Hey all, Bridgette here! I live in Texas. I am in 10th grade. I love bball, soccer, track, volleyball, and softball! I play violin in my high school orchestra. I can help w/ family problems b/c my parents have been divorsed since i was 2...so u have any questions about that...feel free to ask! I can also help out in the sports department...as u can c i play tons myself! I can help in any department really just ask me a question and I'll answer ASAP! I hope i can help out w/ ur problems. For some reason it seems that it's easier to solve some1 elses problems than it is your own, you know what I'm sayin?
Gender: Female
Location: TX
Occupation: Student...9th grade
Age: 14
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hey, no offense, but what makes you qualified to answer other ppls questions when you are the same age as them and have had the same experience? (link)
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What kind of question is that? Are you like stupid or something? Because I have GONE throught the SAME experience I KNOW what to do and what NOT to do...so I'm trying to give them advice to help people not make the same mistakes I did! The reason people ask me these things is because they know I've gone throught the same thing and would like to know how another person has handled it and the outcomes of handling it that way. Did that answer your question? If you don't understand that...then leave me alone.
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hey Bridgette i really like this girl and i think she likes me but she likes other ppl. Like i really want to wait cause she's worth it and i like her a lot and i dont know what to do ;) (link)
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haha, funny funny huey! I mean whoever you are! oops, its out! haha! Don't wait she's not worth it and doesn't have the same feelings for you!
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hi.. theres this guy i lyk at my church named Nick... the other night i told him i lyked him over the computer... he replyed to me saying, "ur cool & all but not GF material" what do u think he ment by "& all".. the only bad part is theres a 4 year age differance betwween us.. thnks
confussed on you (link)
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I don't know what he meant by "& all" but I'm sure it wasn't negative. So, he knows you like him, but he doesn't like you. That's fine, you'll live. Big age differences like that don't always work out...sorry!
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i have a boyfriend, and weve almost been together 3 months.. but the thing is he's taking me away from all my friends. he doesnt mean to, but its kind of like he plays a guilt trip on me when i want to do something else.. but he doesnt know he does. we've talked about it before and it didn't really help. i DONT want to break up with him because i really really love me& he feels the same way. ( we talked about that too ) he also gets jealous when i hang out with his bestfriend because his bestfriend likes me.. soo if you can help me.. please do.
thanks (link)
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I think the best way to deal with it is to tell him how you feel. Yes I know that you'd already talked to him about this, but you keep saying that he doesn't know these things that ur saying. So that means you should tell him or talk to him about it, make him realize what he's doing and how you feel about it. I'm not suggesting you break up with him, just tell him how you feel and maybe invite him to spend time with you and your friends. Good Luck!
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What should I do? I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he was cheating, but then I find out that he wasnt. I still liked him a lot and I tried asking him out again, but he said no. I told my friend that I didnt like him anymore and then she told him. But the truth is, I do still like him. Do I tell him that I still like him? Because if I do, he will think that I;m desperate, but if I dont, then he probably wont want to talk to me. Help!
From,
Love sick (link)
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Okay...look...I know it seems like your life is gonna end or something. You said that you already asked him out again...and he said no. That means he doesnt like you anymore or something. Which means he isn't worth your time and effort. Just give up on him...you can tell him that you still like him...but he probably got that idea when you asked him out again, and since he said no he probably doesn't feel the same way about you. I'm really sorry. But you'll be fine and you'll find someone better.
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u answered my question but it still doesnt feel right i mean he was the one who wanted the head not me and he is the one calling me a slut and it was just one night when my parents werent home...
so should i give him one more head before we stop talking? (link)
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NO! If he wants it, but is calling u a slut for doing it, DON'T DO IT! I promise, doing that will bring more greif on you! Look...if he's going to be so mean about it give up on him!!!
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well i have done all these things with my boyfriend and then all the sudden he was like your such a slut.......and he broke up with me.. what did i do wrong? (link)
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okay...that's kinda weird! But boys can be like that! You didn't do anything wrong...it's his fault, unless of course he wasn't really into "these things" as you were and decided he didn't like "these things" which is higly probable because guys are like that! Don't worry you did NOTHING wrong! I promise! He's a man whore if he did that to you!
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ooooookkk here it goes, well i like this girl that likes me and this other girl likes me and she a friend and i dont want to hurt her, and there is my ex, who suprisingly enough that is still crazy aboutme, and the girl that i like likes me, but has a boyfriend,
well if you can help me on that one lol i will ask you advice on all my problems lol (link)
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Okay...wow...that's REALLY confusing! Let's see if i understand what ur saying! Okay you like 1 girl, she likes you but has a boyfriend. Then there is your ex who still likes you and there is your friend who likes you. It sounds like that you only like one of the 3 girls you mentioned. If you don't like the others then I guess don't go out with them, but since the girl you do like has a boyfriend, then your just going to have to wait until they break-up or something, unless you want to go out with one of the others. But since you don't like them, it wouldn't be very nice. I guess it's up to you... but I would wait till they broke up, since she obviously doesn't like her boyfriend if she likes you. But it's your choice! I guess my answer is as confusing as your question. lol Hope I helped!
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plz explain in what ways orchestra is awesome-er than band....because in my eyes...band gets to do cooler stuff than orchestra ever got to do... (link)
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I believe Orchestra is awesome-er than band. What "cooler stuff" has band got to do that Orchestra hasn't? Pep-rallies? Those aren't cool...half the school hates pep-rallies...so that doesn't count. Orchestra gets to play at Graduation, NJHS ceremony etc. Tell me what "cooler stuff" band gets to do that Orchestra doesnt.
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Well Im going out with this guy and we were best friends and i mean best friends before we went out but Im begining to take interest in this other guy and he happenes to be friends with my b/f not best friends but friends. I think I was better off as friends with my b/f but the only thing is he likes me too much....I am soooo confused help!
from someone you used to know but havent heard from in a while.....sn: stilettoofbeauty (link)
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Okay, your on my buddy list, now. First off, let your boyfriend know that u think u guys were better off as friends. If he likes you as much as you say he does, he'll understand and still be friends with you, and if he doesn't understand and doesn't want to be your friend, then he's losing a wonderful friend, and that's his problem. If after you break up with your boyfriend you still find yourself interested in this other guy, wait a week or two (probably two) and try to find out if he's interested in you too. If he is, go for it girl!!! I hope I helped, I'll talk to you on A.I.M!!!
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My best friends name is Kayla, and I have another friend named Jared, who I like. Jared flirts with me all the time, but he acts the same way to Kayla. I wanna know if he likes me. What should I do? (link)
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You know what...I've been going through this same thing. It really does suck. What I do is I try to get who he (Jared) likes out of his friends. It could be that he likes both of you. Thats how mine turned out. Don't worry. It'll work itself out eventually.
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So your in Orchestra? Do yall practice afterschool like band? Do yall have private lessons like band? Do yall have to come in every day and have your teacher yell at you? I didnt think so...
So technically comparing Orchestra to Band in hardness Band has to win it isnt easy playing mi big instrament maybe you should shadow a band student one day and see what its like!!! (link)
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Yes I'm in orchestra...yes we do have to practice afterschool like band...and we do have private lessons...and yes we do have to come in every day and have our teacher yell at us!...so comparing Orchestra to Band is fair...and Orchestra is harder then Band...that's why we don't have as many people in Orchestra...If your instrument is as big as you say it is... i bet you don't even have to take your "big" instrument home everyday and then bring it back ON THE BUS! obviously you don't know ANYTHING about orchestra...so I suggest that you keep your mouth shut...at least until you know what your talking about. Maybe you should shadow an orchestra student one day...and see what its like!!!!!
SportyBlonde001
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hey if you hav a good friend that isnt hot or sexxy or popular(this is a dued f.y.i.), but all of the sudden you really like her and want to have deeper relationship, but u also want to have a good friend ship what should you do??????? i hope you can help bridgggggget!!!hahahaha guess who
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orcadorksuck121, band nerds all the way,
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Well, um...idk who this is...so you can tell me...but um...i think that you should talk to her about how you feel, and maybe she feels the same way...not all relationships that end can't continue with friendships! A lot of my ex-bfs are still my friends...and some of my best...so if you do break up just make sure you guys stay friends! Hope I helped...and by the way my name is spelled Bridgette!
SportyBlonde001
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Hey.. umm what do you do if the chicken doesnt wanna cross the road?? (link)
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Throw him to the other side!!! lol!!
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I dont get it!! daffy duck wheres a t-shirt but when he takes a shower when he done he wheres a towel around is waist, plz help (link)
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you know...I never thought of it that way...but you have a really good point...but the cartoonists don't want to seem like nudity is a good thing...and you have to remember that those cartoons are for younger children who would scream and cry if they saw him without a towel around his waist. Hope I helped!
SportyBlonde001
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my bf ignores me and doesn't talk to me so wat shood i do break up wit him or deal wit it?i really really really love him and dont want to lose him!!!!! plz give me advice. all of my friends say he's a waste of time. shood i believe him or them? (link)
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Dude!! What's the point in having a bf if he doesn't talk to you and ignores you?! Find someone better...or talk to ur bf about how you feel...tell him that u feel that hes ignoring you and that you would like to talk to him more often! If you really really really love him...then talk to him! Your friends may be right...but try talking to him first! I hope I helped...and let me know how it goes okay?
SportyBlonde001
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Why do u think that Band is easy? HUH. It's better then being a singing din-a-ling!! HAHA (link)
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Well first of all...I don't sing...I play the violin...and Band is way easier then Orchestra...and all ur freakin trophies prove it too! If Orchestra were easy it would be called Band...so DEAL WITH IT!!
SportyBlonde001
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what do you do if you really want to kiss your boyfriend but you are really shy? do you know any pointers or suggestions to make it easier? (link)
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Ur going to be ok...when ur ready it will come but if your not then it wont and u'll be scared...but the first time u kiss some1 it's gonna be scary but after that its kinda fun. Are u sure he's ready to kiss u? thats a key point in kissing. make sure he's ready and if he is...he'll show u. Don't be scared just do it
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hey gurl, i kinda like my sorta best friend what should i do? (link)
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yea...well ASK them OUT! Unless they have a bf...they'll probably say yes! Take chances, risks etc. the worst that could happen is that they'll say no...and thats not that bad...if u think about it...it isn't. Thanx for the question and let me know how it turns out k?
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I think i need to break up with my boy friend because i dont really feel anytihng between us but um i scared to becaus ehe is ultra sensative what do ido how do i do it! (link)
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Well, I think you just need to tell him that u don't feel anything between u guys and hopefully he'll understand. If you don't tell him the truth it'll just be harder on him and he'll get more upset at u and then u'll never be friends again, so just tell him the truth. Hope all goes well! Tell me how it goes!
Audra
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