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Okay, so I've liked this guy for a while, but he wasn't really into having a girlfriend. It took me a while, I'm still hurting, but I've managed to step away for a bit and let him go. If it's meant to be it'll happen, he's a great guy, but it hurts too much to wait. Well, I started to meet new people, and one of them happens to be 20. He's really nice, but kind of strange. I'm not sure if he really likes me, or just wants to get in my pants. Also, he's really depressed and slightly suicidal. Then there's this other guy. He's 17 (i'm 16), and seems nice. I met him through my best friend (a guy), but from what I've heard he's a player and he's also got like, 3 other girls he's flirting with. My friend told me that he's not a cheater, and is looking for a girlfriend... but I dunno. It's just really frustrating! Where are all the really great guys? The ones who can commit? I'd really like to be w/ the first guy, but he may not wanna get together for a while... if ever. I'm just really pissed, where's my price charming? What should I do? I really need some help. Thanks, and srry for the length. (link)
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I don't think you should wait forever for the first guy. If he was interested he would probably have shown a sign by now. So I would move on, although it is a little dissappointing.
The second one, the depressed suicidal one, may be too much work. You need someone who will treat you good and make you feel good.
The third one, the one you think may be a player, might be your best bet. Just because he hasn't wanted to commit to the girls he has been with in the past doesn't mean he won't with you.
But you should be patient. Sometimes your prince can show up when you aren't looking so hard. Just remember you are valuable, expect to be treated well, and don't settle for less.
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