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This is honestly keeping me restless/sad. Some advice would ease my mind.
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 11:12 pm
Can't sleep, feeling so low right now?
There's this guy who I thought was great for me. We've been friend for 5 years and he's always been a sweetheart. He started showing interest in me towards the end of last year and we've been flirting ever since. He has said he has always liked me and is afraid because of school he won't get to hang out with me anymore. Recently things got more serious and we finally kissed and stuff. Right after that we each made plans to hang out but all of our plans fell through. He seemed a little ticked at this and wouldn't talk to me for days. I eventually ended up seeing him at a gig he was doing, and his ex was there. He said hi to me but was ignoring her and had said he wanted to hang out with me that n...
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take the next step or cut it off
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 8:52 pm
I've served just about 4 years in the military and i'll be getting out and moving back to my home town in a few weeks. i joined when i just turned 18 and on my first vacation home i met a girl via mutual friends and have since become, for lack of a better term, "friends with benefits" although we do hang out together socially with others as well. i made it clear on the first night that i had alot of deeply rooted trust issues with women due to past relationships (but thats another story)and because i did live so far away i had absolutely no interest in a relationship.
we've met several times since when im in town and touched on the subject a few times and its been clear that she would like to be more. i've told her...
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2 guys like me- What do I do?!?!
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 6:58 pm
Okay long story..
So I've always had a small crush on my best friends brother and I found out about a year ago that he likes me back. The problem is my friends all make fun that he likes me and they always tell me never to date him. So for the past year I haven't done anything about it and then I recently entered my first relationship with a guy I really like. (I'm 14) I thought all the stuff with the other guy was over, but it isnt. All his friends keep telling me he likes me and I see him almost every day. He's so sweet to me and always tells me things like "Hunter (my boyfriend) is a lucky guy" and "You look beautiful today"!! My boyfriend, however, is so shy that he never compliments me, has only held ...
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Is my older boss flirting with me?
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 3:02 pm
I'm a 20 F and he's a 36 M. I'm cognizant of the age difference--my parents have the same one. I work in a drug store, not an office or anything, and I'll be leaving the job in several months.
Anyway, we've worked together for three years and I've liked him for almost the whole time. He was always rather distant with me but when I came back from school this past semester he started acting different.
He teases me constantly. He mocks my voice when I say something; ANYTHING and smirks at me when I whine about it. He puts price stickers on me, stands in my path so I'll push him out of the way, etc. We weren't very physical up until recently. Now we try to trip each other, he (gently) poked me in the kidney, and he...
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more than friends?
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 12:15 pm
my friend is a little far away from me we talked a lot and we both know that we like each other.and I have a feeling that very soon he's going to ask me to be more than just a friend, a relationship. But I really don't know if I'm ready for long distance but I really like him and I really don't know what to say because it just seems like we're getting more into each other by the day. I don't know what to do.
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4 months after breakup
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 10:49 am
It's been 4 months since my boyfriend broke up with me. 3 months since I found out he is dating someone new. And 2 months since I started dating someone new. I closed out fb so I wouldn't have to see him dating her. But I wish I was strong enough to reopen it and post pictures of my new beau but I would never wanna hurt him like he's hurt me. I still find myself avoiding situations where I have to be alone cause if I'm alone for too long I catch myself thinking about him and tearing up. Is this normal? He still text me out of the blue but all he ever says is "." Seriously that's it he sends me periods... I no longer miss him enough to want him back or hope we can be back together but I do miss him enough for it to hurt. I know it'...
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Asking a guy to sleepover but not asking for sex, possible?
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 10:13 am
So this may seem silly, but I've spent the last few months getting over a 5 year relationship and everything seems to have changed in the dating world.. Feeling old >.<
I've been seeing this guy for about 2 weeks now (we got to know each other on online dating website for 1-2 weeks prior to that), we've been on 5 dates, and he's coming to my place this Saturday evening for diner. He's been here before and we've had a few intimate makeout sessions on our most recent dates, and we've mentioned sex in passing in previous conversations, but also briefly mentioned waiting for 'the right time'. We've both mentioned that we really like each other and that we'd like to keep seeing each other since the first official date. We've...
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husband drives me nuts!
Posted Thursday July 10 2014, 7:06 am
So my husband and I have an age difference of 22 years, and he will turn 50 soon. I am a soldier and on the tail end of a deployment. This is the first time that we have been apart for longer than a week, and I was really scared at first. Not because I didn't think I could handle it, but because I didn't know what he would do. Early on in our relationship I now realize he was very controlling. Would go through my phone and emails, and interrogate all of my contacts with other men. He always says he needs to feel needed, but it always feels so forced. He quit caring about how he looked, acted, what he wore when I left. He has also gotten lazy and overweight. He gets angry with me because he doesn't think I prioritize him anymore. He refuses ...
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does sperm die when it hits oxygen?
Posted Wednesday July 9 2014, 11:11 am
Me and my boyfriend were fooling about 2 or 3 weeks ago and yes we had sex and instead of using a condom he pulled out quite a while before. He used a wipe and got rid of it but is it possible for there to be any sperm left anywhere on or in the penis, becuase after we were still pretty caught up in it all and went for round two. Im just worrying that there could of been some sperm left that we didn't know about.?
He told me that sperm dies once it hits oxygen but I have read otherwise and im just looking for some advice.
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More Than Friends?
Posted Tuesday July 8 2014, 5:23 pm
There's this guy I've been sort of seeing, I've known him for 2 years. Before we ever hung out he would flirt with me whenever he seen me by putting his arms around my waist, touching my butt or joking around to make me laugh. He is 15 years older and has a kid but I don't mind cause I like kids and his is great. Anyhow in the last 3 weeks we've went for breakfast twice where he insisted on paying (I felt bad cause I like taking turns paying), we had sex a couple times which was amazing, we cuddled and watched movies together, he told me I could leave pjs at his house and he would even hold my hand while we drove around the city. The only problem is that he barely contacts me and I get mixed messages from him. He's very focused on his work ...
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he loves me, he loves me not?
Posted Tuesday July 8 2014, 12:38 pm
I usually don't ask questions, but well, this is important. So I am taking summer gym so I don't have to do it during the year and it's all the people from my grade from our district middle school and 3 students. I am friends with all 3 of them. One of them is a guy and we always run into each other everywhere and anywhere somehow. He and I talk a lot and whenever we walk together, we walk slower than usual. We talk a lot and we goof around together during class. Whenever were playing a game, were totally competitive and we try to out do each other. I really like him, but I have no idea if he likes me back. I love being around him and he makes my life so much more fun. Especially when he comes up to me and asks me if I'm hot and I respond y...
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Insecurity and suspicious.
Posted Tuesday July 8 2014, 12:29 pm
21/f
I've been dating a guy for three months. We've also only known each other for three and a half months. I don't know anything about him "under the surface." I don't know how he generally is, personality wise. I only know about what he does for a living, what he likes to eat, etc. Nothing that I can actually really connect with. In other words, we don't have many deep conversations.
Since we've been dating, we have not discussed whether or not we were exclusive. We were both aware that we would not be happy if one of us were seeing other people other than each other. Here's the thing, we met online. Ever since I met him, I stopped going onto my profile but he was still on it. Recently, I noticed th...
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Stuck between two guys? Maybe??
Posted Tuesday July 8 2014, 7:51 am
So I haven't heard from my bf in a little less than 2 months. It's kinds depressing cause I could call him anytime. We used to talk everyday! I don't even no why he won't answer the phone!!! I've been talking to Z (let's call him that for privacy) a lot more that usual. He's one of my best friends and I've gotten to know him more and more. But here's the problem...I THINK I MIGHT BE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM!! Which scares my bc I love my bf. if he would answer his phone and talk to me again, than I could snap out of it. Oh and Z has a gf. Which makes it a million times worse!!! Help me. Please!! Ps I'm 15 and a girl. My bf is 15. Z is 16
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I think my boyfriend is cheating
Posted Monday July 7 2014, 6:08 pm
So, I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have a bit of proof. The girl I think he's cheating with has done this to me before. I was sitting right next to her and I looked over and saw she had a conversation with my ex boyfriend (boyfriend at the time) and it was extremely dirty, talking about how what they would do to each other once they saw each other later. My boyfriend now, talks to her until 5 in the morning sometimes. He ignores me and texts her. He once told me he has cheated before, on a ex girlfriend. I just want to know what I should do about it. I've been cheated on before, but I honestly love this guy and I'm confused on how to confront him, or if I should. Do I have enough proof?
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Tinder - What's the big deal?
Posted Sunday July 6 2014, 5:29 pm
21/f
I'm dating a guy who still uses Tinder. I heard it could be quite addicting after using it for awhile. But I realized that he's been getting on it more after two months of dating. I've spoken to him about it but he told me that he's still getting to know me and just because he met me, he's not going to put "all of his eggs in one basket"? Whatever the hell that means.
We're only seeing each other in person but he has been chatting to a few people according to him. I've been talking to one other person other than him but he's still my first priority so I'm confused on why he's so into Tinder.
I downloaded it myself, I just think it's fun to see my matches. Talking to other people? I...
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Walked into a disturbing scene and now my cousin won't speak to me...
Posted Sunday July 6 2014, 10:44 am
Yesterday I was at my cousins' dads' house. I am 14 years old and she just turned 13 a week ago. She has a boyfriend in the 11th grade about to turn 16. When she told me about him in the car, I thought he was a bit of a creep for being with a girl about to go to eighth grade, but I hate it when people are biased, and I didn't want to offend my cousin so I decided to shut my mouth. When I walked in her boyfriend was there and he seemed like a decent guy. For the rest of the day I got settled and took a shower. I thought her boyfriend had left a while ago. I was wearing a towel because i had left my clothes in her room. I heard screaming so I opened her door and said what's wrong? I saw them having sex and it was gross. He said "oh I did...
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A little long, could use a lot of help
Posted Sunday July 6 2014, 8:35 am
Good afternoon. I'm a 23 y/o female who lives with my mom and my grandparents. Just to give you some background, I have always lived here at home. My family did not want me to leave for college, and I respected those wishes. Now, it is my biggest and deepest regret. I really feel like if I would have left, they would not be such bullies. It has actually made me develop very negative feelings towards them. In college, I met a man and we started dating. He's only a year older than me and we have been dating for about three years. About 6 months into the relationship, my mom started to hate him because of something stupid. Basically, at the last minute, he advised me that a function we were going to was in the morning instead of at night. Sinc...
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I like a virgin slut
Posted Sunday July 6 2014, 7:51 am
i liked this girl i started dating who i thought was an innocent girl. in fact i didn't even try to kiss her until the third date because of how innocent i thought she was. well the thing is after i kissed her and don't ask me why we started talking about sexual experiences ( i thought she had practically none so what did i have to fear). well i found out she is what is known as a virgin slut or virgin whore, a girl who is still a virgin but has kissed around 40 guys and had blown off 4 guys just because she was horny and returning the favor after they had sucked her off.
i feel a little disgusted with the horny attitude with random guys in the past and don't know what i should think.
anyway, she is leaving the country for a y...
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The Temptation to cheat
Posted Saturday July 5 2014, 9:10 pm
I'm Male, 19 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 16 months. We're both virgins. Lately, since I started working, I've had the temptation to just go out and cheat. I'm always super horny and fantasizing about doing stuff with other girls. I love my girlfriend and I feel super guilty for wanting to cheat. We never really do anything besides kiss. I don't want to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want, and I don't pressure her. But she'll do stuff that hints that she wants to do something, then doesn't do it. Like sometimes we'll be sitting and she'll grab me and/or stroke me for a few seconds then stop. Sometimes she'll put my hand on her crotch so I could rub, but we never go any further. I work at a busy place in n...
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how will be my sister start loving me so much
Posted Friday July 4 2014, 10:19 am
plz answer hiw ny sister start loving mi so much what should i do pl asn
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