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ive been goin out with this girl for over a month now. i havnt talked to her in like 4 days and everytime i try to she never answers and i send her messages and she dosnt get em
ive evan tried talkin to her but she won't talk back
what should i do?!?!?!?

(i really like her so much)

umm..well maybe you should try a surprise visit to her house? She's probably really busy but if its not that then she is avoiding you..give her some time she'll come around

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This guy told me he still has feelings for me and I as well have feelings for him too. We were each others first loves. He has a girl who hes been with for quite a long time now. We spent a lot of time together and when we couldn't he called me, he hasn't called me lately.. do you think this may be a sign that he's moving on? Or lied about having feelings for me? Why hasn't he called?

Well since you were his first love I don't think he's lying...you'll always love your first love. Maybe this guy is grounded or something and hasn't been able to use the phone? or maybe he's really busy...you never know. I don't think he's moving on, its always a possibility but I dont think so if he told u he has feelings for you.

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Hi my name is Phill and I have a question. Why won't people like me for who I am? Sometimes I feel like it's me but I don't know what to think anymore. I need some advice for people liking me for who I am and not judge me. Can you Please help? Thank you. What do you think I should do?

Hey Phill. My best advice is for you to keep being yourself. If people want you to change or be something other than who you are, than they aren't worth it. If they're going to expect you to be who they want you to be, you won't be being true to yourself. First of all, you have to like yourself for who you are, before other people will. You shouldn't care what other people think about you, so if they say stuff about you, just shrug it off like it doesn't matter even if it does. Just be you and have fun..hope I helped!!

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this may be stupid but my one friend dared me to ask a guy out then I started thinkin bout it and I realized I really liked him. I asked him out but he still liked his ex so he said that he has to think bout it. I think our friendship has changed because when we talk it's more flirty but I can't help to think that he's something I just can't have. I don't know if I should move on and forget bout him or just move on but still keep him in mind.

Well every situation is different..but sometimes these things work out on there own. Don't give up hope just yet..especially if he's flirting back. Don't like..worry yourself every day about it though, just go out and have fun. Keep him in mind, but dont make him ur everything just yet. Hope I helped

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i like this one guy and i think he may like me but im afraid to tell him how i feel incase he doesnt feel the same way..should i just tell him how i feel or just see how things work out

Well, you should always tell someone how you feel. Have you ever heard this quote? " Always tell someone how you feel, mean what you say and say what you mean, even when its hard. Opportunities are lost in the blink of an eye but regrets can last a lifetime"....

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I think I might be beginning to miss the guy I broke up with a week ago.. I was with him for 5 months. I don't have feelings for him but I miss talking to him and being with him.. I miss him being there, now what the hell do I do Becca!? And you know my other situation.. I give up on that one.. just so you know. I'm done, that's the right thing to do. Why hold on and hurt myself when I can let him go and be happy again?

If you miss talking to him and being with him, then call him. But don't get back with him..bc its not right. He's safe..and thats what you want. He bugs you...you can't stand him! Its okay that you gave up on the other thing..but if it comes back and *admits a mistake* i know u will go back

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My one guy friend that I've had for a couple years told me that he's liked me since he met me. I think I may like this friend, as more than just a friend, but I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. What should I do?

Well...obviously ya got some thinking to do. You have to ask yourself if you really love the guy you're with...who you think you'd be happier with..If you think you'd be better off with your boyfriend..then tell the other guy that you don't wanna lose what you have with him. If you think you'd be better off with your friend..then tell your boyfriend things just aren't working out and you need to see other people..hope I helped!

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What would you do if you had a best friend who is 16 you being a female at age 15 and has been in a relationship for two years and some odd months and he finally came out that he likes you? Do you pursue the issue as far as how you feel or do you just hide your feelings?

If this person told you how he felt, maybe you should tell him how you feel. Hiding your feelings could only cause regrets in the future..you have to ask urself some questions..like..do you love this boy? Is he someone you want to be with?..do you feel the way he does? for either which one..hope I helped!

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hey, I have a friend who is mad at me for sumthin I did N now she's takin it out on my other friend N she's really hurtin her...wut do ya think I should do?

Maybe you should talk to the friend thats mad at you, ask her why she is taking it out on your other friend..and make sure you tell your other friend (the one thats getting hurt) that shes only saying those things out of anger. You should discuss with your friend why she is mad, and try to resolve things. Try asking her nicely if she would please stop taking her anger out on other people. Try that...hope I helped some!

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Is it ok for your best friend to kiss the guy that you like a lot?

I don't think it is. If she had the same respect for you as you do for her, she wouldn't kiss this guy. You should tell her how you feel about it, and ask her how she feels too. If you don't want to throw away this friendship, talk things out with her, and come to an agreement. Good luck!

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Becca, hhaha im asking you a serious question.. what should i do when the guy i like stays with me but then stays with another girl too???
SIGNED,
lmfao i love you!

Well if he truely loved you, he would only want to be with you, thats how I see it. I think you should sit down and have a talk with him to find out what's going on, and who's more important to him. If he truely cares about you, he'll understand. Don't go chasing after him though, let him call you sometimes..make him wonder what you're up to...guys always wonder when they don't know what a girl's up to..oh yea..thx n love you too!

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