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a sign


Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 6:51 pm

what are signs that mean guy want to give you a kiss or want a kiss?

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why does he hate me?


Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 4:55 pm

14/f


no one's ever treated me like this before, and it's just small little things, but it's getting on my nerves.

He's basically avoiding me.

A couple weeks ago I met this guy, he seemed like a bit of a jerk but I talked with him pleasantly enough, but then he said he could mistake me for a boy.. well, that's where that prospective friendship ended. I didn't get mad, I just didn't say anything at all and moved onto a different conversation.

We don't have any classes together but during passing periods when we pass each other I've caught him looking at me a couple times, and he always looks away really quickly and seems to disappear. Like he's on the run and avoiding me....

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i cut class


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 3:06 pm

okay, so today in school there was this thing called a pep rally. it starts at the end of the day and it starts during my lunch. so i need lunch, i starve. so i decide that i will cut my orchestra class. i walk in the cafe with my friend and i see a teacher who i have and we get along really well. i tell him my situation and he says i can stay in the cafe. but later on in the day i see my orchestra teacher and he askes me "why werent you in class?"...i tell him that i was at the nurse. i come back home from school and i see a new message left on my answer machine and he left a message saying that he thinks i cut class. i erased it. but i still feel bad that he found out. good thing today is friday but what will i tell him when i c...

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commuter, no friends.


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 2:09 pm

I go to college about 20 minutes from where I live, so I figured, what's the point in paying the extra whatever thousands of dollars if I could just hop on a bus and ride down there for 2 bucks? It just seemed the easiest and cheapest thing to do.

Well I had no problem meeting people right off the bat, I met alot of peope in all of my classes that I can talk to and it made me really happy cause I was worried it was going to be really difficult. Well now it's been about a month and the whole big group of us that talks is starting to go out to places with eachother and hang out and everything.. and I never get invited. I get the occasional invites sometimes, but it's always when I have to work, so I sadly decline, but it still...

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How to I get my life back together and on track?:(


Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 1:29 pm

Okay this will be very long so bare with me.

I am 16 a girl, I'm in both freshman and sophmore classes, they are mixed since I've had many absances, health, skipping, injury and I've fallen behind ALOT. I feel as if I'm hopeless I need help, I want to do better in school. I want to graduate, I need to graduate, I don't want to dissapoint my parents. I know I am...and I'm sick of it I need to grow up and do the right thing but not sure how to start.

So basically I'm failing all my classes, I have alot of homework to do, but I've missed so much I don't get any of it. Should I stay after school? I really don't want to, but dammit! I think I have to.

That covers one of my issues. Another is my fami...

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I've lied, and learned my lesson but some people are still hung up about it


Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 10:10 pm

I left my school in 9th grade to be home schooled because I was horribly bullied throughout middle school, and I was always intimidated by those that bullied me. With that said, when I was returning to that school in the last semester of 10th grade. I was terrified of going back. I wanted to forget everything and start all over. I changed my name to a preferred name, and acted like I didn't know anyone (which was very immature, I know). A bunch of people found out and they bullied me even more; taunted me, and spread rumours about me even more to the point where I'd skip school because I'd feel terrified of going. Things have gotten a bit better in 11th grade but I feel like I'm reserved and not able to make friends because I'm always feel...

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i like him.. does he like me?


Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 10:05 pm

ok so i like this boy in my class. he, in my class is the authority figure (student wise) so he needs to talk to everyone and have good communication with everyone. he talks to everyone and goofs around with.. everybody.. except with me he's so shy. he looks at me alot, we make tons of eye contact and the cute thing is, he lets me look away first. i really like him, he's sweet and kind to everyone. when we do talk, it's little bits of conversations, we'll talk and we'll smile and laugh. my friend says he likes me because when im not looking at him he looks at me and gives me "the look" i have yet to figure out what that is but she said he looks at me like im the most important girl in his life. do you think he likes me? if he does...

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things to draw for my boyfriend.


Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 3:14 pm

were both really into music like HIM, classic rock, etc. basically like love metal type stuff. so our outlook on love is that dark romance haha. we are in love, so i have no qualms on what to draw. i'm an artist, and need some creative ideas on what to draw for him besides him, us, etc. i did a silhouette picture last month, so thats taken(: but if anyone has any darker, romantic things i could draw or paint, i'd be really grateful :)

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I am new at Relationships shorta


Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 10:35 am

Last weekand. I was hook up with a guy name z. and my freind set me up with. he very nice. and we been seeing eachter over a week. he met my parent. i know that shorta soon. but I dont drive and well if he take me place, sure they like know who taken me. we went out this weekand to the mall and was my frist real date. he is 28 and I am 24. Last night i met his sister and I haven't met his parent yet. we are try keep it slow. he seem like me alot I know he is a talker and I know he like that with everyone. He very intereress learning sign lanuage becouse I am hard of hearing and I can hear with my hearing aids. he very nice and polite and he never been in real Relationships. and I haven't eaither. i only had one bf when i was younger. maybe...

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sick of being dragged down. need to take a stand.


Posted Monday October 12 2009, 11:55 pm

19 female. i fell for a younger guy. he will soon be 18. whatever, the age difference doesn't bother me AT ALL.

but my problem is that .. he doesn't treat me very well :( i mean he doesnt physically abuse me or ANYTHING like that but he emotionally drains me. he's basically a player and has a way with words urrrgh sucky for me. we are close friends and i think thats just what i want to remain. i think it would be the best for me.. i'd rather be a good friend than just another girl. i didn't even tell him i liked him but i know it shows everytime i see him. i should be upset with him for what he put me through and acting like he "cared" about me more than a friend but he's just one of those guys you cant get mad at n...

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past always haunts me


Posted Monday October 12 2009, 9:59 pm

i did something stupid in the past accadental but noone knows the true story just people think i am crazy and weird for it. it was 6 years ago tho and i have gotten past it. whenever i least expect is tho, it comes back to haunt me and peopple bring it up. im always scared to yell at people and be who i am bc im scraed people will bring it up and i am powerless to it. i didnt kill anyone or anything serious. it was just a mistake and i get tortured mentally for it.

i was drunk and i was tlaking to this kid in my shcool a year younger, and he brought up what i did and im scared of a boy a year younger! thats how pathetic i am. i dont want to go to school bc i am scared hell bring it up or something. uch what do ido.

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Favorite Kisses ?


Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 8:47 pm

Share your favorite type, way, location, position to kiss !

I like upside down kisses. My current boyfriend and I did the Spiderman kiss... I hung from the monkey bars.

I like to sit on the counter in my kitchen, pull my boyfriend in by his shirt, and kiss him. Once or twice he picked me up so my legs were wrapped around him and he carried me to the couch.

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my cousin's friend


Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 12:00 am

okay, please hear me out i need help. my cousin's friend is really good-looking and cool. he likes me a lot. he says such nice things and we get along well. the thing is... we only talk on AIM. we want to hang out though. im 16 years old and im not stupid about this kind of stuff... im not getting into anything cause i know he might me ifferent in person. he doesnt go to my school but i will be able to drive in the beginning of this year. he wants to talk on the phone. should i even bother ?

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Make guy friends


Posted Friday October 9 2009, 10:43 pm

I'm a sophmore in high school. Ocassionaly, a few guys exchange words with me at school but hardly ever. I dont have any guy friends but want to gain some. How can i gain and keep guy friends at school as well as in different towns?

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im insanely jealous of my boyfriend's spoiled life.


Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 9:57 pm

ill talk about one main thing that bothers me every day. i applied for the school newspaper as a writer, with my application typed and printed out the night before.

he applied as well to join me as a photographer, and wrote the application the day of in pencil.

he got in, and i didnt. hes not even committed. every day this makes me really upset because i love to write and being on this would have been great for me. how do i deal with this?.. i tried talking to him, but he just gets mad at me and says "fine, i'll quit for you", but i know thats not fair.

ive just never been so disappointed/upset/jealous involving him in the two years ive known him..

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should i stay with him even though we dont see each other?


Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 6:12 pm

heyy 14/f

Well, my bf is in a grade younger than me. Arizona♥ lol well, we can't really talk or anything? He doesn't have internet access at his dads, and his phones taking away because he threw it out the window when he was mad haha. We pass each other in the hallway but we don't have time to talk, so the only thing we can do is write notes, and my friend gives them to him in her study hall. He doesn't really write back sometimes. So, i asked him if he wanted to break up because we cant talk, he said "NOOO! unless i want to". So, i dont know?! I wrote him a note telling him that we need to talk more or something or we cant stay dating? :/ i didnt want to sat that because we dated before and he was the only guy wh...

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Cute or slutty? (Guys only please)


Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 1:06 pm

Hii
I just kind of want a guys perspective on something. If a girl that you don't know well, but you see around & have some friends in common with randomly asked you to chill, would it strike you as awkward? There's this guy, Rob, who I've kind of been scopin at parties & things lately, and I know he knows who I am, and I think I can safely say he's at least somewhat attracted to me? But we don't chill aside from getting baked in the same house a lot. So if I were to just like, message him on facebook (HAHA yeaa, I'm that cool) when he was online sometime and be like "guess what, I think you're hot. wanna get baked sometime?", do you think it would be cute & forward or kind of slutty & awkward? :) thanks in advance guys, sorry I'm not super eloquent but ya!

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Is there anyone I can trust?


Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 11:47 am

15/f
I could never trust anyone but my closest relatives.Everyone I knew would betray me.People would always make fun of me for reasons I wasn't familiar with.First there were the ones I went to elementary school with.I'm not exaggerating when I say I had almost no friends at all.Only a few out of hundreds of them could actually understand me.For 8 years it seemed like nothing would ever change.I thought they hated me because I was and still am a straight A's student who doesn't like going out at night and getting into trouble.But that's not all.I had a boyfriend who I was truly in love with.He was with me for 7 months,but then cheated on me with my best friend who ended up not caring about me and went for him.I was destroyed for mon...

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My friend has this weird obsession with a teacher, normal or wrong?


Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 1:00 am

Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" (masturbate) at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. II always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal

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Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 7:28 pm

My boyfriend says he wants space, yet he has been calling me and texting me an we used to live together so when he needs something he texts me an calls me to come over my parents house to get it, like the slightest thing like today his trimmer and to show me his new dog, like the whenever i ask him or other people ask him what we arehe says he doesnt know yet he needs time & space, okayyy so why if you need time & space do u keep calling me and texting me an then why would he want me to tell him what i thought of this new dog he got? im so confused please i need advice


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