E-mail:
kathrynmarie09@yahoo.comGender:
FemaleLocation:
TXOccupation:
this matters why?Age:
17Member Since:
May 18, 2005Answers:
37Last Update:
June 3, 2005Visitors:
3937Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Parenting
View All
about
i'm kathryn, but i prefer to be called kay. i am 17 and i am a senior. i don't have the most exciting life, but i still have fun. my favorite colors are blue and pink. i am christian and I LOVE GOD. my boyfriends name is kyle. we've been dating for 10 months, almost 3 years on-and-off. i love photography. i want to go to college at Texas State with my best friend. i'm obsessed with stars and music. giving advice is something i enjoy doing because it makes me feel like i'm doing something... alot of people have come to me so i feel as if i should be doing something else about it and thats partly why i have this advice column...
advice
Ya theres many problems in life but one of the biggest is theres this girl. Who is so beautiful awsome loving caring and I cant stop thinking about her we use to spend a lot of time together but then she kinda just forgot about me i guess. I know people tell me to move on and im trying to but, people just dont understand how i feel i cant just give up on her and move on she meant the world to me and she still does and i cant stop thnking of her at nite during the day morning shes all i wanted in a girl and more but mostly i just miss her sooooo much and wish there was a way to go back in time when the two of us loved eachother! Its been a few months and i still cant stop thinking of her.. I know she doesent like me anymore cuz we never talk or do anything and shes doin pretty well in her dating life. But maybe one day something great will happen for the both of us. I can only hope!
Life is so twisted. When you feel that way about someone, it's love. And when your in love your feelings never change. I dont want you to think that you will never move on, because one day you will find someone else who is even more perfect for you. Just have faith that someone will come along who will feel the same to you as you do them. However, try to not let a girl do this to you. No one deserves to go through it so try and go out with different girls and i bet you you will find the perfect one. Just think of how much more life you still have for you and how long you have to fall in love again. I have to admit it doesnt come often, but it will come. I hope the best for you and i hope things get better.
I'm not sure what to do but i think my best friend might be being sexually abused by her dad...and i dont want to come out and say it but at the same time if it is true i dont want herr to be getting hurt! soo please help me out it wouold be greatly appreciated
If you are suspecting it at the very least, talk to your friend first. She will know it is very serious and if so try and talk her into going with you to maybe the police station or just someone that will listen that might be able to help. She will probably say no, just remind her how serious it can be and how bad it can get if she doesn't do something about it right away. I hope I helped and maybe gave you a few ideas of how to help this situation out. I wish the best of luck to you and your friend!
So one of my friends whi i don't like that much, but I am nice to, likes one of my best friends. The thing is that I like him too, when she told me i was speechless. she doesn't know that i like him, but what should i do? I'm thinking just leave it be?
Try to talk to your friend that you like and see if he likes her and if so, try to just wish the best for them. If he doesn't like her, try to tell him that you like him. I know it may seem weird, and it may be hard to tell him in person, but honesty is reallllly important. At least you will know that you put the effort into telling him how you feel. Never just give up on something you want, that's not the way to go at it. I wish the best to you and I hope I helped!
ok, my freind, J-lo, (that's her real name) Always wants me to do things with her. What I mean is, this girl name Clair, I'm her friend she my freind. J-lo be rolling her little eyes at Clair, and I look at J-lo like she stupid, so I'm like, its ok that you not her friend but you need to stop. She was like, "I can't belive u her friend." So, I don't say nothin'. And yada yada yada, then Clair asks me can she sit at lunch with me, so, J-lo all like " no no say no." But I say yeah. Then she be gettin' little attitudes. Every time She not someones freind who she's not, she think that we both always got to go with what she say and tell me not to be that persons friend. its like we both have to have the same friends and have the same enimeies. And I'm mad about that. And whenever I get mad, and need to tell something to someone cause they making me upset, I go alittle too far with the voice tone. I would really snap someone off to tears, how am I going to tell her. Or should I tell her off about how I feel? I'm almost close to not being her friend.
If J-lo is saying all those things and trying you to be enemies with someone just because SHE doesnt like her, shes not a very good friend... She needs to be able to let you have your own friends too... I'm not saying to not be her friend, but try and talk to her about it as calmly as you can in person. If it is easier do it over the phone or online, but in person is the best. Ask her why she doesnt like Clair and tell her just to not talk to J-lo because then it might be easier for the three of you.
Dear All,
I Hope you can offer some advice here. This is an extremely disturbing story.
Recently my Friend Angela started displaying some weird behaviour. First of all she accused my boyfriend of having sex with my best friend. I did not believe her as i totally trust my man. Anyway- we were not talking to her because of this and other malicious accusations towards my Boyfriend, and general nasty things about me.
So then its my friends wedding reception. Angela turns up dressed like the bride of Dracula and proceeds to walk around the reception telling people to watch out for my Boyfriend etc.
Then she text my Boyfriend (David) and asked him to come over to the house at 5.30 in the morning- which he did as he was worried. She apologised to him and said the real reason she had invited him round was because she needed his help on a mission, and there was a glitch in the Matrix!
I went round to her house later in the morning and she just went mad- saying that her boyfriend who she had recently dumped was a peodiphile but she had to go out with him so that she could prove he was and get him arrested. The reason for this was that she was a "Cleaner" and sent by God to get rid of all the "Black Cherries" in the village. She also said (and this is the disturbing part) that she had to examine a little girl and do Reikki on her because of what had happened to her. And that there was a cult in the village but she had nailed the leader due to the secret work she had been undertaking for the headquarters in Bedford.
Anyway- as you can imagine all this was very disturbing for me and David. She also said that she had been sleeping with David and me(!) behind everyones back which is totally ridiculous as i am straight, but she really believed it to be true.
She also thinks her name is TRINITY and the end of time is coming soon so thats why God has sent her on a mission to sniff out all the bad cherries and get revenge on them.And that i work for the devil etc etc etc
I could go on and on but i wont as you can see this is not normal behaviour!
What should i do- im disturbed about the peadophile thing and she also has 3 children - she sent me a text message saying "Hello Charlotte (the little girl) Sugar Princess- Ive got your Dummer" This is really scaring me and i dont know what to do- please help! I need some sound advice! She is Crazy and im worried what she will do or say next.
Thanks
Katy
Dear Katy,
You are right, this is a bit disturbing and shocking. All i can suggest is that you talk to someone about it. Someone that could possibly help with this siuation. Maybe even a mental institution. I dont want to come on to strong to the idea, but from what you told us it seems like she may need it. The text message is not normal at all, so try and show it to the person that you talk to. Since I am not aware of anything about you, if you can try and talk to your parents or sister or brother if you do not want to go to a mental institution first. Also, talk to David about it. Try and get as many point of views on it before you come to a conclusion, so you know you are making the right one.
Hope I helped!
my best friend is anorexia and she has lost alot of weight. i was wondering how long does it take for people to notice that you are losing weight and about how many days?
depends on the situation... if she was a little over weight it might take just a few days/weeks but if she was already really skinny it might take them longer
do you realy think true love still exist?And do trust for guys do?
yes i do... we just have to be patient for it to finally come around... were still SO young... there are alot of other things to worry about and that shouldnt be one of them... life's too good to stress out about it!
hope i helped
i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?
all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly.
just keep doing what you are doing now... obviousally its working for you so just keep up the great relationship!
if you really want to make her happy, but her a gift every once and a while (if you dont already) she'll love it!
It is my joy in life to find
At every turning of the road,
The strong arm of a comrade kind,
To help me onward with my load.
And since I have no gold to give,
And love alone must make amends,
My only prayer is while I live,
God make me worthy of my friends.
wow that is a really pretty poem. i love writing poems and i have to say that is better than most of mine!!! GREAT job!!
Okay, two friends Brooke and Anne. Anne likes Eddie, and Eddie likes Brooke, and Brooke and Anne and me are great freinds. Thing is, all Anne ever does is talk about Eddie, and when Brooke and Anne and Eddie are online in a little "buddy chat" Eddie will say that Anne is pretty, and funny, and then outside of the "buddychat" he will i/m (instant message) Brooke and say, "she's not pretty, She's not funny" its so horrible. Now, all Anne says is that she really likes Eddie, but Eddie likes Brooke. All the time she talks about him, and she always asks questions like, do I look okay, and do you really think he likes me? and I always say yes, but its like I have two people telling me things, one through each ear. Anyways, heres the huge part, Anne and Eddie are going to be working together this summer, as life guards. And, so Anne thinks she has a shot with him. Now, two nights ago, Eddie and Brooke went to the movies, and they made out. Anne would NEVER make out with anyone. But Brooke wont go past that. I know this is really confusing, but they both come to me about it. And Anne and her boyfriend recently broke up, so Brooke and me think thats why she likes Eddie, because its the first guy that she thought of after they broke up. At first, the first time i had heard of Eddie was through Brooke, she was going to bring him to six flags with me and My boyfriend. But now Anne likes him. and she says that he asked her out in 6th grade but she said she had to think about it. last weekend, Brooke, Anne and I went to a movie, and Eddie was there, and Brooke was very social, and was striking up and conversation, and Anne wasnt, she just said hi, and was asking me if she looked okay. So I dont know what to do any more.
Any sugestions? Brooke and I know we have to tell Anne, but we have dropped every hint, and I even told her that we think its because her and her boyfriend broke up, and that she should stop liking him. she asked me the other day what I did when i liked a guy that didnt like me back, and i said just move on, and i told her that was the story of my life, until now, i have a great boyfriend, and Brooke and Anne both wish they had a guy like him- we've been together over 15 months!- anyways, and i toled her it was pretty much the story if every other girls life too!
Help Please!
I Know you guys hate these types of questions!
Sorry, I tried to make it as least confusing as possible, but it is confusing enough to live.
Thank you guys so much in advance!!
-KeLsA-
:)
if it matters, I will rate and leave feedback! :)
thanks!!!!
first off... i think thats the most explain question i have read in here... THANK YOU...
but the best thing to do is to be honest with her. she can't be led on like that because one day the truth will come out and if it lasts much longer she will be depressed beyond what you can emagine. also, you might want to try and talk to eddie about the whole thing, and how it's not a good idea to be saying those great things about her when really he doesn't feel that way. try and get him to lead her on less and less. also, try and get her hooked up with some other guys at the mall or something. don't go with brooke or eddie or your boyfriend, just you, anne, and some guys that she might like. she has to get over him as soon as possible or things could go wrong... she might blame herself for him not liking her and that's never good.
but the best way to tell her this is in person. online or over the phone never works. if she gets mad or upset just look her in the eye and let her know that you just want whats best for her.
last but not least, you are SO right about how it's confusing enough to live. i agree 100%!!!
hope i helped
Ok its Lemontwist again, theres this guy hes a really good friend of mine and i really like him and people say he likes me, but im goin out wit joe and eddie (the other guy) likes this other girl in his band and he m/o wit her this weekend. Now im kinda mad at him and im not quite sure why. I think he new cause before she came to this christian rock concert we were at, we were together most of the time and he kept giving me hugs and gave me a piggy-back ride, but then when she came he gave me this fake weak smile and i knew that he knew i was upset.
So should i stay mad at him? although i have really nothing to be mad about.
Lemontwist~
ok im not trying to be rude, but i think its more of jealousy then you being mad at him. everyone has experienced it but we dont want to admit it. i think if you are getting jealous about it then i dont think your relationship with joe will last much longer. i've experienced all these things before so i know what you're going through. if you are thinking about other guys then joe isnt the one for you. just a suggestion but you might want to break up with joe before it gets too serious. plus it will let you feel free to flirt with eddie all you want and to try and get him to like you more. i think you would have been in the other girls position if you didnt have a boyfriend.
again... im just making suggestions...
hope i helped
ok im j/w is constantly biting your lips until they bleed then biting them more or always pickiking at scabs until they;re completley off a bad habbit like cutting? i know itz a bad habbit, but is it ANYTHING likr cutting!
Thanks a bunch! :D
~*jemmy*~ ((ps i DO NOT cut))
no its nothing like cutting... at least i dont think so... however you may want to try and get some medicine becuase its not good for your lips. the only way it would be considered cutting is if it was with a blade or something sharp... i would say it was a bad habbit though so all i can say is try and get some medicine that doesnt taste good so you'll stop messing with your lips :D
hope i helped
(16/F)
Ok. I don't know if this is me being totally paranoid or what but this just caught me a little off guard so I thought I would ask about this.
I got really sick the day before yesterday and have been really out of it for the past two days. So this morning I was feeling really sick and my dad brought me to the doctor, we left right after I got up and I went in my PJs and no bra.
So they did the normal thing at the doctors office, but I saw a doctor I don't normaly see. And he did the normal thing and he took my pulse with the thesascope (sp?)on my back then he did it on my front under my shirt which no doctor has ever done to me and he put his hands right under my breasts, and he like held them there a little longer then it takes to take a pulse and no doctor has ever done that either (except like once when I got a pysical). So when he did that it caught me off guard (he wasn't wearing gloves or anything)(and it was only me and him is the room, no nurses)
Also, when he was taking my blood pressure, he like kept his hand right on my breast when he was holding my arm.
I don't know if I am being paranoid but I really don't think so because no other doctor (male or female) has ever taken my pulse in the front, under my shirt, and done that (keep in mind I had on no bra) and no other doctor has had to rest their hand on my breast when taking my blood pressure....
I would like to know what some of you think, if I am just crazy or if your doctors do this?
Thanks for any advice or opinions.
o wow... i really think you need to say something to your parents... it might be serious but you never know... maybe he was just trying to get a good check up to make sure you were alright but it still kind of seems scary... if you dont want to tell them about it (because the doctor will probably deny the whole thing if they file a case or something) just tell them to NEVER go to that doctor again!!!
hope i helped
I am 14/m and extremly confused right now...There are two girls that I am very close with, they are practically twins (not by looks- intrests, thoughts, etc.) I have strong feelings for both of them. They both are extremly pretty, funny, smart, the works. The problem is I think one ,~Tara~, is starting to flirt with me while the other,*Laura*, has for almost a week.
Should I confront them about this? Or should I wait it out, or what?
Thanks to anyone who can help...
Signed,
Confused
dear Confused,
get some one on one time with them after school and try to go somewhere either with just a few friends or alone. i dont mean to go somewhere and make out with them, but just to go somewhere and talk alot. get to know them a little more. talk to them about it in person and see what they do. one of the best things to have in a relationship is honesty!
hope i helped!
Okay, I'm just a bit curious. Everybody thinks cutting is so freakishly horrible and everything. Well in all honesty, I don't see the harm in it unless you're making cuts deep enough for stitches or something. Otherwise, you may have a mark or a scar - but no real damage done..? When I get extremely upset - it usually helps calm me down, in a BIG way. What is all the hype about..?
most people just worry... they always hear the dangers of it and they dont know what it does to clam you and relax you. they just want you to be safe and they dont want to lose you! to tell you the truth... i've been in the same situation as you!!! so all i have to say is that when people care about you, most of them will freak out like that...
14/f
At like the middle of the school year, I noticed this guy who would always stare at me. I've totally fallen for him. He stares at me every day, and sometimes when I look back he has like a weird smile on his face. When ever I stand by him I can see him blushing. It's almost the end of school and I want to let him know that I like him. I'm really shy so if I could get my friends to help that would work out better. Any suggestions?
if he's doing all those things it's basically a dead give away that he likes you!!! just talk to him about it... prove that you can be bold and you can talk about those kind of things... just be flat out with it and let him know that you like him!!! things have GOT to work out and if it doesnt... let me know!!!!
hope i helped
what are some cute baby girl names?
adrienne
alicia
andrea
alexis
amanda
briona
bianca
bailey
becka
courtney
christina
ciara
dianna
daisy
dianne
emily
gretchen
hailey
hailey
holly
hilary
jennifer
julie
juliana
jackie
jenn
katie
katie
kathryn
laura
michelle
maddi
mandi
melissa
morgan
rebekkah
rose
shelley
sarah
tori
taylor
tara
tiffany
hope that helped
quick..i need a new way of masturbating..i usually just use like a big marker and rub my clit..but i want a new way (better way)..
any ideas? (btw i dont have a vibrator)
thanks!
i rate high
go out and buy a vibrator... i hear the work wonders...
if you cant buy one... find a partner!!!
Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what?
it's never good to come to conclusions... so just think the best thoughts possible... but if you were to come to a conclusion... it's a 50/50 chance that he's just afraid that you dont like him that you like him, or that he might not like you as much as you do... just try and think the best and talk to him about it in person... its the best way to find out the truth
hope i helped
How can I get people to ask me for advice?
tell them your good at giving advice....