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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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I have a bestfriend


Posted Sunday May 23 2010, 12:06 am

so I have/had this really good friend hes a guy im a girl and hes like my BEST friend we used to be super close and tell eachother everything and then a while back we hooked up, and well ever since then things just havent been the same we still talk but we've definetley lost the bond we dont share everything like we used to we dont hang out anymore i guess its just HARD ti realize hes not really there for me anymore and i want to be able to just keep him close or let him go but its not that easy. Is there anything I can do??

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quotes on losing friends/missing old ones


Posted Sunday May 23 2010, 12:02 am

I need quotes on losing friendships or friends and missing old friends PLEASE HELP

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I didn't think so.


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 12:34 pm

I have a best friend. We are both fifteen and in tenth grade. I am female, he is male. Let me tell you a little bit about us. We met in third grade and have been friends since. Every time I'm sad and I'm talking to him on the phone or something and I tell him I'm upset or he guesses, he plays his guitar for me because he knows I like that. I pack my lunch in school and every day I pack a six pack of cracker, peanut butter and I give them to him because that's his favorite kind. The other day, I was at a benefit concert and there was this cute boy there. Turns out, he's friends with my friend. So I texted my friend and told him he was cute and he texted back "yea, you told me.." and we got to talking about him and after the second ...

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Why is it hard for me to apologize?


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 7:36 am

i have a hard time admitting that im wrong i always blame the person and get mad instead of saying sorry, because when i say it i feel weak,mad,sad and defeated and i dont know why. I know its bad but i dont know why i feel this way. Is it pride?

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Why do people talk bad about people?


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 7:35 am

Why do people talk bad about people?
why do people talk sh*t about other people? how come some people doesnt talk bad abou people and theres people that gossips all day?

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Are you being fake if...?


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 7:28 am

are you being fake if your being too nice to a person you dont like? lets say you dont want to talk to them but when the person starts talking to them you end up talking to the person you dont like because you are too nice to say "i dont want to talk to you" so you talk behind that person's back?

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If you were me would you..?


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 7:27 am

I have a friend that is nice,good listener, be there for you when you need her,caring and good at keeping secrets, but the thing is she gossips and talks about people she doesnt like. Do you think i can trust her? I'am confused.

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why am i acting this way?


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 6:31 am

me and my friend got close this year, and we are so comfortable with each other and joke around a lot but recently our play arguments turned into something serious and we started arguing seriously and we were getting arguing because we didn't take other seriously when both of us talks about something serious but its mostly me, she confronted me that i hurt her feelings a lot and i started to become defensive and i acted like i was right and keep attacking her because i didn't want the blame on me so i blamed her i know it is horrible and we were both getting mad at each other but we forgive each other easily and we're okay now but this time it seems like its really serious,and the thing is she thinks that im acting different towards her lik...

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How come some people just doesnt gossip?


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 4:23 am

i know friends that talks crap about people and make fun of them or just talk behind people's back, but i know a friend that she doesnt talk bad about anybody or doesnt gossip about anyone and when one of my friend is talking bad about someone to my friend she just doesnt say anything or agree with them, it seems like shes uncomfortable by it, does that make her loyal?

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two completely different people


Posted Saturday May 22 2010, 2:12 am

Two people, they like each other, perhaps even are in love with each other. They are best friends, in college. And they are from completely different planets. She's white, he's black. From completely different economic backgrounds, different views on life, different goals, yet somehow the two people just click and understand each other. Maybe even better than they understand themselves. There's passion, compassion, and intimacy between them. They would do anything for each other.

But they have never mentioned their feelings to each other, it was always a big elephant in the room. Why? Because they are scared, what if it won't work out? What if what they have now will be ruined?

Can a long-term serious relatio...

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my friend ditched us?


Posted Friday May 21 2010, 10:35 pm

Well over the summer my friend didn't text any of my friends or me (except for once to go bowling...) and then we got back to school and she sat with us at lunch for one day. After that day she sat with this other group that she claims she didn't like last year. And since then she hasn't talked to me at all or any of my (used to be hers too) friends. My mom says i should talk to her and tell her everything, but im not sure. what should i do? i miss her a little, but i don't want to be desperate and pathetic or anything. help!

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I think my best friend is in love with me


Posted Friday May 21 2010, 7:55 pm

19/f. I've known my best friend since fourth grade. But, I didn't really become friends with her until high school. i'm not mean or picky about people, but she just kind of hid away in her own corner and thoughts, so we never really started talking till later on. but, sophmore year we became really good friends. she knows my life story, literally. but, during senior year i started getting these really weird e-mails from a girl (a fake account, obviously) saying that she went to my school and that she was in love with me. i thought it was a joke but the person was describing my class schedule, the way my bookbag looked and stuff. so, obviously, it was a real person in my class. i started to suspect it might have been her because she was neve...

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Is it bad to be silly?


Posted Friday May 21 2010, 10:32 am

my friends always says that im silly what does that mean and is it a bad thing?

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I don't want to go to my friend's graduation because...


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 5:23 pm

My friend is having a small graduation party with some friends for graduating 8th grade (which gives you hint how old we are). She's inviting her boyfriend and his best friend (who is dating my other good friend), of course this didn't surprise me, but the problem is I really hate both of them. I used to date his best friend and he screwed me over, but that's a different story and probably why I don't like them. They are really arrogant and annoying and I really don't like them. And I am really mean to them when I am around them and they are to me. At the end of the night, I usually am really angry and really no fun to be around at all. Then I want weed to make me feel better. I don't enjoy being around them and just get mad so I made a sil...

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what do i say to my friend (she cries about her past)?


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 8:04 am

My friend was physically abused by her boyfriend when she was about 15. He hit her a lot and put her in hospital. THey are definately not going out now.

My friend (lets call her Ana) is still haunted by the abuse. She says that when she closes her eyes she sees him coming at her. She has been to a psychiatrist, it helped a little, but she is still scarred by it. One day Ana came up to me and she was very upset and about to cry. Ana told me that she was upset because she had an emotional talk to one of my other friends (lets call him Michael) about it. Michael wasnt a very good help, although he thought he was doing the right thing, he told her that the best thing to do was to try and get over it and just "put on a brave ...

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My friend was sexually assaulted recently, dont know what to say.


Posted Thursday May 20 2010, 7:54 am

My friend (we are both 16-year-old girls), was recently sexually assaulted by a 15-year-old boy at school who is her ex-boyfriend. The police are involved and so are the teachers and school. (the assault happened at school. It wasnt rape, he just touched her innapropraitely and tried to do stuff. Also the boy and her broke up months ago and he seemed ok with it)
My friend is taking it ok. She is upset and angry and stressed, but she is a very strong girl and hasn't been emotionally affected as bad as people usually are.

The thing is, I dont know what to say to her. When this subject is brought up i dont know what to say. When she told me about it i didnt know what to say. And recently she told me that her dad cant look...

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Hes my bestfriend but...


Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 9:12 pm

I have a good friend(very good) Ive had a crush on him since I met in way back in sixth grade or something like that. just a really long time about. And he said something to me today. "I love you and dont forget it" then kissed my forehead. He has a girlfriend. But they are going through rocky times. I dislike his girlfriend because shes been mean to him. But Im confused about with I should do.

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my friend is hurting cause of my friend


Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 3:23 pm

i have two friends who seem to be in love with each other they went out but it didnt work out so well cause hes not such a great well lets say lover so they broke up months pass and now he said he wants her back but turns out he might be going out with the one girl we all hate but at the same time his hiting on my friend she knows all of this but what do i do to help them cause i know he loves her

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Why do i feel this way?


Posted Wednesday May 19 2010, 4:08 am

everytime i talk about something serious or personal about myself i feel really vulnerable and emotional and start tearing way too easily thats why i avoid talking about it with others because i know i will cry at the moment i talk about it but i could talk about personal things and not feel anything at all why do i feel this way?

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Is my best friend really a friend at all??


Posted Tuesday May 18 2010, 8:07 am

I have a friend who I have known for almost 15 years, and she is like a sister to me and a best friend. Recently, my friend said she was going away on a hen do weekend to Ibiza because someone she knows is getting married, and my friend said to me 'you should come', but at the time I said I will try because I would have to find someone to watch my son for the weekend.

Fortunately, another friend of mine has offered to look after my son so I could go on the hen weekend with my 'sis', and I told her I had found someone and could she please let me know the flight details A.S.A.P so I could make sure that I get on the same flight as the hen party (the rest of the hen party has already booked), furthermore, flight prices go up by ...

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