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ok i really need some help i'm going out with this i boy i really like but my BF4L likes him too what do i do?
sincerly, i dont wannt break up with him (link)
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good news: he likes you and you like him, and you guys are going out. bad news:your BF4L lkes him too.
well maybe if your BF4L is fine with you going out with him then you should keep going out with him.. but maybe if she isnt fine with it, you need to make that descion of letting go and DEAR friend, or letting go a DEAR LOVER. that is a really hard descion.
you really shoudl talk to your BF4L about it...
erin :]
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OKAY so i like a guy a LOT and so does one of my EX-friends he might be going out with someone... im so confused HELP! (link)
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well kool. you like someone. and so does your ex-friend. maybe you should find out if he is going out with someone.. maybe if he isnt then you should ask him out. come on. what do you have to loose. that girl isnt your friend anymore. she shouldnt get in the way of that. and IF you and this guy and you go out and your EX-friend says that you are just doing that to make her jealous... just let her know your not! NOTHING i mean NOTHING should get in the way of TRUE LOVE!
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ok i need your help i really like this boy but he likes someone else at leats i think and i mean like i super like this boy and i have for more than a year but i have no chance and like everyone says we would make a cute couple but i dont know and every time i hear his name i smile and whenever he talks to me i get butterfly and the way he smiles just makes everything else just fade away.....and like i think he might like me cuz we had this school thing one night and he like hung out with me and always tried to talk to me and at school and other places he always pushes me and jokes around with but i dont know if hes flirtin or just bein a friend thats a boy i need help cuz i cant ask him out im too scared!! and hes super hott awesome personality and even when im havin the worst day and i wanna cry he makes me smile without even sayin a word me just seein him makes me smile
help
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well if you liek him that much.. and you think he likes you that much.. try to bring up your self esteem and get up the courage to asking him out. you only live once.. and you know. the next day a new girl could come and brainwash him into going out with her.. you dont want that do you?
ASK HIM OUT. what do you have to lose?
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There is this boy in all of my classes except library and computer. I go to a small Catholic school btw. Anyway, I think hes sweet and cute and really nice. he sits next to me in honors algebra. but i made fun of him last year for no reason and i think he kinda likes me but im scared that if i ask him out, his mom (who hates me) will get mad.
what should i do?
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go for it anyway.. i mean come on.. you only live once. and his mom cant MAKE him break up with you.. its his choice not yours....
erinnn :]
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okay so i like this guy at school and he likes someone else.. when i asked him out he said he would rather be friends WHAT DO I DO!!??
help! please (link)
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well if he likes someone else then.. theres not much you can do. you can either keep crushing on him and hope that he begins to liek you.. or you can just let hi mgo and infd someone else..
but thats not my decision.
come ask me more questiosn if you need help..
erinnn :]
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My friend has this guy at school that she likes, and he is always turning around in math asking her questions. But when they have math homework he always gets them right. She wants to know, is he flirting with her??? (link)
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YES he is DEFF. flirting with her. and she shoudl ask him out because form the looks of it. he likes her back.
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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch (link)
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well ask him if he is goign to the party this weekend. but you know. if you would like to hook up with him again you really need to be careful. if he cheated on you and he never said sorry, do you think he regrets cheating on you? did he really liek you? you need to think abotu those things before you just go back out with him again and take another chance gettign your heart broken. im sure you will be able figure out weather he is right for you or not. just think abotu those questions i asked. think hard and carefully abotu them. your welcome...
erin :]
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i think i like this girl named (#$^%) but i dont think she likes me how should i get her attention?
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well are you friends with her? first. if you arent. then just say hi to her in the hall way. and go up to her locker and ask what you had for homework or something. and maybeb when you get to knwo her enough then ask her out.
and if you are her friend already and you know her enough ask her out to the movies or a date. and maybe to dance at a dance. it not that hard. and maybe you can have one of your friends tell her that you like her.. or have one of your friends ask her who she likes..
well good luckk..
erin :]
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well yeah. i just started taking birth control last sunday.
and i just went to take one and while i was getting a drink of water from the faucet to swallow it i dropped the pill into the focet and it went down and i couldnt grab it.
so what do i do.
my boyfriend and i have planned to have him ejaculate in me on christmas eve so do i really have to worry about it. and just go on taking them or not? (link)
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first. if your mom or dad or any family memeber knows you are taking this then you need to let them now right away unless you would like to get pregnat at this age.
So you need to ask the doctor what you should do. just contact them right away.
thanksss.
erin :]
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i like this girl, well i think i do. She's goi'n out with sumone already. I don't know if i like her or im just jelous.
signed,
Totalconfused (link)
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No. you aren't jealous. You just a like a girl and she already had a bf. if you were jealous. then you would be trying to break them up, or sayign mean things to them. You like her. But that CAN turn into jealousy. so just remember. when you liek a girl and she has a bf... dont try to get in the way of that even if YOU want to go out with her. And if you think she deserves better... well maybe tell her that [if she is sensative.. i wouldnt though].. but if she REALLY deserves better, then she figure it out on her own.
just dont in the way of there relationship.. and if you tell her you like her, you will feel better abotu yourself, AND the direactions can change.. because she really could like you, and is tryign to make YOU jealous.
well good luck. hope you will take my advice.
erin :]
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I'm engaged and my wife to be is still friends with her ex-boyfriend. She even expects me to have dinner with them both if we move to the same city. He still wants to be with her, and she says that I don't understand that it is the mature thing to do. I think it is pretty straightforward: we should stay away from exes. No talking, no dinner. Am I crazy? (link)
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NO WAY! you are definatly not crazy about protecting your wife from her ex. you are just doing the job that you are supposed to do.
erin..
P.S:: just tell her that you are concerned that he will try to take her away from you.
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Okay, well i have this freind, Jane, and she is the nosiest thing. She'll look aat my grades, eavesdrop on me and my freinds conversation and ask personal questions. it's like shes a stalker.
But shes realy nice, but annoying
what should i do?
-jan
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tell her NICELY!! that you need some space and stop telling her to be soo noisy and stop asking those questions. if she gets mad at you. say Im sorry if i hurt your feelings but i need some space sometimes too.
erin :]
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my boyfriend loves me and i know he does because he says it everyday.......but he is hanging out with this other girl and hes going to a concert with her tomorrow they only hang out because they both love switchfoot ALOT so i understand that....but now there is a rumor that he likes her and i hate it......wth should i do!!!
please help i ove this relationship too much :/ f/12 (link)
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well talk him about it. ask him if the rumor is true. and if you really love him you will let him go and trust him around other girls... sometimes it may not be fun, but you will have to face it one way or another. you cant just let him do this when you dont knwo if he really olikes her or doesnt.
well best of luck to you are your BF.
erin :]
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i like this guy. hes really nice, but all my friends think hes mean. its just that they dont know him like i do. i dont know if i should respect my friends, or go for what i like.
i just want them to know hes not as mean as he might seem [[hes just kidding around :/]] (link)
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okay. well if you liek this guy.. GOOD FOR YOU.. your friends may not like him but hey! you doo! dont let your friends get in the way between him and you. tell them he is joking. NEVER LET YOUR FRIENDS TRY TO GET IN BETWEEN THAT! even f it does mean losing them. you can always get new ones. but it is your choice. you can either listen to your friends and just forget the impossible. or go for what YOU want. and take the guy and make new friends.. sooner or later your friends will figure out that you would rather have someone who you can trust and always rely on.
good luckk
erin
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ok so i have a friend and when i was new to the school she let me sit with her and we have been like X this ever since.......but this year herr 8th grade friends all like me now and she thinks that im taking her friends........we are in a fight and i thin shell pass like she has before but what should i tell her about the whole stealing her friends thing......i didnt try to take them......f/12.....signed friendship in jeopardy....~ ~ (link)
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Okay. if she thinks youare stealing her friends just let her know that you aren't. Tell her that it is not your problem that her friends started likeing you. Tell her you didnt try to take them. I mean if you really did then you wouldnt have written this to me. Just confront her and let her know that you are sorry if she thought that you were tryign to steeal her friends. She SHOULD understand if she is your best friend. i mean trust me... i have been in situations like this PLENTTY of timess. and even if you think it would be better try not to hang around them if it makes her mad. but she needs to except that those 8th graders can have other 7th grade friends besides her.
peace..
erin
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heyy..um well i have this friend&&she wants me to liket his one boy, and i don't even know him, but then there is this one boy t my school that i reallyyy..reallyy like.and he likes my best friend. wat should i do? (link)
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tell your friend you like someone else. she shoudl understand you. if she doesnt she isnt a real friend to you.
And if you like another boy, GREAT!! thats awesome!!
Have the best of luck.
erin
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heyy..so my bestest friend in the whole wide world wants me to like this guyy. BUT i like this kid that goes to my school, and i think he likes me back, but still not sure. Every time i talk about who i like with him its awkard. im like totally obsessed with him lol. but anyways, i don't want to let my friend and my crush down, wat should i do? (link)
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Well just tell your friend that you only like him as a friend, and that you like someone else more than one. And if she understands what you are saying she will just drop it and face that you liek someoen else. But if she doesnt, she really isnt your friend.
If you feel uncomfortable talking about who you like, then tell him you dont like talkign about it, or just try to change the conversation casually without making it look like you dont want to talk about it.
Well i hope i helped you, and if i didnt feel free to ask for advice again!
erin
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ok. so there is this boy i like... but i dont know how to get his attention without acting retarded... i see him at dances and kinda stare at him when he's not looking but how do i send him the message that i like him without being too obvious? and what if he doesnt like me back?
signed... CONFUSED (link)
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Ok. well maybe try to dance around him and start casual conversations with him. Just act like yourself, dont act like someone you arent.
Just try to play it cool. Dance by him and get a good conversation going, and here is a hint, when you are dancing around him, dont like press up against his body and dance like a slut.
Well hope i helped
erin
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hey. there r some grl at skool that i like and umm they kno that i like them and all but i jus that umm people say they are slut and stuff and they have treated some of my friend wrong so i dont kno wat to do please help me boy 13 (link)
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Well i mean, if you like her.. then what are you waiting for, it's good that you let her know that you like her, but if she has a bf that might be a problem. so if she does don't be askign her to go out to the movies or anything. just play it cool, make her think that you are glad that she has a bf. That will make her think you are mature enough to maybe be HER man someday. Soo until then, play it safe (with her and her bf) and play it cool (make her think that you are fine that she has a bf).
Hope i helpedd
erin
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okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a litte over a month. we really like each other. and he wants to kiss me. its okay with me but he doesnt know. he thinks he is rushing me but hes not. how do i get him the message? (link)
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OK. well if he thinks he IS rushing then maybe you SHOULD wait a little while. Because you cant rush those kinds of things, because you dont want him to get the wrong idea about you.. right? So until you guys have that perfect moment, he WILL know when you are ready!! Even if you wanted to, YOU could even kiss him by surpirse.
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