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Heaviness,Anxiety and Fork in the road
Posted Thursday July 3 2014, 5:43 pm
Hi there,it's love choice again!!
I have been re-considering my trip with this young man.
You see,I have never been away from home before,and Im scared.I have a heavy feeling in my heart and gut.I dont know whether fear is coming to me and Im scared or what.
Im 25,I have never been away from my mom,especially in another state.IS this why my heaviness is setting in?
Wenever I see a video of my love or talk to him I get no heavy feelig at all.
Thank you all in advanced for being here for me!!
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Was he trying to bring up relationships or was he trying to end things?
Posted Wednesday July 2 2014, 8:45 pm
22/f, 27/m
I'm seeing a guy, we're not sure if we've exclusive or not, but he came over to my house for the first time and he met my parents. He slept over at my house. Yes, we do have an intimate relationship as well. The morning after, I showed him a big stuffed animal I had that was in my closet. I told him I had no idea where to put it. He jokingly said, "well, since you don't have a boyfriend, that means you can cuddle with that at night."
I laughed it off but it has been lingering in the back of my head for awhile. Was that him just saying he was considering me just as a fuck buddy? Was he trying to talk about being exclusive and that's the way he tried bringing it up? Or was that him just jokin...
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Is it okay to assume that we're exclusive?
Posted Wednesday July 2 2014, 4:28 pm
21/f, 27/m
I've been dating this guy for two months. We haven't really discussed whether or not we were exclusive. We have but we did not go anywhere with the conversation.
He knows that if he was seeing other people, I would stop seeing him. He has also told me that he would be upset if I was seeing or dating other people as well. He has told me that he wasn't seeing anyone else but he has been "chatting" or "talking" to other people but he hasn't actually seen them ever since he met me.
The one thing that throws me off is that he's also still on Tinder (dating app), is it okay for me to assume that we're exclusive? Or what should I make of it?
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I can't help but compare myself to his ex
Posted Wednesday July 2 2014, 3:58 pm
21/f
He did not make me feel less pretty than her, I put this on myself. I don't think he knows that I know how she looks like. I don't think he was aware that we went to the same school and that's how I know.
I've been dating this guy for two months now and every time I see her, every time he mentions her, I can't help but compare myself to her. My friends and siblings have seen her pictures and the first thing that comes out of their mouths are, "wow! she's really pretty!" And they look at me and say, "it's okay... You're cute?" And it makes me feel worse about myself.
I know that she worked for a dog rescue, etc and I sometimes feel like he brags that he has dated a Brazili...
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Love desicion
Posted Tuesday July 1 2014, 3:06 pm
hen I was 12 years old,I met a young man about 13.We met in church.We hanged out alot and we were close.He left the church with his dad who was singing there at the time.
I am 24 now and he is 25
I moved to another state,and he is still in California
3 years ago we got back in touch through Facebook.At first we were texting and talking always,and throughout this period we had times of seperation due to personal problems,not neccesarily with eachother. The times that we kept texting we just kept getting closer and closer.And we love eachother.
We are planning to see eachother in September.Ive saved money and Im happy.
The problem is is that I have beliefs.I am not Jew...
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Is it right or wrong? Love Choice
Posted Tuesday July 1 2014, 2:23 pm
Hi,Its Love Choice girl again!
A few things have happened since yesterday.
I told my mother about seeing him,and she thinks I have lost it.
The pressing of faith has literally made me explode like a boiling teapot.Im so in love with this man,and hes such a part of my life! And for him to be gone forever is crimminal
My dad left the faith and my mom and family and I believe this part of why she doesnt want me to be with my guy.
Again,the Bible does state not to be unevenly yoked with a non-believer and not to intermarry religions.
I realize that,I had always felt strongly,that if 2 people love eachother and do worship and believe in the same God,it should be fine.I dont want to abado...
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Xboyfriend
Posted Tuesday July 1 2014, 4:42 am
So i deleted his facebook account off my friends and unfollowed him on instagram so i wouldnt see any of his posts esp the one or two with girls. And a few days after i deleted his facebook within a week he deleted my number. Can this mean that he checked my facebook to even know that i unfriended him and got mad so he deleted my number? Because when we were together before and if i turned off wifi while we were in a fight so kinda like blocking him he would be furious and be mad at me.
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Love Choice,should I stay with him or end it now?
Posted Monday June 30 2014, 2:45 pm
When I was 12 years old,I met a young man about 13.We met in church.We hanged out alot and we were close.He left the church with his dad who was singing there at the time.
I am 24 now and he is 25
I moved to another state,and he is still in California
3 years ago we got back in touch through Facebook.At first we were texting and talking always,and throughout this period we had times of seperation due to personal problems,not neccesarily with eachother. The times that we kept texting we just kept getting closer and closer.And we love eachother.
We are planning to see eachother in September.Ive saved money and Im happy.
The problem is is that I have beliefs.I am not Je...
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Boyfriend likes cartoon porn, but not intimate relationships.
Posted Monday June 30 2014, 9:49 am
My boyfriend has clearly admitted to liking hentai and other cartoon pornography but can not get an erection with me. He swears up and down that I am not the problem, that he is attracted to me, yet, I flaunt my naked body around him all the time and not even the slightest bit of arousal is seen in him. He stays limp. Everytime I ask him it's always "I don't know, I tell myself to get hard and it doesnt happen". I cant say what type of cartoon porn he likes because he hasn't shown me any of it, so, I don't know if its kiddy porn, or legimite adult on adult...I just know that he is into that and not into real porn, he won't watch the real life porn or even have sex with me. What can I do to help change that besides draw a picture of myself and wear it on my body?
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Boyfriend is texting my ex best friend
Posted Sunday June 29 2014, 9:37 am
I just got out of high school, but for five years up until almost the end of my senior year, me and this girl Carrie were best friends. We never hung out at each other's houses, we were just best friends at school and almost always had all of our classes together. She had a lot of problems with many old boyfriends since she was very young, and a tough home life. She was basically on her own since she was 13, her parents weren't too supportive. We stopped being friends because she did something to me, and then thought I was talking bad about her which I never would have done. She didn't believe me so I decided I didn't need someone like her in my life. The friendship was basically one sided anyways, she would tell me her problems and I would...
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Bf
Posted Saturday June 28 2014, 1:55 pm
Last night i was on my bf fb and i seen a message he sent to a girl saying "happy birthday cute girl" then she replies with "thank you" then he told her "you welcome" & he put a whinky face. & he searches for her on fb everytime & likes her pics! Am so sad. What should i do?
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He's going into the military
Posted Friday June 27 2014, 8:39 am
I'm with this guy names Allah and we haven't been together that long . He recently just graduated and is now going into the military . I'm a senior I'm high school. I've always been against having a partner that's in the military because I know I'm not strong enough to handle that type of relationship. He's made it clear that he wants me to stay with him while he's there and I stayed in the reality of it and said it would be hard and things change and people and feelings change especially because I'm still gonna be in high school and the reality of it was that we wouldn't work and he's the one with the hope of it and he wants me to just try and see what happens and I'm not totally against it because I wanna be with him enough to not lose hi...
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Boyfriend's parents
Posted Friday June 27 2014, 4:15 am
'm 16 and have my first boyfriend. He is amazing and the exact answer to my prayers to God for a great first love. We have been dating for almost 5 months and we are in love. I have had immature short term relationships with guys, but my current boyfriend is the only guy I have ever been able to picture myself marrying. The only problem is his parents... They control every time we hangout and think up things for him to be busy with whenever we are supposed to hang out. His mom even booked a cruise during my birthday so he wouldn't be able to spend time with me for my birthday; however, on her birthday, she made him not talk to me at all and just pay attention to her. My mother has talked to her and she has admitted to having trouble letting...
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do I wait ? or go for it
Posted Friday June 27 2014, 12:41 am
So I'm a sophomore now in highschool and my WHOLE freshman year I did a long distance with a guy who's basically across the country. There were other guys at my school who wanted to go out with but I stayed faithful and told them I have a boyfriend. I got teased a lot because how now days there's so many catfish scams. Anyways we planned for him to visit this summer but it didn't happen because his parents wanted him to stay with us because they trust my family but my family said no. Then in May I asked for a break because I finally realized that we'll never be together and I asked for a break because it seemed the easiest way to break up without hurting each other. But then all of June we talked as if we were still together but we werent o...
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How to get him to unblock me?
Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 7:24 pm
It's been almost two weeks since he told me that it's over. and no matter how he explains, I still have questions, everyday, in my head. like, does he still love me the way he used to? how long should I wait? will I even get to talk to him again? will he talk to me again? what I really want, is for him to love me again like we used to. I miss everything, and I just took it for granted. I wanna see how he's doing, I wanna know when will he talk to me again? what is he really doing?
okay, what really happened. at the beginning of the month, we had a fight at night. ended in tears. I was frustrated with him not doing anything with his life and us not going out and having fun like young people do. he's frustrated that I was alwa...
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Past relationship affecting current one
Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 11:50 am
A long time ago I was hurt very badly by someone who cheated on me. It took me a decade to recover from this and unfortunately it involved substance abuse (some illegal, some not) and a near death experience as a result. I also had to get tested for various STDs which was also very unpleasant and stressful.
I have moved on, and have found myself with a new man who I am very happy with. We live quite far apart which means that currently we only see each other at weekends and this doesn't allow our relationship to grow. A few weeks ago we discussed it and decided to move in together. During this discussion, one of the (many) reasons he gave for living together was that we only get to have physical relations on the weekends whi...
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Boyfriend stopped trying
Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 10:18 am
My boyfriend and I are both 22 years old and have been dating for 3 years. I feel as if he "jokes around" way too much by grabbing my "lady parts" per se in public and I tell him to stop and he doesn't. I feel like the only time he tries to be romantic or nice is when he's trying to get it in with me and I can tell it isn't genuine. He stopped doing alot of the cute date things he used to do and I he gets mad when I don't give him sex. It's so frustrating. I do love him but he gets mad because we only have sex on "my terms". But it's hard to get turned on to him when I feel like a giant meatsack being grabbed all of the time. I tried talking to him but he just gets mad and says things like "I can't believe...
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He still loves me... But we aren't together. Was I living a fairytale?
Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 9:58 pm
Jist of what happened in the past
- I liked his best friend, same college
- We met and even though things got messed up ended up liking each other
- Started dating when he passed out (im still doing my undergrad)
- we have been dating a year. I'm 19 he's 22
- our parents know about us and we have met both sides
- we met in college and then he passed out and started giving exams
- he couldn't clear the exams he gave so his parents got paranoid about him going on the wrong path or getting distracted because of me
- he promised his mom hed clear the last exam for us to prove to her he can do something
- he started working with this ngo in town so we would see each very often
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Liking Someone Again?
Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 7:25 pm
So I just saw this thing online saying "feelings that come back are feelings that never went away"... and I'm confused because I liked this guy (Zack) and well yeah I liked him for a few months back in late 2011 and then I started getting these new feelings for this other guy. I really really did like this guy and I guess you can say we were friends around that time until the next year, we stopped being "friends"... and also when I stopped liking Zack, I was friends with him too. And I guess whenever he would talk to me I would smile? Idk. Then yeah 7th grade came and I stopped talking to the both of them but I still talked to Zack like every other month and it would be like a "hi" and idk it would make my day....
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I never get to talk or see my boyfriend anymore
Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 5:22 pm
Im a senior in high school and i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He is my best friend, but ever since our junior year of high school started we never get to hang out anymore or we barely talk. We would talk on skype for hours on end and we would text all the time. He has been busy though throughout the year so it explains part of the reason we dont talk or hang out. The thing is that I go to a youth group on sundays and for the past year i have asked him to go at least once but he never can. I know some people might think that its because he doesnt want to go, but i know for a fact that he does. His parents always tell him that they have a family thing or something coming up on the night i ask. Then sometimes if i ask him...
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