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Linessa 28 Birth control help


Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 9:00 pm

Okay i know this is going to be very confusing. but i am in my 2nd week of a four week period package. if i stay this way i will get my period on the 27th of this month. and the 27th of next month. mygrad is on the 26 of next month.
I have thought about stoping this week and starting a new package on this following sunday (it is tuesday today), and that way i will get my period on the 10.

Is this okay to do? will it hurt my baby maker? is it wrong any other helpful advice?

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Plane Flights are avoiding me to go on trips


Posted Tuesday May 13 2008, 2:42 am

Our class trip is going to Poland and Israel for two and a half weeks
we fly from chicago to Poland, Poland to Israel, Israel back to Chicago. One of the main reasons I do not want to go on this school trip is because I am scared of flights and I suffer from panic attacks. I don't want to embarass myself from getting a panic attack on the plane flights and I'm thinking of taking adenine I think it's called. But the longest plane ride I've been on was six hours and I never traveled over seas before. I need some advice how to handle this situation whether i should go or not.
And to add
How long is the plane flight from Chicago to Poland and how long is the plane flight from Israel back to chicago
And what's the fo...

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Autism


Posted Monday May 12 2008, 9:08 pm

I would like your input from all of you if Autism may have a factor on having a relationship? The reason why I am asking this is because I do suffer from autism and because of it, I seem to be avoided. Now I am one of those guys who is not a bad guy at all. I don't smoke, I drink very little alcohol and do not do drugs, and I am usually pretty quiet. Now I think the fact that I am quiet maybe another issue as well. I'm shy and may also have low self-esteem and that could be another factor as to why I don't have a girlfriend. It's very hard to find that right girl because most of the girls are always wanting a lot from guys and I just don't have the money to be doing all this stuff with them. I am in a lot of debt. I don't want a gir...

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Posted Monday May 12 2008, 9:01 pm

Okay i need some anger managment tips, because i have really bad problems. I get really angry really quickly. And i bite myself, i know its not healthy and i want to stop, but it feels so good. It takes away the pain...

Last july i had a problem with my cousin. He tried to get me to make out with him and he was getting really close to me and i didnt like it. He left and i tried to block it out of my mind, and i did for a while. Well then he came back during semester exams and i freaked out again, then he left and came back again in february and somehow got my number and pretty much stalked me. He lives in indiana. i live in ky.

But now everytime i go to his city i am REALLY cautious and dont do anything because...

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nervous, jealous


Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 11:21 pm

i am 19f and and i have been experiencing very bad jealous and anxiet attacks. i am overly sensitive as well and it GREATLY effects my relaitonships with everyone. my boyfriends, friends and family. it is not good and i cant help it. idk what to do. should i see a therapist

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Bulimia...


Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 2:32 pm

f/15I used to be bulimic. and i was for about a year. i lost 30 pounds. but scince ive stopped ive gained back 10. a week or two i was depressed. so i threw up agian now everytime i eat something sweet, drink soda or smoke a cig. my throat burns really badly.I know why it hurts cause im geussing stomache acids burning away my throat...But how do I get it to stop? I know to stop being bulimic, and im trying but what else can I do so it wont sting?

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Aniexty


Posted Sunday May 11 2008, 1:45 pm

I think I may have aniexty but my dad doesn't seem to think or take it very seriously.
I'd like to see a doctor to check it out,what kind of doctor would I go to?

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mood swings


Posted Saturday May 10 2008, 9:51 pm

ok so i have like mad mood swings all the time.. one second ill be so happy or hyper and then like a minute later ill look and feel like crap or like i haven't slept in days or ill be really mad and upset and my moods changes so quick all the time.. im 16/f does anyone no why this is or if its normal? my friends and teachers always ask me whats wrong because ill be so happy and they go to like so upset?

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Self Injury / Depression


Posted Friday May 9 2008, 5:06 pm

I guess this comes under meantal health...
Ok well i used to be a cutter last year.
Bad i started about 3 years ago and stopd lasted year.

The thing is ive got so depressed lately all i want to do is harm...
I just want to get a knife and go deep.
To be honest im waiting for someone to cut me by accident or whatever. (if you get what i mean)

Im not a type of person that takes the wrong road twice so i really dont want to go back to it.
ANd im full of advice for everyone... except me.
I just want that red liquid to emerge from my skin.
To trinkle down my wrist.
To feel the stingy numbing pain....

Please point me in the right direction

Vikki

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thinking


Posted Friday May 9 2008, 3:51 pm

i envy the way some people can make eye contact with someone while they are talking and still be able to concentrate on what the person is saying AND be able to think about what they said, and then come up with a response. I CANT DO THAT! i am pretty much infamous for asking people to repeat what they said a lot of the time.

whenever i make eye contact i focus on their eyes instead of what they are actually saying..and then when they finish what they said i have to ask them to repeat it. i also noticed that sometimes i am kind of a slow thinker i guess, like a lot of times i realize that im just staring at a place but not really thinking.

this is bothering me, especially the eye contact thing. i need advice on...

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Parents Vs. Psychologist


Posted Thursday May 8 2008, 11:48 am

Well I have been seeing the school Psychologist lately. To make the long story short, I've been seeing her for a few months. She says I need professional help; that what she can do for me is limited, so I need to go see someone. She tells me that since I am 18, I can sign this form to refer me to a doctor. I talked to my parents about it and they say I would be stupid for signing it. Well I am deeply depressed to the point where it's affecting my relationship with family, friends, and my boyfriend. I want to be happy again! It's just the money that is a problem for me sort of. But I am thinking well I am 18, so.. should I go sign it? What do you think?

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My Mom


Posted Wednesday May 7 2008, 10:28 pm

I think my mom is depressed and I think she is bipolar. Im being really serious.
Im 16/f and I dont know what to do.

My 23 year old sister also says the same, I dont know what to do, I want to tell my mom to get on some medication but if I tell her, or if my sister tells her, she goes crazy, and she will flip out.

The smallest things will make her so mad.
I dont know what to do.


Please reply.

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psychiatrist and depression!?


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 6:08 pm

ive been seeing a psychologist now for a few weeks becuase of my depression. next week, im going to see a psychiatrist and she or he will determine if my depression is bad enough for medication. i was just wondering, how do they determine if your depression is bad enough for medicine? like, will the psychiatrist ask me questions, or draw blood, or what? thanks!

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9/11 jumpers


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 11:49 pm

I'm confused. how come the firefighters didnt just put trampolines to catch the jumpers so they didnt all have to die? i know they werent prepared but after seeing dozens of people jump why didnt they? i cant imagine it.. i mean falling thousands of feet going at 150 mph.. which takes like 10 seconds from a high floor. and i hear that some people got killed from being hit by these jumpers.. can someone just explain to me how it was like and why they died when they hit the floor? and did their bodies totally break apart or pretty much stay intact? and what do you think was going through their minds as they were about to hit the ground or were about to jump? oh and why werent there hellicopters there to rescue people? i saw a vid on youtube w...

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Giving up


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 6:37 pm

Im having serious thoughts about giving up on life, nothing has been going good for me and i always feel like shit. I try to be a really nice guy and whenever i do something good for someone, i get shit shoveled in my face, is this a sign i should just dive head first into an empty pool?

p.s. thats not the way id do it though haha

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I think I'm going crazy


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 12:01 am

I really do.

Here are my symptoms:
-I hear a constant ringing
-I hear a heartbeat plusing in my right ear. (This isn't constant, it comes in phases of 20 minutes or so.)
-I become irrationally angry with people
(This happens in public a lot. If I go somewhere I've never been, I can become very angry for no reason at everyone I see. I feel my heartrate increase and overall rage.)
-I see small animals like birds and squirrels that others claim not to see
-I get overwhelmingly dizzy
-I have a reocurring dream of this guy called Patrick who is very bad. He manipulates people in the most horrible and nasty way. I am scared I might see him in real life.

Any psyc...

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Depression


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 4:52 am

I am becoming increasingly depressed.

I am dealing with a lot of difficulties at home - my Mother hasn't been at work for several months because she has bipolar and tried to overdose at New Year. My sister has serious anger problems, which means that she is constantly violent and rude. My Dad is finding the strain very difficult and wants to leave.

These problems have been going on for years, but around the time that it started to get much worse, I met my ex boyfriend. He was like my security blanket and helped me to feel happier about everything. We split up a month ago, leaving me completely heartbroken.

On top of this, I have important exams, which are key to my future, starting in about a w...

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spot on my neck


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 2:03 am

k so when i was a baby i had a rash on my neck, so my grandmother put this cream on it. turns out i was somewhat allergic to it and i grew this brown mole thingy (it isnt round or anything it kinda is like a bunch of round spots that sticks out) so the doctor said i can have it removed by like scraping it or osmething at the dermatoligist. they'll put anesthesia on it so i wont feel it. but im kinda scared. does anyon have this? and did it hurt when you removed it?

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always thinking sexually


Posted Saturday May 3 2008, 3:26 pm

15/f

recently ive noticed a LOT more sexual thoughts going through my head. like if a guy just touches me briefly or talks to me i immediately start thinking not-so-pg13 rated thoughts about him..even male teachers and stuff which is really gross = =; i thought guys were supposed to be the ones with sexual thoughts. should i be worried?

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Very low self-estem


Posted Thursday May 1 2008, 8:48 pm

uuhhhh! I hate feeling like this! OMG! When i look in the mirror sometimes i like what i see and sometimes i dont! I've tried and tried to love myself but its hard! There is always this little voice in my head telling me im ugly! I know im not ugly, but i feel ugly. People tell me how pretty i am, and it makes me feel good about myself. I dont ever believe adults when they say im beautiful cuz they just say that! but anyways is there anyway i can feel good about myself all the time and not sometimes? I want to love myself so bad but its hard for me!

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