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Q: last year i was new to my school i i met my best friend there. but now this year she dosent tellme anyhthing and dosent trust me she ignores me sometimes andwe get into alot of fight, she has new friends and she telles them her secrests but to me she dosent even tell me who her crush is i feel we cant be frineds anymore but me and her are realy close when we are getting along. what should i do? female 13
Tell your friend how you feel. I've had simmilar things happen to me, and I always ask them. Here are a few things you may realize:

They had no idea that they were hurting you and they're sorry.

Mabye you did something to make them feel like you don't like them.

You may just be growing apart.

You don't have to be everybody's best friend, but don't burn bridges either.

Q: hi i' trying to get this girl to like me so i can ask her out but every time i get near her i can't say n e thing i mean she is so prittie she has brown eyes curly hair and is tall wut is better then that?
and i would like to know topic you like
hum..is this a safe question for me to anwser?

Q: my friend has this rating thing and i'm trying to get on her list but i don't know how do do it can u give me some tips???
Thw whole rating game is just a joke with Val and Caitlin from Mountasia. I totaly know who this is! If you want in on it be really nice and buy me stuff!!!! ;-)

Q: Kingwood is COMPLETELY lacking in my age group as far as a dating scene goes. Where should I look for the next Ms. Thang? Do I dare look in Houston, or do I just ride Kingwood out until I move on... I mean, my biological clock is ticking!
Woah this is a hard one. I'd wait till you've moved on and shaved that unibrow before you try to ask someone out. If you get rejected then wilson will be there to cheer for you. "Give me a S..."

Q: ok well my friend is making points for her friends and i was rated 10.5! so i was wondering if u no away to get more paints or how to not lose points? its just soo frustraiting! so please just answer my question before i lose all my points!!!! =-O
Val...dude..it's just a game silly!!! ;-). Well right now your my best friend and a half so you can't gain points...just keep buying me stuff so you don't loose any!! haha!!!

Q: how do u think?
I don't! lol ;-)

Q: well... theres this boy(of course) who i have known and liked just about my whole life, and my family is really good friends with his family! He what i would consider "the perfect man!" He's funny and cute, and he's REALLY sweet(he makes me laugh soo much!)! I have never liked someone as much as him! I think he likes me too, but i really can't tell. I also want him to ask me out, but that wouldnt happen if he doesnt like me, or if he is just shy! What should i do? should i ask him out(if he says no it could be REALLy weird around him, and i see him ALOT!) should i wait till he asks me out(which could be never) or should i just tell him how i feel?

heyyy damsel (even though I know who you are!!!)
Ok, I would give it a little time. Talk to him whenever you can and let him know (body language and flirting) that you like him. Mabye he just thinks you don't like him! If he dosen't ask you out in that time, then let him know how you feel. I am so sure he lova you! He's probaly just shy. I would be carfel not to come off too strong or you COULD scare him off. But if he really is a guy I don't see any reason why he don't lova you! lol lyl!

Q: I am a girl by the way... Anyways i wear jeans, sweatpants, cacki pants, and cargo pants. I wear basic tees with cute sayings on them and sometimes i wear youth group tshirts or a camp tshirt. Now its startin to get cold and i have no idea what to wear... any ideas for some cute outfits blending in w/ what i already have?
i sometimes rate
Is there a Pac Sun at your mall? I have bought really cute sweaters there that you can wear with jeans.

Q: how do you get skinnier????

cuz im a fat lard!
I'm trying to lose some weight myself. Here's some tips.

Eating: Alot of times, when you think you're hungry in between meals, you could just be thirsty. When you DO need a snack, try to make healthier choices, like an apple or bannana. That dosen't mean you can't ever eat junky food, but you'll enjoy it all the better if it's just on special occasions.

Exercise: Try running around your neighorbhood, bike rides, playing a health related sport. Whatever you do, don't overwork yourself. If you've just starting running, you can't just get up and run a mile. Pace yourself. Also pilates are really good for your figure!

Q: hey em, its u know who! ur first frend! ok theres this guy i like but i dont want any one to know! we acked like we hate eachother! I have wierd dreams and well i dont know! it seems like when i tell somone who i like it all goes bad! wat should i do!
Hum..I don't understand where the advice part comes in. Just don't tell anyone!

Q: It's about a girl. What else? The backround story; we've been in the same insanely close group of friends since 2nd grade. I haven't liked her for THAT long. Some point last year I had one of those "whoa..." moments, and realized how I felt about her. I never really asked her out, per se, but at one point I had explained how I felt, blah blah blah, she didn't feel the same way but still loved me as a friend, etc.

Not that long ago I did ask her out, again, to find the same results. I only did it because she had been acting a little differently. "Interested", I suppose. I'm not too torn up about it, I moved on before and can do it again. But should I ever bother with asking her out again? Twice seems like enough, I mean, should I just wait for the impossibility of her "coming around" (while considering other girls, of course) ?
Don't worry about it unless she starts giving signs that she likes you. Believe me, you will be able to tell. It won't win her affection if you ask her out all the time when she dosen't like you. You could lose what you DO have. A great friendship.

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