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What to write in your best friend's yearbook
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 11:00 pm
My best friend handed me her yearbook today to sign. We're seniors and so this will be our last school year together. She's been a great friend for the past few years and I love her to death. What do I write in her yearbook though? I want something really good but I'm not coming up with any decent ideas that aren't commonly used or complete BS. I told her I needed time to write out something good and that I'd bring it by her house this weekend. Please, give me some help.
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No friends
Posted Tuesday June 15 2010, 12:49 am
Over the past six years or so, I've lived as a recluse. I have virtually no human contact other than what is required. In an average day, I probably say about 100 words aloud. I had a small group of 3-6 "friends" in elementary school, but I very rarely did anything outside of school with them.
Unlike most people with this problem, mine is entirely self-inflicted. I was never bullied, and I've had no "bad relationships" of any kind. I simply do not enjoy multi-person activities (including conversation). Since I viewed friendship as useless in the past, I didn't pursue it, and I am now completely incapable of participating in any kind of social interaction due to lack of experience.
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Family Dilemma
Posted Monday June 14 2010, 2:44 pm
I am not sure where to begin….I have a cousin that I have been extremely close to over the years. I would consider her my closest and best friend. Recently, my brother has been forced to acknowledge he has had a chronic drinking problem. We all live in the same town, and we have always gotten together for kids’ parties, holidays, etc.
At the critical point of my brother’s alcohol problem, my cousin was deciding whom to invite to her wedding. My brother’s wife had moved from the marital home with the children. When asked my opinion, I suggested that she at least invite the sister-in-law and the children, as we didn’t know if my brother was going to stay on the recovery program. She elected no...
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I cant see my bestfriend yet
Posted Monday June 14 2010, 1:24 pm
Okay so about 6 months agon me and my best friend were on the run together. Then when we got caught we werent allowed to talk while we were in rehab because our parents think were too co dependant! Well now that we are both out our parents say we have to take things slow and im still not able to see her yet! it sucks because all our friends either have to hang out with only one of us because of it, And our friend summer which is our other bestfriends birthday is soon and only one of us can go! If you knew how close the 3 of us were you would understand how hard this is. Me leighanne and summer are like the three amigas! lol. But this sucks so bad I just want my bes friend back in my life now. She is everything to me :(
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i really think i love him but...
Posted Monday June 14 2010, 12:13 pm
okay im 15/f and i think i love this boy but hes turning 13 and im fixing to be 16 im not sure how to handle the age difference and all. how do i know if hes to young and/or if i love him?
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shitty Friend.
Posted Friday June 11 2010, 7:31 pm
so i have this person who was kinda my best friend but she always pissed me off a little, like shes very uptight and like to put people down and say things just for the sake of making herself seen cool, and she thinks shes the shit and really words cant express my anger. but anyways, while we were friend no one else really liked her and would always ask me like "why do u hang out with her?" and now i just had enough of her and ive done a pretty good job of staying away from her, but now everyone likes her. like its crazy how popular shes become. but the thing is that now she just bothers me so much that i feel uncomfortable being around her because she always trys to put me down and w/e...but its killing me that people like her now. what do i do?
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i think im stepping into depression.
Posted Friday June 11 2010, 2:09 pm
18/f
lately my motivation to do anything has gone down. i have alot of confidence in myself and i think i'm a great person, but i don't pick the best friends.
basically my friends are all about themselves. they don't give a shit about me, they say they do, but they don't because i know when someone actually cares about me because they SHOW me. i always have to ask people to hangout and they're never there for me when i need someone to talk to and they are just all about themselves and i'm tired of it.
i usually have a boyfriend. i was dating a guy for 2 years in high school then we broke up and shortly after i was with another guy for like 5 more months(i liked them both, i didn't date just to d...
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I have no idea of what to do or think and it's making me miserable
Posted Wednesday June 9 2010, 10:55 pm
So tomorrow is my last day of senior classes (high school) and all of the sudden, I'm having problems with my best friend, Holly. Holly is by no means a perfect person by I have some of the best times in the world with her. She's like a sister to me we share all of our secrets and as a friend, I just love having her. There is a sense of friendship we have. She has some faults though and sometimes she doesn't treat her friends with the respect they deserve. That's why her bf broke up with her. So here's the short version of the saga. In march, I got mad at Holly and somehow we stopped talking for about a month and a half. It was one of the most miserable times in my life. Whether or not it was for a good reason , I still felt awkward around ...
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i think she's shallow, but is she realy?
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 7:13 pm
i'm a girl, 16. i have a friend, her name is Alexis, but lets call her "LEXIS" for short. Ok, so Lexis has been dateing this guy named Jim for about 4 and a 1/2 months. Well yesterday she found out that he's... he's not the sharpest tool in the shead. she found out that he get's a check for $700 dollars a month. Now she's not a gold digger, not a gold digger at all, she's more of a image person. so last night she called me and told me she was going to break up with him because, she "cant't be seen wit a slow person." I thought that was mean of her but befor i could tell her what i thought her uncle was calling and we hung up. So i talked to my other friend and 50% said that her reason for breaking up with him is shallow ...
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playin a trick on my buddy :)
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 4:14 pm
Okay so I'm fourteen female and one of my best friends is a girl and she's fifteen but we're both gonna be sophomores. Our other best friend Thomas is gonna be a junior guy. Just background stuff. ANyway, I just recently got dumped by this major douche bag who would always go around saying stuff like we "fucked every night" and lame things liek that. Well granted we did go far... but we never had sex... anyway me and my girl bff wanaa play a trick on thomas so were gonna pretend like we DID have sex and that I got preggers. It may sound lame, but trust me, if you know the situation and past conversations and all this other stuff, this is gonna be hilarious. So we already havee something that'll make this perfect. Becuase thomas an...
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need ideas for bestfriend's bday party! please!
Posted Tuesday June 8 2010, 3:46 pm
helloooo. its been a while since ive posted but well im back!
ANYWAYSS!
my best friend's birthday is monday,
but we wanted to celebrate it on saturday the 12.
well.... pretty much the whole weekend :)
soo yeah.
she had the idea to throw a pool party for 15 people & stuff but her mom didnt reserve the place so its not available.. bummerr right?.
i was thinking of a hotel party on the beach but i dont know what hotel will allow 15 teenagers in a hotel room without gettingg complaints. teens... whataya gonna do about them??
soo yup! that's prrrretty much it!
if you have any ideas (cheap preffered if possible please) write back & let me know!
x - banana
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i want more... but she is happy with her boyfriend. :(
Posted Monday June 7 2010, 2:16 pm
Hello, i am 15 and female. When i was in the 7th grade i was in a relationship with my best friend, she had a boyfrind at the time and he knew we were together, he even saw us kissing sometimes. we have only kissed, nothing too serious. In the 8th grade we were still going out and i didnt like other people thinking i was a lesbian or something so i broke up with her. We are both bisexual. Now we are both going into the 10th grade and i have these feelings where i want to make out with her and all that stuff. and its hard to control because we go to eachothers houses often and i always have the urge to kiss her but i never know how to go about it. The worse thing about this is she is in a comited relationship with a good guy friend of mine ...
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third wheel.
Posted Sunday June 6 2010, 7:05 pm
So, me and my 2 bestfriends are really close.
But sometimes i feel like im being left out. I know that they can hang out without me and everything but it seems like they do it a lot. Also, i feel like one of them dosent like me or has as much fun hanging out with me as the other one does. Whenever im hanging out with one of them, they will be texting the other one the whole time and it gets on my nerves. I just feel left out and i dont want to tell them that because i know they wont understand. What do i do?
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Im not sure what genre this is? advice asap.
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 11:42 pm
im 16/f. for the past couple of years i have been obsessed with the japanese culture, country, or anything. i've been dying to learn the language as well. My goal is i am going to make it to Japan one day and visit for a couple of months. however i know that the japanese language is the hardest to learn, but then i remember my spanish teacher saying that the easiest way to learn another culture is to live with those people for a while. how exactly would i go about doing that? this is a pretty rash thing im asking i guess haha. im actually wanting someone to tell me steps of how i would go about doing that. im not sure that i could considering im very shy. but i would get used to it. going to japan is something i crave i guess. im not really...
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Does she even care?
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 10:14 pm
I live with my grandparents. My friend and I have been friends since kindergarten. Well I promised her that I would go to summer school. But Then my grandpa died. My friend is like a part of the family my whole family knows her so it affected her too. Well when summer school came she asked me if I was going but I told her that I'm not going to summer school because then my grandma would be alone. She was like " But you promised!" Then she hung up. This was like a couple days ago. We just got over a fight too. Now every time I call she won't pick up and I leave messages but she still wont call. How do I get her to at least talk to me?
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Posting someone's number online
Posted Saturday June 5 2010, 8:16 pm
I'm wondering if it is illegal to post someone's phone number on a blog or chatroom or just online without their consent? An ex boyfriend posted my name along with my cell phone number online in a chatroom and I am now getting sexual texts and calls from random weirdos. I was reading that it is a violation of privacy and considered harassment but is there anything I can do to take it to the next level and have him get in trouble for this?
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All my friendships sink what is wrong with me?
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 11:24 pm
18/f. Why is it that every time I make a friend, they eventually leave me? I've had good friends at church and school or so I tend to always believe then I find that they aren't interested in me or being my friend. Every time I try to get into a close friendship with people I associate with, I never get invited to do fun things with them after school or on the weekends. Also some of the people I held closest and even the friend that came to see me in the hospital didn't even invite me to their birthday parties/dinners. It's been like this with me ever since I came into this world. I think I may be the cause of the problem but I don't even know what I do wrong. I sometimes try to invite them somewhere and they agree to it but when the tables...
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I fell in love with a friend
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 8:58 pm
I was in the same class as this chick. I didnt like her at first then we became cool. We started hangin out more...and i feel for her! I fall in love fast and hard. She basically didnt feel the same for me but that didnt stop me from loving her. I was "in love" for about 4 months and then i snapped out of it... i dont think i can be her friend anymore now but i cant hurt her feelings. I feel trapped and i dont know what to do.... Please help.
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Nobody texts/calls me on the phone.. Am I a loser? (long, please read)
Posted Friday June 4 2010, 8:40 pm
Like 99% of the time I have to initiate the conversation.. and usually they don't reply back. Am I a friendless loser? :( I even made a group on FB about me getting a new phone and put my number and asked other people to post theirs. some people I thought were friends who posted their numbers, when I texted them they replied "whos this?" so they didnt even bother to add me. WHY CANT I MAKE FRIENDSSSS. even people who i relatively consider close we hardly talk. why do i have such issues making friends. im not even a bad person or anything i just feel like im so different from others, but we dont have to be identical to be friends so i dont get it! people never even invite me for events. im 16 and ive never been to a sweet 16. in my...
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My bestfriends girlfriend is a female dog to me
Posted Thursday June 3 2010, 9:07 pm
Well I post a comment on his facebook saying that he was an awsome friend and I love him lots. And the next day I get on Im unfriended to him. I text him and ask him. He doesnt know anything about it and asked his girlfriend about it and she was the one that deleted me from his facebook. I asked him why she was so mean to me. And he says that he doesnt want to take sides and just to stay away from her as much as I can. WHat do I do about this? I feel like Im a thridewheel and shes waiting to take me down or something. How do I deal with a crazy girlfriend?
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