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I desided to make an advice column and its workin out pretty good! dont be afraid to ask me anything ill write back as soon as i can(which is soon lol) iv been thu a lot and if heard everything so im almost certan i can help you well ask away!I love you all
Nicole
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Ok. I have a very special guy in my life that has been there for me for everything. We were going out for a very long time, but then broke up. But when we saw each other or talked to each other we acted as if we were still a couple. We did ever thing together and everything I do reminds me of him. He was my first love and I can't get over him no matter what I do. I just want to be with him, but it won't work out because I'm forbidden to see him. Now he is moving far away...what should I do?
Gosh that is heartbreaking well it looks like you really dont have a choice. Long distent relationshps are really hard exspetialy when you are forbiden to see him.Just try and keep in touch as much as you can try to find someone who can help you fill the empty space a little bit that lives by you.Who knows he could move back.you will prolly always have feelings for eachother and when he visits you it will most likely feel like you just saw him yesterday. So try not to be so depressed i do know how you feel though
wish i could help more
Love
Nicole
ok, well there is this guy ive know for a while now. and ive liked him and and he liked me.. so finnally we stopped keeping in our feelings and told eachother. its been a while since we told eachother but we havent gone out yet. he told me he doesnt wanna go out with me because he is scared to loose me. like if we break up he is scared that i will be mad at him or me break up with him and him be mad at me. so he just doesnt wanna loose me. and this guy is really sweet and all.. but he is like.. really weird into the hugging and kissing girl friends.. he is kinna immature too. should i just stay friends or try and get him to change? or should i just let him relize he has to change and if he does then ill try to work it out with him. thanks for listening
Something that most ppl try to do is change ppl but the thing is ppl dont change because you want them to you cant mold a person into who you want them to be if they change its because they grew up or went thru something that changed there lives you know something like that. If you really like this guy and you think you should try a relationship take it real slow so that no one ends up getting hurt if it doesnt work out. If it does you can tell him that it bothers you when he hugs other girls and stuff.And if you do break up make it a clean break dont let anything go unanswered because thats what makes ppl not wanna talk to eachother. Tell you friend that you have to take chances in life to live at all. Even if hes a little scared to loose you he should give it a chance because who knows you two could be ment for eachother
hope i helped
Love
Nicole
hey nicole..okay i've been alone for awhile now..see i had this guy i liked and i just found out that my bestfriend has liked this guy for the longest time and recently i found out my bestfriend has been crushing on him for the longest time and the confusing part is my bestfriend hooked us up while she liked him..now that i know she has suck strong feelings for him i've decided to put every feeling aside and hook them up..but the thing is i think i have feelings for him but i cant tell my bestfriends because they are my bestfriends..so i've let my feelings go because thats what she did for me..i want to know if i've done the right thing by mot telling her or him..thanks
These are the hardest situations. Its eather your happyness or your friends. I guess you did do the right thing you must be really good friends to be able to do that for each other.It prolly isnt a very good idea to tell him that you have feelings for him if you want him and your friend to hook up but you should tell your friend if you feel that you need too.Just see how things go.
Hope i helped a little
Love
Nicole
is it possible to like someone a lot and u havent even known them a week?
yea you can like them a lot imean if you like them you like them theres not much to it
Hey Nicole, Alright I like this guy and I like him alot or whatever but one of my bestfriends dosnt really like the fact that i like him... and he is alittle older then me...but i have liked him for awhile and it felt werid going out with him the first time because we were close friends...but I always give second chances and i think he desveres another chance because he has always been there for me and everything..but my friends-guy wise- think that going out with somone 2 years older then you is wrong... and I dont want to be known as a slut or somthing going into the highschool....
-I love you Nicole
Why do you care what your friends think if they are good friends they should know you better then to think you are a slut to go out with someone older then you. N trust me once you guys go to highskool you wont be the only one dating older guys if you really like him then go for it do what makes you happy you cant please everyone but its more important that you please yourself.If he treats you like a princess then theres nothing wrong
hope i helped
Love you
nicole
ILYG!
Hmm, nicole I am having a problem with somthing... alright There is this guy but i live really far away from him, so its hard to have a long distance relasionship with him, not only that but he is going out with one of my good friends who I have a feeling -she dosnt quit like me anymore- sigh... but I mean what am I supposed to do about it... I dont even live in the same area and she acts like she is my friend when we are togather but she talks behind my back when we are apart...
what am i supposed to do...
confussed!
well as for ur friend dont bother a friend who pretends she is your friend isnt a friend lol i know how you feel when it comes to the guy tho. why dont you wait n see what happends with him n his girlfriend n then see where it goes from there dont stress it too much if its ment to happen it will
theres really not too much i can say
hope i helped tho
Nicole
ILY
ur hott
um thanxs hun lol
hey well i have liked this girl but i havent see her for awhile and we haevnt really talked but we do talk ounce and awhile and i dont no if i should tell her or i dont no
thanks
yea tell her lol i mean whats the worse that could happen
gosh Nicole..i unno what is wrong with me. i really feel like i like this dude.. but i mean he just isnt worth it. and he tells me that he really likes me and that we are meant to be. and then he goes out with this other chick and tells her the same thing. i like to make myself think im better off without him and that i dont like him. but the truth is is that i really like this guy and it feels like i have no reason to. im so lost and cofused its sad. i just wanna move on and not worry about him because if he does this to other girls i know he will do it to me. and pretty much he has. and what i mean by that is breaking their hearts or making them think he actually likes them and then turns around and dates someone else. i just really need your help agian. and this time i was completely honest.
much love
nothing is wrong with you guys do this to us all the time its true that if he has done it once he will do it again and if he hurts you its just not worth it trust me no one is worth that pain if someone toys with your heart then they dont care if it breaks.i cant tell you what to do n i cant really tell u you will get over it but you will be ok its gonna take a while im not gonna lie just talk to ur friends eat lots of candy n watch lots of movies n be around hot guys a lot i know it sounds bad but it takes ur mind off things lol
hope i helped
hes not worth ur heart sweet heart
Nicole
I went out with this guy for a couple of months and when we started going out we didnt talk much or see each other hardly at all. Wen we stopped going out I couldnt stop thinkin bout him. I dont really want to like him caz i dont think the relationship will work out and i dont want to stop talking to him. Would it b better to just be friends? or should i try to get in another relationship with him? caz i kinda like him
well its always hard to end ne relationship if i were you i would take it slow just try being friends n if things get better try making the relationship work
hope i helped
Love Nicole
theres a girl i kinda like her but she two grades behind me and a year younger, i like her more than and friend but not like a gf so i dunno wat to do
You kinda like her but not as a girlfriend? whats the proublem then? If you dont really like her that much yet just let it take its course u may end up liking her more or you may not as for the grade thing who cares
Hope i hlepd
Nicole
hey, what if u were previously in love with a girl and her name was nicole and u just wanted to check up on her but u were scared to because u think she would hate u because yall broke up, what would u do to get to talk to her. Also how would become good friends with her and maybe one day try that relationship thing again??
well maybe u should have talked to her way before now becuz she DOES want u as a part of her life n it really hurts when u dont even try to keep n touch which really makes her feel like u dont give her any thought at all n u dont give a care about her . n that u havnt even told ur girlfriend ne thing about her. Seeing as she hasnt heard a freaking thing from you n 4 weeks kinda doesnt make her think you want to be "good friends" you dont have to be so scared that shes gonna freak out becuz she has had four weeks to get over you and it doesnt bother her that you have a girlfriend(just that shes kinda a bitch)n remember she broke up with you she doesnt hate you ..jezz n p.s. no one knows u like I do sweet heart.
hope i helped
LOVe,
Nicole
i know this gril who i love sooooo much i mean i dream about her and she says she loves me but then again shes loves 18 other boys what should i do??:{
some times ppl love more then one person its not a really strong love but it happens but 18 ppl? i know your so sure you love her but you deserve better find someone who will love just you you will be even more in love with her and you can actualy trust her. Girls who fall inlove with more then 10 ppl need to mature a little bit more. Basicly find someone else n when she is ready for a real relationship and you still love her then try going out but for now its just not worth it
hope i helped
Love
Nicole
i am a 15 yr old girl and i am addicted to drugs. i smoke a lot of weed. and i have done cocaine before. i dont know why im doing this to myself but i need help and fast. im starting to get more and more viloent cravings and stuff.
well at least u wanna stop . You cant stop unless you want to. Tell your doctor or go online n look for someone or something that can help you stop .You could try going into rehab i know it sounds scarey but it will be so worth it you have a high risk of ODing right now and getting yourself into a lot of trouble. You are messing up your brain your body and your life but you only 15 so you still have a lot of time to fix it but you need to start soon tell your parents or someone who cares i know that u prolly hear that alot n the last thing you wanna do is tell an adult but really its what ya gotta do. there is no way u are just going to stop without a lot of help drugs are so so dangerus and they are addictive so get some help right now.
i really hope i helped
Love,
Nicole
ok, well there is this guy. and we havent known eachother that long but the first day we meet he said he had a crush on me. yea. well i unno i kinna liked him too. so we talked some and hung out a little and then i find out he goes back out with his ex gf. so that kinna made me upset. and then they broke up and then he told me he loved me. whoa that made me think. i mean how can he love me if he technically barley knows me? gosh. well i really need your help on this one. so tell me what you think i should do in this sittuation!
much
Yea its prolly way too soon for him to be telling you he loves you expetioaly since he just broke up with his old girlfriend you should get to know him better n tell him to take it slower becuz it will last longer n always remember if he does it to one girl he can do it to you so he could do the same thing he did to his girlfriend to you and i wouldnt be suprised be carefull n hope i helped
Love,
Nicole
Well , I don't have any friends and I definately don't want to ask my parents because they are drunks. This is the only thing I have on my computer I don't have an e-mail adress my dad said I couldn't. They don't even know I can go online. Please answer my sex question.
go to the adivce board at http://www.preciouscreationz.cjb.net/
hope i helped
love Nicole
Me and my friend don't know what movie to watch. We keep bouncing ideas off eachother, but to no avail. Please answer right away!!! It is of a imperative nature!
hum i wonder who this could be my little dictionary it would have helped if u named what movies u wanted to watch i say dirtydancing chelsea says thirteen... i know u dont watch those movies sry i was no help at all hehe love u very much
Nicole
I have a really important question . I'm going into the 9th grade and I had Heath and Currunt Issues and everything, but I still don't know what sex is. Please explain in full detail I want to know as much as possible.
wow do u watch TV? sex is like everywhere these days lol well theres a lot to it so why dont u ask one of ur friends its alot better that way if u stil dont know e-mail me
Love,
hawaii
hi, i have a sort of hard question for you. im pretty good friends with this guy, and we talk a lot on the phone and hang out sometimes. his friends say he likes when i call him, and some say he likes me. Hes never had a girlfriend, and hes told me before he did used to like me quite a while ago, but other events lead to him not thinking i liked him. he knows now that i really do like him, but he says he doesn't like me. his friends also say that if i haven't called in a few days he starts talking to his friends about how i haven't called, so that makes me think maybe he does... please help me its tearing my heart up...thanks nicole
wow it looks to me like this guy just isnt ready to have a girlfriend you cant really push guys into things he prolly does like u maybe not all the time but he does. He just needs some time to mature you got to be pationt with these things.talking to him might not help it will prolly make him uncomfertable about it all. just be his friend and dont presure him into a relationship maybe by next year he will be ready for ya i hope i helped a little i know these things are confusing
Love Nicole
hi
well i have a little problem, see i think i like this one boy a lot but then i think of another boy that i don't like as much but i know more about him. And when i try to decide which one i like more i think of the one i know more about but i know that i like the other better. Just wondering if it is normal not to know.
Yea its normal you just gotta go with your heart youll chose the right one. good luck
Love,
Nicole