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I don't know everything, but if you need me, I will listen, no matter what and try to throw my best advice out there. Mostly because I love helping people, and I like being helped myself.
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E-mail: Anthrowolf89@yahoo.com
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Location: Bakersfield, CA
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Age: 19
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Member Since: November 21, 2008
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16/f
So this guy Alex started talking to me last week and we flirted a lot so at the end of the week I asked him for his number and he gave it to me. So i texted him on monday and he talked to me for a little bit (through text) then on tuesday night i asked him (through text) to call me at 11 and he said he would and he never did. So yesterday i texted him calling him a jerk and when he asked why i said because you never called me and then he apologized and said he fell asleep. I asked him to call last night if he was up and he said he would if he was awake...he never called. He never says anything to me in school. On tuesday he said hi to me for a second. I think I might like him a bit. However, I really don't want to annoy him. So should i ask him to call me earlier like 10? Or should i call him myself. Or should i just give up on him. Because I rather leave it where we're at than him end up hating me. Help?
Most guys are like this to be honest, the ones that don't call anyway.
As for him ignoring you in school, he is probably acting that that because he thinks you like him. If a guy thinks a girl likes him (even if they are complete flirts), they'll get distant and feel awkward around that girl. It's happened to me before when I asked a guy out that used to be my best friend. After that day, he would avoid me at all costs and even quit walking home from school with me. My dad always told me, that if a guy doesn't call a girl back, he obviously doesn't care too much. So go find the guy that loves to talk to you, and wants to call you back :)
Hopefully I was of some help to you
19/F
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anyone know any really good books. and I like books have questions kinda. like one of mysteries books have like questions what you think happend next. and book make you think alittle and draw to it. I want a romance but nothing you know. I like something about finding your way or books base on real life but somtiems I like read fansty I sorry can't spell. but anybody know any books they love so much give me ideas I try it out. i am high school leavel books thanks. :) plus series to :). i dont want any books people talking to eacher not my thing. and don't need slef helps books well maybe alittle maybe being postive and stuff like that. and i am looking for like book working with Delepemtal kids sorry bad spelling..
Well, books I love are
"Trouble with Magic" by Patricia Rice (Romance)
"To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee (Don't know if you'll like it, but its still a really good book)
"Something Wicked This Way Comes", by Ray Bradbury
(They say it's science Fiction, but I still don't see how....)
Jean Lowery Nixon books are really good.
They also have a series called "Dragon's Blood" by Jane Yolen (Fantasy/Sci Fi)
"Upon a Midnight Clear" by Sherrilyn Kenyon
(I think its a series as well because it says "Dark-Hunter" series)
I've never read them, but "Twilight" seems really popular. The books are written by Stephenie Meyer
Stephen King's "The Shining" and "The Stand" are really good too.
Not sure if you like those though.
Hopefully I helped.
19/F
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Before you start thinking of a response to my subject, it's not what it literally sounds like.. Anyways I like this girl like a lot. Shes special to me, she became my second TRUE friend in my life. But my best friend knows her a bit more than I do and said that she's heartless, a gold digger, and has no intention of finding love. After hearing that my heart sort of broke a piece off. He was just trying to save me from experiencing a greater pain, but right now I'm in a state of like confliction. Like inside I don't want to believe that shes that kind of person. I was thinking of trying to change her but my friend mentioned that people can't change, and even if I do change her then it will become one of those situations where your loving someone for who they are not. I don't quite fully understand.. If she really is that sort of person then I want to change that, maybe shes heartless because no one cared for her or was there for her. Any advice? I don't want to be just her friend.
Have you heard of giving someone the "Benefit of the doubt"? Give her a chance, and get to know her a little better. Your friend may just be upset, and think that after you and this girl hook up, that he won't be your best friend anymore. I could be wrong, (you know him in real life so you have better judgment :)) but you need to look at both sides instead of just being blinded to just one. If you think he is telling you the truth, I would be cautious. Although, if I were you I would get to know her better myself.
In the end, it's your decision. I have been in many of these situations, and I know they are not easy, and most of the people who tried to protect me were right... and it made me feel stupid, but I know I did no wrong, and I no longer feel that way because I was doing a good deed. Getting to know someone before getting to know them a little more is better than dumping them off into the gutter before actually seeing it for yourself. Who knows, if she is heartless, maybe your heart can melt the ice. I, myself had a great impact on people and motivated them to change. Don't get me wrong, though, you can't force someone to change unless they want to on their own.
I hope I had a good understanding of what you wrote above. Good luck and hopefully I helped.
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