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I can't trust her
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 8:17 pm
Ok so me and my mom have a great relationship an all but there is one huge problem. I can't trust her she says oh you can trust me but when I tell her something she gets mad at me. If I tell her I want to do something she says no. So if I mess something up or feel down. I cant tell her. Once u told her I felt sad because of a guy and she made a huge deal out f it and told my dad and stuff. Oh and please don't tell me to talk about it with her because she is a hard person to talk to. She thinks it's her way or the high way. :( what can I do?
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should i ask?
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 10:29 pm
OK so recently my mom decided to give me the sex talk because she saw a text from my boyfriend saying 'i want you so bad right now.XP'. we were talking bout sex but he told me he didn't want to force me into anything and told me he wanted to marry me and would wait till then. were both 13. he\'s 4 months younger than me. so a week or two ago he went to Georgia for football camp for a whole year and they don't allow phones. so.. i cant talk to him or see him for a whole year</3 I'm really close to his mom and she gets to see him and talk to him so i can write letters. so back to the point. my mom gave me the sex talk and thinks I'm having sex. I'm not. today i was pissed off because i have acne and I'm sick of it. my friends mom told me t...
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just confused.
Posted Friday January 22 2010, 9:59 pm
My husband and I haven't been married a year yet. I dont know if its because I am 34 weeks pregnant but I feel depressed alone confused. I am 18 years old and he is 23. He has a 6 year old son who lives with his mother and I have a 3 year old son. Then one on the way he doesnt work. I finally got him to put in several applications today. He spends money like its grown on trees. We lives with my father which I can stand. I was working a job were I was making good money but I had to leave for medical reasons during my pregnancy. He and my son fight all the time he is always yelling at him. My son cant play in the living room be infront of the tv. watch cartoons in the living room cant be to loud. etc. My husband gets fustrated with him and se...
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husband and best friend
Posted Friday January 22 2010, 8:12 pm
Hi,
I found your name on advicenators,
I have a very difficult situation and want to remain anonymous please.
I am a 21 year old very devoted Muslim girl. I am married with 1 beautiful girl and a wonderful husband. He works in IT and I am a stay at home mom who is on the internet much too often.
I was raised in Jordan. We went to a very good school and Quran school. I learned to memorize most of the Quran at a young age.
This is the first time I am opening up about this and REALLY need your advice.
My parents sent me and my brothers and sisters to a Quran boarding school for 3 months out of the year every year since I was very little. I learned a lot. But the man ...
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girls and teacher
Posted Friday January 22 2010, 7:32 pm
I got your email from adviceanators...
Hello. I have a very difficult situation and want to remain anonymous please. Please dont judge me when you read this. I really could use your advice.
I am a 22 year old very devoted Muslim (my father was American Indian and my mother Jordanian). I am married with 2 beautiful girls and a wonderful husband. He works in IT and I am a stay at home mom who is on the internet much too often.
I was raised in Jordan. We went to a very good school and Quran school. I learned to memorize most of the Quran at a young age.
This is the first time I am opening up about this and REALLY need your advice.
My parents sent me and my brothers an...
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pregnant
Posted Friday January 22 2010, 12:01 am
15/f im pregnant. About 2 weeks now. Im very scared to tell my parent's although, i know they will understand.
I dont belive in adoption, nor abortion. I think both suck. i intend on keeping my child. I was more along the lines of asking, how bad is childbirth? I want to do a seasection. Do they numb you? or..? Im scared of the pain. And also, where can i find cheap baby clothes? Thanks in advance
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SHOULD I CALL THE POLICE?
Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 12:04 pm
I have a cousin who has always been a problem and my family recently received a call from her mother and sister asking my parents for help for her. Apparently she is now a drunken cheating whore who neglects her two young boys. Her neighbors have called the police but somehow she and her husband convince them that nothing is wrong, yes, her poor stupid husband cleans up after her. I want to call the police and child services, but I do not know if they are legal here in the states and might be deported. I am torn, I am concerned for the kids but I do not want to tear a family apart with deportation. Yes, my cousin is crazy and stupid but her poor husband is a great guy and I do not want to hurt him. His only fault is loving her too much and being terrified of her.
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family problems
Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 3:18 am
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ok so during these holidays my parents told me and my siblings that they dont love each other anymore, and are getting a divorce, and for the first few weeks it affected my sisters alot, but not so much for me, i think it was because i understood that people do this kind of thing all the time, but lately my girlfriend who i love (or think i do anyways) and myself, things have just been weird, only starting this week though, im not sure why, i ask her whats wrong and she just says she doesnt know, and its pretty hard for me, ive been getting really angry and sad from it all, more angry than sad though. ive talked about it to people and theyve tried to help but just idk anymore about anything, i havent really wanted to do anything...
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Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 7:08 pm
I've never had an amazing relationship with my mum. She makes me feel useless and stupid, yet she treats my older brother like royalty! He can swear all he wants at her, she just laughs it off and I get moaned at for doing nothing!
When we were younger it was the same. I always got in trouble, even when it was my brother who caused it. I've been thinking recently and trying to figure out what triggered it. I don't remember hardly any of my childhood, but I remembered my mum hitting me a few times, it makes me feel so bad saying it out loud because it wasn't exactly the worse case of child abuse and I do love my mum, of course I do, but we've never had an open relationship. In my house, I've learnt that I can't have an opinion or say ...
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14 Year Old Son Sex
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 4:43 pm
My wife and I recently can home from out to dinner and found my 14 year old son and his 14 year old girl friend in the family room on the floor having sex. To be honest we did not come in on them for about 5 minutes because we went straight to our room and kept hearing "something" and finally went out and there they were completly naked and had obviously been active for at least all of the time we were there - and for a while before. There were two used condoms on the floor and my son was using a third.
Yes they stopped when we came and. We told them to get dressed and clean up. We called his girl friends parents and discussed the situation with them. They said that they had been having safe sex for six month...
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family issues and possible abuse
Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 4:12 pm
Hello. I have a very difficult situation and want to remain anonymous please.
I am a 26 year old very devoted Muslim (my father was American Indian and my mother Jordanian). I am married with 2 beautiful girls and a wonderful husband. He works in IT and I am a stay at home mom who is on the internet much too often.
I was raised in Jordan. We went to a very good school and Quran school. I learned to memorize most of the Quran at a young age.
This is the first time I am opening up about this and REALLY need your advice.
My parents sent me and my brothers and sisters to a Quran boarding school for 3 months out of the year every year since I was very little. I learned a lot.
You see I ...
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Posted Saturday January 16 2010, 8:05 am
My mom is into drama big time!! and is immature,she is also two-faced and is a very negative.She even talks crap about me and my brother's and think's its ok.She always twists and makes up storys about me and my brothers too tell people.You can't talk to her about anything because she runs and tells everyone what you tell her she cant keep things to herself.She called my nephew stupid and thought it was okay.you cant tell her how you feel because she doesnt care,she'll just say your crazy
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Tell Mom about period...
Posted Saturday January 16 2010, 2:21 am
I just had my period and I know I should tell my mom but I don't want to be embarrassed. I cannot find the right words to tell her that I've started. It wouldn't be a problem but my mom doesn't have periods right now and doesn't keep any pads or tampons in the house because of that. I can't just stuff toilet paper in my panties. My friend gave me a few pads but I can't keep asking her for them. How do I tell my mom about my period and not feel stupid? I don't want her to make this into a big deal...
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sister
Posted Friday January 15 2010, 11:02 am
i have a sister that is in to drama,I've only meet her one time and she never takes the time to get to know me.Well she likes to believe every thing my mom says about me and my mom doesn't know anything about me because my dad raised me. she likes to make up stories to tell me sister telling her I'm crazy.well my sister found one of my other sisters and was telling her all kinds of stuff about me and my other sister asked if i grow up with her of course i didn't but she made it sound like she did.Well she picks who her family is and she doesn't talk to me.I just want to cut her out of my life.I wanted to talk to her about how i feel but she'll run and tell my mom everything because she's two-faced
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!?!??!
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 6:23 pm
Okay, so I know this does sound really mean, but I cannot stand my boyfriends sister. I've been with him for a year now. I'm 16, he's 17 and his sister is 10. I can't even explain what it is about her that winds me up so much. We actually had a good relationship to start with, and we did get on really well. She was brought up to be polite and nice and that but, up until a few months ago she's just been so needy and clingy and sucking upto my boyf soo much than she used to. Like, the other day was a snow day at school so we weren't in, so I went round his house during the day, but I wasn't feeling well, and he knew this. But, I only had about an hour and a half with him that day and we played xbox for about half an hour, then his sister insi...
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Why doesnt My dad love me
Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 8:11 pm
he says he does, but shows it never and recently kicked me out. why doesnt he love me?
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Divorce - Seek lawyer or sounds fair?
Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 9:56 am
Hi,
I'm asking this on behalf of a friend who is unsure of what to do.
He's getting a divorce from a woman who cheated on him and carried a baby for nine months saying it was his before kicking him out of their house and telling him it isn't.
The lawyer she hired is a pro bono lawyer and is putting a lot of pressure on him to sign a document before tomorrow at 3 PM.
There's nothing really to fight over, but he's concerned that the lawyer is not making things fair for him.
He makes about $15 an hour, works full time, and is being asked to pay $600 a month in child support plus half of medical and all court costs.
There's no property to fight over. He's...
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Living with my boyfriend
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 3:48 pm
Okay Im a 19 year old female. I just moved in with my boyfriend (who still lives with his parents) in july and im pregnant. We live in a small town there is nothing to do and I dont know anybody here but his family. I dont work because there isnt any jobs around here and my boyfriend doesn't want me to because Im pregnant. He does work and his brothers go to school and everybody takes off everyday and im here at home by myself everyday with no car and nothing to do. I've been getting really depressed lately i cry for no reason and I think Im homesick. I miss my family but I don't want to hurt his feelings please help is it something i'll get over or am i depressed I don't want to be and i've heard it's not good for the baby..any advice will help thank you.
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Overbearing Parents
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 2:31 pm
I have a friend, 18 years old, who is in her second year of college. She was born in the USA, but her parents are from the middle east. Her parents are very overbearing. She is not allowed to go out alone or talk to boys at all and must always have her paren't premission to go out with friends, talk on the phone, or do pretty much anything. She must come home right after school and is not allowed to have a social life.
As a girl, her paren't feel that she must be protected and are constantly nagging her and guilt tripping her. She gets no privacy as they are constantly in her room and looking over her shoulder and critisizing her while she is doing homework. This is affecting her grades dramaticaly and drains her of joy and energy....
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help? sisters boyfriend murderer?
Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 12:22 pm
im 16.f, and my sisters 18.f. She is now dating a guy who is 26, just got out of jail for drug possession and he was previously accused of murder, but there was "reasonable doubt" so they didnt convict him, and was kicked out of his house. He is a drug dealer without a real job..yet my mother lets him sleepover, EVEN THOUGH ive talked to her about it many times, nad told her he scares me and i cant sleep when hes here. I also hear them having sex at night and thats just disgusting. I really need help because i dont feel safe at night with him here. Please, i need some help. My dad doesnt live with us anymore, and ive tried talking to my sister and my mom but they dont listen to me.
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