Hi yaall! I'm Hallie. I have experienced many problems myself and I would like to help you with yours. I'm in school and surrounded by lots of drama, I've experienced family problems all of my life, and much much more. All of my friends and family come to advice from me so maybe I can help you to!! Ask me a question!!
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Help..I have this really good friend...but her family doesn't treat her very well. They don't treat her horribly...but just not like parents should. They don't pay attention to her, they don't eat meals very often, and her parents are always in a fight...what do I do about the situation? (link)
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Dear Family,
If you are hesitant on the thought of how they treat her why dont you just see how she feels about her family?? If something really if wrong then you should tell your parents and see what they think and try to get them to talk to her parents. Not only will the trust and communication in the relationship between you and your parents get stronger, but hers will too.
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My best friend can't stand to be single. She just moved to a new city for a job, so I know she is kind of lonely but she is fallen in with a guy who was fooling around with her very heavily while he was still with his girlfriend of two years. When I went to visit her a few weeks ago he didn’t exactly make a good impression on me. I was there for three days and I never saw him sober, I saw him give a lap dance to two other girls and cuddle with another, and although I was friendly and trying to get to know him better he didn't just ignore me, he was flat out rude to me. I have a hard time to believe he'd treat the best friend so shabbily (or do all the other jackassy things I saw him do) if he was really serious about her.
Now whenever I talk to her all she ever wants to talk about is how wonderful he is or bad-mouth his girlfriend. I'm sick to death of hearing her swoon over this awful guy and bad mouth the girl he is cheating on! Of course she is suspicious and needy. I wonder why she’d feel that way? Maybe because he is cheating on her!
My friend says I’m not being supportive of her and that if I can’t just be happy for her she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. Is there anyway I can let her know that I don't have a problem with her being happy with this guy but I'm not going to lie and pretend he is prince charming when he clearly isn't? Also, how can I explain to her that bad mouthing the girl he is cheating on with her is just plain rotten and bitchy?
I’m not very impressed with her right now, but she is still my friend... (link)
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Dear Supportive or Honest,
You should definitely let her know that she is better than that. Why don't you talk to her and let her know that if he is already cheating on his present girlfriend, then how would he treat her. Let her know that he's not worth the heartbreak. If she has just moved to a new city then she has plenty more options than before, so she should see who is out there than making a commitment to someone who is already taken.. Besides, a true friend is supportive by being honest. Your friend might not realize it at first but you are doing it for her benefit.
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