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Hey guys! My name is Chelsea and I'm 19 years old. I'm a full-time college student at St. Edwards University as a Journalism and Communications major. My goal is to start a new magazine someday. I really enjoy fashion and writing. I'm a vegetarian and I absolutely LOVE all kinds of music! My boyfriend and I are about to celerate our 3 year anniversary and we've truly been through it all together! Oh, and I love giving and receiving advice (it's always good to have an outside opinion), which is why I joined this site!! Well, I guess that's a good general overview of me! Hope to hear from you soon!!
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E-mail: cwallac@acad.stedwards.edu
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Location: Austin, Texas
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Age: 20
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i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and we still love each other a lot. i show him all the time how i feel about him, like by giving him a back rub or making him dinner. he tells me that he loves me and is still in love with me, but he never shows me anything that can prove what he says. he has a hard time saying i love you first. i just don't know what to do (link)
People show their emotions in all different ways. For example, most males that are friends don't tell eachother they love eachother. They do things together like playing basketball, joking around together: it's their way of becoming closer and showing that they are friends. This has been a large problem in the communication between men and women. Women feel as if they need to express their feelings through doing this for others, while men are less outgoing about their feelings. If you are really concerned about this lack of expression, maybe you should sit down and tell him how you feel. Don't attack him, though! Just tell him that sometimes, you feel that you do so many things for him because you love him so very much and you don't feel that in return. Ask how he feels about you and why he feels uncomfortable saying "I love you" first. The best way to solve relationship problems are through honest, calm communication! Hope that I helped and that everything works out for you!


I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
Any guy that is persisting that you have sex with him so much that it aggrivates you is not worth your time. If you really feel that this guy and you have a future, you should talk to him about this. Does he know that you believe in saving sex for after marriage? If so, this is something he should know. If he already does know, he is completely disrespecting you and your feelings. No woman deserves to be disrespected! You should NOT GIVE IN. Do not sacrafice your beliefs for anyone. They're all you have! You obviously know that you would regret it if you gave in, so don't. And if the pressure is too much for you to handle and he won't back down, I think the best option is to part ways and find someone with views similar to yours, or at least someone who is willing to respect your feelings! Hope I could help. Good luck with everything.


Ah. Another iPod question. About the battery, I just don't get it. When it dies, I heard 1-2 years, you send it back to the company and they replace it [the ipod or battery?] or something, for $100. Can someone explain better for me and if it's really worth getting or not? (link)
Just like most rechargable batteries (even cell phone batteries), the iPod batties start to deteriorate. A lot of people are upset about this, including me. It's really worth getting a new battery for your iPod if you like it, cause if you don't replace the battery, it will eventually not be able to turn on. But there is a way around pay 100 dollars for a new battery. Every iPod comes with a 1 year warranty. This warranty covers anything that goes wrong with your iPod in the first year. If your iPod battery is lasting less than 4 hours before that year is up, you can get the battery replaced for free. If it's been longer than a year, you'll have to either pay for it or your iPod will die. Hope I could help!


sorry if the subject doesnt relate to what im talking bout,but none of them matched what i needed help with!!!
so anyway,does anyone know how to get cash if you're too young to get a job and your mom wont let you sell your stuff? (link)
Well, one option is to offer to walk dogs or mow lawns around the neighborhood or for people you know! Another option is to tell your mom that you would really like to have some extra cash and ask if you could help her with anything for an allowance or something. Hope I could help!!


Your boyfriend loves you very very much! Having said that, my question is as follows: Do you know how much your boyfriend loves you? (link)
Well....How might you know how much my boyfriend loves me? Having said that, no, I don't know how much he loves me and I never will. I don't think anyone really knows how much we love them because as humans, we aren't able to express all the feelings and emotions we have. I do know that he loves me a lot, though, because he shows it all the time. He does nice things for me and tells me how much he loves me everyday. I just can never be sure of how much! But that doesn't bother me one bit, because he will never know how much I love him either.
Your question is very interesting. Any particular reason you asked it?


ok im 13 female and i cut myself but not as much as i ust to i mean i havent in a week or 2 but my best friend betray me and my ex. bf still likes me and i dont no wat to do cuz his best friend makes me feel bad and i just tell myself not to cut becuz i dont want to but sometimes i have to like its the only thing i can count on to help me but i realli dont want to tell anyone so i dont no wat do can you help me? (link)
Cutting yourself is not a good way to deal with your problems. A lot of people feel that they need to do this to let out their agression and that hurting themselves makes them feel better, but there is a better way to let out your feelings. If you don't have any friend that you feel you can talk to about this, you might want to think about talking to a psychologist. There's nothing wrong with it! when I was 14 and 15, I went to talk to a psychologist everyday: it really helped me resolve my issues and feel more confident about my life and decisions. I feel that this might really help you out. Hope I helped. Good luck in the future!


Ok...my boyfriend broke up with my like.. 4months ago..so like in january.. the end of december.. and like i really really like him... and i want him to kno that i like him without like... tell him.. i mean i pretty much spelled it out for him..but hhe is like blind... well anywayz, i just need help!
DeSpErAtE! (link)
First of all, think of why you guys broke up in the first place. Most people who break up and then get back together end up breaking up again for the same reason they did the first time. He might already know that you like him, especially if he broke up with you. He might not care. You need to be honest with him about your feelings. Just tell him you think that the two of you have something very special and you care about him alot, then ask if he would be willing to give it another shot. If so, that's awesome! If not, move on. There are many more fish in the sea! Good luck!




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