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ok, there was this guy last year that I sorta liked (meaning I did, but I didnt want to admit it because he had a girlfriend)everyone said he liked me because he was always around me and we didnt spend a day apart. I even thought he liked me..well one day him and his girlfriend broke up. From that day on tho he just started acting mean..like anything I did he would make fun of. and he didnt want to talk anymore or hang out or anything. It was like one day we were best friends, and the next he was someone completely different who I didnt know anymore. Then he found out that I liked him and started being nice again..I even found out that he liked me a little bit..the only problem was, he liked someone else more. and when he started liking them even more, he didnt want to be around me. Now theres this other guy Im friends with and whenever Im around this 'new' guy, the guy I used to like is always trying to get me away from him..hell say things like ''why dont you come hang out with us..'' or ''you should go stand near the COOL people..'' and give the new guy a dirty look. so heres my question:
1)why is the guy I used to like so mean to me when Im alone, (I mean like he ignores me)but when Im with this new guy he gets jealous?
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Hmmmm. He could be like helga from Hey Arnold. He wants tp be mean to make it seem like he dosn't like you so he gets jelous around the new kid or he just dosn't like the new kid.
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I like thin guy, i dont think he likes me but my friends seem to be totlay convinced that he does. they say that he says he does when they ask him. i dont tell them to ask him they just do. i dont no if he really just likes me or there just trying to be nice. how do i find out whats really going on. (link)
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Be direct and ask him tell him you like him and ask if he likes you. That's the best way. Also tell your friends to mind their own business.
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how do you know if someone likes you as just a friend or more then a friend? (link)
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Well theres not sure way to know. But if they flirt with you alot thats usually a sign.
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i have a problem, where i really like this guy. hes a freshman like me, sweet a good friend, and some what good looking. Well one of my best friends likes him also. And he likes both of us, in a way that he both wants to go out with us. what do i do? (link)
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You and your friend should talk. See which one of you likes him more. If you both like him the same. Which is probebly true, than there really isnt anything you can do but let him decide.
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my friends keep telling me I'm anorexic. or im becoming anorexic... and it really bothers me. I eat food, but i dont always like school food. what should i do about it. I've told them i don;t like it when they say stuff like that, cuz it's not a joke... but they still continue to interrogate me....what should i do? (link)
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Well if you arn't really anorexic than ignore them or tell them they have to many rolls to talk to you.
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what do guys usualy look for in girls? (link)
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Looks
Humor
Personality
and for a girlfriend smart
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All my friends have boyfriends now.
And it sucks cause i feel out of place. whenever i hang out with them.
sorta liek the "3rd wheel"
Sounds stupid i kno.. and im really happy for my friends.
But i dont want to loose my friends.
And i think i like this kid.. but he is a grade under me.. and im very unsure on what to do about it. So here is when you come in... Help me out. (link)
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Well your first problem is that your the 3rd wheel which really isn't that stupid. I understand what your mean. There really isn't a solution to that. If you are the only one without a boyfriend then you will either have to get more friends to hangout with you all or when all your friends and your friends boyfriends hang out maybe you should just not go. Now the boy who is younger than you. If you like him and he's only a year younger then go for it.
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My friends tell me that i'm really skinny but I don't feel it, EVER. When i wear a bathing suit i always wear a shirt over it. When changing in the locker room I hide when changing my shirt because I don't want people to get disgusted. When i look at myself in the mirror I feel like i wanna puke. The twisted thing is that deep inside i know I'm skinny enough to not look bad when wearing a bathing suit but for some reason i can't apply that to when i'm actually wearing one. I just feel fat. So basically I need your advice, if you can give any on this, on how to see that i'm not fat. how can i learn to be comfortable wearing a bathing suit without feeling gross? can you help me on this because it is starting to effect me pretty badly. Thanks sooo much. (link)
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If you you really are skinny than I think the simplest solution is to get over it. If you are even a little overweight that is still not disgusting to look at when your in a bathing suit. Just start thinking who cares if they think I'm gross. It's just their opinion and it's just my figure. IT dosn't matter how I look. If your nice then people won't think bad things of you. If you ever feel fat just go to this website.
http://i33.photobucket.com/albums/d89/evjpleasant/random2.jpg
Atleast you don't look like that.
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Evan, ok so im really stuck because i think that i might like this kid. but im not sure. Cause when im around him i get butterflies in my stomach and i dotn know what to do. I want to tell him how i feel but im scared that he will not liek me back.. what should i do?
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When you flirt with him does he flirt back? Ask him who he likes. If he dosn't tell you give it a shot. Don't ask him out just tell him that you think you kinda like him.
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how do you know if i guy really cares or is just trying to get in ur pants.[sorry i couldnt think of a nicer way to put that] (link)
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If you keeps trying to get in your pants than that's his goal. If he hasn't tried many times it probebly means he's in it for you. Unless you are somone he will work long term for...
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how long does a girl hurt for after shes had sex? (link)
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Well the first time a girl has sex it's painful because her hymen breaks. (cherry pops). It will bleed off and on for a not long, less than a week. After that sex shouldn't hurt girls.
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evan, i have a fiew questions for you.
1. why do guys always say that girls are hot? y not beautiful or even pretty?
2. do guys keep secrets from girls like whether or not they like them?
3. Why do guys play mind games with girls?
4. Do guys talk about girls like who they like with there friends? (link)
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1. Beautiful is what you tell a date or a girlfriend, somone special. Hot is less lovey dovey.
2. Everyone keeps secrets..
3. I don't know if I can answer that. I think people play mind games to feel in control.
4. The close friends, yea.
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Hey Evan. I think it's really cool that your giving people advice.By the way, you give really good advice. So, my problem is that I really like my friend but he told my friend that he needs to get to know me better before he could decide if he likes me as a friend or more. We talk alot and we're really good friends but it's just hard because I don't know how to get him to know me better then he already does.So, what should i do? Should I give up and just be his friend or should I wait things out and see how it goes? Thanks for the help.
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Ask him if he wants to hang out with you somtime. Do somthing like walking around downtown. Don't ask him to go to the movies or somthing like that. It's a dead give away. Just see if he wants to go to the park and walk around and go inside almost every store on the street and buy candy and dumb stuff. Flirt with him. Laugh at all of his jokes. Buy him somthing stupid and little like from one of those machines where you put the quarter in and you turn the knob and a capsol with a prize comes out. Walk him home or havehim walk you home. Right before you say bye ask him if he wants to do this again somtimes. If he says yes that probebly means he likes you. If he says no than obviously you gotta give up. If he says sure, I guess, or somthing like that he's either playng it cool or finding a nice way to say no.
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Evan, Ok so i know this kid.. and i think that i might like him..But im scared to tell him.
Because if he doesnt like me which he prolly wont i dont want to ruin our friendship.And then to have him never talkto me again.. which would suck.. cause thats exactly what i dont want to happen. But i wanna tell him cause i think he should know. But i dont want our friend to end over me telling him..
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Does he flirt with you? If he does I would give it a shot. Just tell him you think you might be feeling somthing towards him and you wanna know if he feels anything back. If he says no than tell him you understand and next time you see him act like it never happened. If he really is your friend he won't stop being your friend cause you have a crush on him.
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Evan,
So i have this friend, a close friend and i think they like me more than a friend...and im so not feelin that way towards them. should i tell/ask them? or should i just leave it alone? (link)
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Just leave it alone. If he/she really dosn't like you you will end up making a fool of yourself. If he/she really does like you and you say somthing it will be embarrassing for him/her. Just try and forget about it. If he/she tells you that they have feelings for you then tell them the truth
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Evan I don't know what to do anymore. I can't take it. I have to tell my friend that i'm madly in love with him but I'm almost positive he doesn't like me. What should I do??! Please help me. (link)
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If you are really madly in love with him you should tell him how you feel. Honesty is a good descision if you are truly friends. If you don't want to tell him the truth than you should go out and try and meet new people and try and forget about him.
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Why do you think Goths wanna dress liek that?
Like why would you wanna wear chains.. dress in all black be wierd.
Hmm` i dunnoo.. Give me advice Evan.
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There are many possible reasons. Alot of teens need somthing to identify with somthing that lets them be themselves. It could also be a way to get attention. He/she wants the attention of most likely somone at home like a parent.
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Dear evan,
my bf keeps sneaking into my window at night. And I'm really worried about getting in trouble with my parents. I would rather he use the front door during sunny hours, but i ican't tell him that, because he might break up with me! whAT SHOULD I DO! It could get even worse if i get caught by my parents! PLEASE HELP!
sincerly,
window problems
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Allright, I think theres two solutions here.
1. You can tell him the truth and risk him breaking up with you.
or
2. Tell him that last time he snuck in your dad/mom heard a sound in your room and you told him it was nothing but he dosn't believe you. So from now on he said he's gonna check on you and make sure everythings all set.
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