that i said yes i like him.. and then his friend told me it was over.. ryte as i was gettin off he told me mi boyfriend ws ova there and that he was j/p .. im rilly pissed at mi boyfriend.. but i love him soo much.. i dunno if i shuld jus ferget bout it er what.. PuH-lEaSe help me!!
hey! well .. you should tlk to ur bf and ur friend .. i dnt think that was very nice of ur friend to lie like that ... well yea like i said all u can do is rele tlk to him and work things out .. i hope i was of help .. let me kno how evry thing went =)
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I have a boyfriend and hes 14 and im 14 but then when i was at school this really hott sr. football player told me he liked me but hes 18. and he told me i should breakup with my boyfriend and go out with him. but im not sure wat to do because im crazy over my boyfriend but at the same time i kinda like this guy.
woah! hes really old .. i mean for you that is .. im sure u probably like him but since hes 18 and your 14 thats considered rape .. mabey u should stick with ur current boyfriend and mabey when ur older go out with this guy .. hope i was of help :)
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i have a b/f but we went out like 100 times before and i really love him and i dont know if he feels the same about me he tells me he loves me and all but he flirts with other girls when im righ there and it hurts me how do i find out if he really likes me or loves me?
hey! yea u should tlk to him .. if you feel that he dosnt love you and he flirts with other girls then you should find some one else .. im sure u probably love him but it may be the right thing to do .. hope i was of help =0)
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I was a virgin until last week. We used a condom
and we thought it was fine and dandy until i missed my period. I went and got a pregnancy test and it was positive. My dad is a paster and my mom is the principal of my school. I was suppose to save myself for mariage but ooops. But its not even that we just did it we were drunk and high if they found that out it would be even worse. But the worst part is my BF is 19 and im only 15. But i look a lot older than that like, he thinks im like 18 so its legal to have sex but... im only 15 and thats considered rape. I love him so much and im afraid they will take my boo to jail.What should i do.I dont want to lose my boo.
Your my only hope.Please dont mess it up.
ps. i love you boo!
hey! well there's only a couple of things you can do .. 1) you can tell your parents 2) you can tell ur bf that ur only 15 and hope that hes okay with it 3) you can have an abortion ( urrgg i hate that ) 4) you can tell ur parents, and have the baby and not let your bf find out that your 15 and raise the baby together .. im sure this is rele tough for you .. if i didnt help then u should go to one of your friends and ask for advice .. i really really hope i helped!
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ugh i need some advice please. well i like this kid alot. well me and my best friends boyfriends were both bestfriends ( yeah thats a tounge twister) lol anways, well it was soo good.. like me and my best friend could chill and then we could chill with our b/f's.. cus me and her were always together and my b/f and hers were always together.. but me and myne broke up.. and hers and her didnt. and i like this other kid so much! like we had something in the past and its coming back..he recently asked me out, but i was scared to go out with him cus i didnt want my best friend getting mad at me cus i wasnt with her boyfriends best friend.. what should i do?
hey! tlk to ur friend and see how she feels .. if she dosnt want you to go out with him then dont do it .. you wouldnt wanna ruin ur friendship over a boy .. however, if she dosnt mind you goiing out with him then i would say go for it! hope i helped :0)
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alright well ive been thinking for a little while that im bi-sexual. i love guys but when i see a good-looking woman i think, shes hot and i wouldnt mind hooking up with a girl, but also a guy, id like to hook up with, but it just seems wrong, ah i dont know whats going on and i neeeed to know what to do!!!!!
hey! if you feel that its wrong then tell ur-self that u dont like women and blah blah and mabey it will help .. also if your religious it always helps to prey about what your going through .. hope i helped =) xoxo
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i was wondering what i should do.. see my friend umm lets just call him bobby and my other friend.. lets just call her kat. well on friday bobby told me he liked me.. so then over the weekend i thought about it and i realized that i DID like him, so yesterday i found out that him and kat made up (cause they were just friends) and that they kinda liked eachother.. so today i went up to him and we wwere talking but heres the important part of the convo. heres wat happened.. me: i was gunna tell you something but im not going to now.. bobby: cmon just tell me please!!!!!! me: ok.. now that i begin to like you, you like kat!! bobby: i already told you i only liked her a little bit 4/10 and i alrady told you that i liked you! -so later iin the day he told me to meeyt him outside after school.. so i saw him before i left to go outside and we walked outside and i saw my friend and she needed 10 cents so when i was giving it to her.. here comes kat.. and bobby totally ignored me and didnt even talk to me and when i left he didnt even say bye.. (oh and let me mention.. the past like month he has been talking about how shess so gay if i bring her up) idk what to do? plz help..
hey! well u should rele try to tlk to him! if he dosent wanna tlk to u then just give him sometime until hes ready to be mature and tlk to you .. hope i helped!
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hi,yea im a cutter too and i would really like some help its mostly because of a boy because i love him so much and he doesnt love me and dont tell me to talk to him cuz im way to embarrased and i cant .. i am kinda embarrased to say this so please i would like to talk to some people about this it helps talking .. and please I M me me screen name for AIM is YellowKissez207 thanks.
hey! well tlk to someone about thiss .. you should rele try to stop .. if you feel like cutting take a rubberband and fling it across ur wrist .. IM me at justoxsurrender to tlk more about this .. hope i helped :)
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Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal.
hey! go to maceys or jc pennys .. they might have some stuff there .. hope i helped :0)
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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.
also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters?
hey! i rele kno how u feel .. instead of cutting try flinging a rubberband aross ur wrist it feels a whole lot better .. it actually feels the same preety much ( i think ? ) .. IM me at justoxsurrender to let me kno how things r going .. hope i was of help :)
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Hi , okay when i wake up and i brush my teeth , after i get a HORRIBLE stomach ache ! it really sucks because it ruins my day ! is it normal? am i doing something wrong when i brush my teeth? PLEESE HELP ! I RATE 5 !
heyy! well mabey its the toothpaste .. sometimes certain toothpastes ( flavors ) can upset ur stomach .. or mabey ur just swallowing the toothpaste too much ... lol i do that sometimes =) hope i was of some help!
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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!
are you crazy .. thats a deisese .. u cant control anorexia .. ur probably fine .. u can end up dieing because of it! DO NOT DO IT!
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why do people cut themselves because i have a friend that does and its obvious. my friend always blames it on "the cat" but cat scratches don't make crazy grid patterns.
hey! well ppl cut because there hurt and they have alot of emotions built up inside that they havent expressed .. and if u want ur friend to stop then talk to her .. and make her understand that it will b ok .. all she needs is someone to talk to .. hope i was of help :)
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hey.. im 13 and a girl.. i like this boy a lot.. but he has a girlfriend.. i asked him who he likes and he said he didnt know.. my friend asked him if he liked his girlfriend and he said not really.. and so my friend said well dump her.. and he said that he would feel bad if he did.. so she offered to dump her for him but he said no and that he didnt want her to.. me and him both talk on the phone a lot and hes always on the subject of why i like him and stuff.. and i always say the same thing.. because your funny, nice to me, and your cute;-) he always knows what im going to say (he asks me way too much) but i really like him.. once he said that he would go out with me after him and his girlfriend break up (which could be never since he feels bad)and i thought:: oh yea.. i REALLY feel loved.. he thinks that everything will work out and we will be together but i dont kno about this.. he says:: ill be your friend forever.. your one of my best friends.. he says:: ill talk to you all the time and he says he likes me but is still with his girlfriend.. is he trying to tell me to try some one else or is he telling me the truth.. PLEASE HELP ME THIS IS BERY IMPORTANT!!
hey! well tlk to the kid somemore .. and if he is telling the truth .. find some one else until they break up then u 2 could be together ..also tlk to ur friends and follow ur heart .. they will tell u wuts right .. hope i was of help :)
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