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Abstinence
Posted Monday September 20 2010, 3:31 pm
Hey there can you help me get the right mentality i need to go through with this... me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we are still very fond of each other, i love him more and more everyday and we are pretty close. We talk about forever as if we'll always be together so if things go well, we'll get married in the next few years. we just have a bit of a physical problem, that we keep coming very close to having sex even though we decided we'll keep it for after marriage. We both want to have sex, but we cant because we also both want to stick to our decision. I asked him what he thinks we should do to prevent it, like physical barriers or whatever haha and he said no, it has to be our minds that stop us. Any advice? Thanks in advance
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Hooking up
Posted Monday September 20 2010, 2:27 pm
17/f
So i stayed at my friend's house this weekend with a few other friends. There were 5 girls and 3 guys. After everyone went to bed, this one guy came and asked me to go with him somwhere. Then we went into another room and we kind of hooked up. Like, we "put our hands in eachother's pants" to put it nicely. That wouldn't have been so bad, but i never even met him until that night. So i knew this guy for like, 5 hours and i let him do that. It's weird, because i don't regret it at all. But i told my friend about it and she said it was kind of wrong. I feel a little weird about it myself. I'm usually really prude and that was SO unlike me. I've never done that with anyone, idk what it was. Does that mean im like, easy? Is this normal, or am i just a hoe?
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why am i feeling this way.
Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 10:14 pm
i keep feeling nusea like everyday and i dont know if i feel sick hungry or just nervous but i dont think im nervous or hungry yesterday i felt like i seriously needed to puke i was starving so i ate a hambuger fastish and i was around smoke from cigs but usually im not that bad around it but i kept for like 2 hours after eating feeling like i needed to puke like ligit i needed to and i went home and drank water laid down and felt fine. sometimes i feel like i have car sickness like bad and im not driving in the car haha. its just annoying and its going on for like a week now everyday why is this?
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Friends with benefits.
Posted Saturday September 18 2010, 1:53 am
20F.
So I've always thought one of my guy friends were hot. He had a girlfriend for about 3 years, they finally broke up recently. I think they still might have sex though because that's the only person he gets it from. Anyways one night me and him were texting and I decided I wanted to have sex with him. We basically established we'd be fuck buddies or friends with benefits, whatever you want to say.
The question I'm asking is, would it be weird for me to say I'd only have sex with him if he stops having sex with his ex girlfriend? Do friends with benefits do that? Haha I don't really know. Or should I not care who he's having sex with, I just find it a little weird if I had sex with him and he is also having ...
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Simple non messy suicide ways?
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 8:24 pm
I want to kill myself soon but I don't want to make a big mess for my family to clean up. I was hoping to think of something that was quick and painless but I can't find one that meets all of my criteria. My life is a wreck and I'm so tired of living. My boyfriend broke up with me, my best friend isn't my friend after all, and I can't find a job even. My mom doesn't know I'm suicidal even and I just don't want her to have to deal with a big bloody mess if I did something. So, what are some fast and nonmessy ways to commit suicide at home?
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aahh!! sex.
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 7:43 pm
I just had sex and the condom broke, I'm on the shot and I completely washed out my vagina. I cannot get the plan B pill, is there a good chance that I will become pregnant or do you think it is unlikely. HELP.
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Sex Music
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 4:37 pm
What are some good songs to play during sex? My boyfriend and I like all types of music, so anything to put us in the mood is good. thanks :)
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Cheating with a married woman
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 11:03 am
I am seeing this woman and she's married. I knew she was married before we started having the affair. At first I didn't feel bad at all since it's her decision to cheat on her husband but now I'm feeling a little weird. She insists on talking about their relationship after our bedroom romp and I don't like it. She's only sex to me and it seems like she doesn't get that. I kind of want to drop her from the scene but to be honest she's really pretty good in the sack. What should I do and how should I handle this sort of thing?
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Anal sex
Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 1:07 am
how can my boyfriend make it not hurt for the first time. are the myths true about how some girls poop during anal sex.
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how to get a guy to turn me on.
Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 7:17 pm
so i turn my boyfriend alot. but he sucks at turning me on he does little things like pull my shirt up with his teeth but im just not feeling it. what are some good and some creative ways to get him to turn me on. also how can i get my boyrfriend to last longer.
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Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 1:18 pm
16/f/usa
hi i need advice coz last night me and my boyfriend 'did it' and he gave me a lick out and i gave him a bj and now he has a itchy cock and i have a itchy fanny did something bad happen coz my friend did exact same thing and nothing happened to her please give me advice.
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vaginal acidity from the BC pill
Posted Tuesday September 14 2010, 9:52 pm
Can the birth control pill make your vaginal discharge thick white and (very) acidic? Except for the acidity its completely flavorless.
I would love for my boyfriend to go down on me, and I'm completely comfortable with everything but the taste, I feel like the acidity would freak him out. And its not acidic because I have an infection or anything like that, it just got that way when I went on birth control (I've been on four different kinds for three years, acidic for all three, the type seems to have no effect on it).
I have good hygiene, I shave, and I don't smell there. I can't go off birth control and I'm 100% certain that its the thing that's causing this.
If anyone had any problems with...
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I'm so guilty!! I'm gonna puke I'm so worked up!!
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 11:37 pm
I'm shaky and feeling sick. I've been a little perv and I watched porn. A year ago I used to watch a lot of it. I went on a site and had cyber sex a few times.
I feel like a worthless skank and I take back everything I did.
What I did was ridiculously wrong. I'm 14!!
The question is, are my parents going to find out about my mistakes? I erased the history on everything I've ever done on the computer, but is that enough? What else can I do to erase it? I want these awful teenage mistakes behind me so I can move on and never do anything like this again.
Please be honest, but don't be too harsh. I'm already being terribly hard on myself for getting into porn. I'm not a bad person, I'm just being a curious teenager. ...
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good or bad dream?
Posted Monday September 13 2010, 4:04 am
last week i had a dream that i found out i was pregnant and i was scared at first but then as soon as everything settled i was so happy, this dream was very different from most of my dreams because i couldnt tell what my boyfriend was feeling of course he was happy because he had a smile but ususally in dreams i know everyones toughts... because i make them. well last night i had a sex dream with my boyfriend and it was amazing, a long time ago i heard something about when you have sex dreams where you can feel everything its a sign of pregnancy. so i looked it up and instead i found out that pregnancy dreams are possible signs, should i be worried?
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Taken advantage of..
Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 6:03 pm
Okay so I'm a 19 year old female. A little history on my situation. There is this guy that is apart of the hip hop company with me in a professional dance company. He has made it very obvious that he has feelings for me and has even told me this. I get creeped out by him because he is so straight forward. He will text me asking what I'm wearing like every night, and he is just a creep. Anyway, last night one of the girls in our dance company had a party. I am usually not a partier but since it was with this group of people I did not see the big deal. I took about 6 shots if not more and needless to say I was very drunk. Everyone knows how much I get creeped out by this guy and regardless of this fact they left me alone with him. I passed ou...
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sex
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 10:36 pm
I started talking to this boy and I really like him and I was thinking about having sex with him for the first time I want to but I don't know what I should do I am a female and I am 16 years old
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Sex and going down on a guy
Posted Saturday September 11 2010, 9:38 pm
I'll just cut right to the point. I'm nervous about going down on a guy and having sex. I've never done it, and I don't know how to do it or anything. Was your first time very nerve-wracking? Did you know what you were doing? Any tips?
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am i a slut . !
Posted Friday September 10 2010, 9:27 pm
ohk well im 13 , and im a sexual person with both genders . i feel as if im a slut but i cant help not to do stuff with people . and i hate it when people call me a slut . like if they were sexually active they would prollly be the same way . sex feels great . it sucks tho that im only 13 and i already had sex . im moore mature than most girls in my grade . i have all older friends that are in 11th 10th grades and so on. can you guys help me thanks (:
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sex
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 6:57 pm
my boyfriend wants to get in a bed with me what do i say/
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Mirena IUD Birth Control
Posted Wednesday September 8 2010, 1:00 am
I have a mirena IUD as birth control and I was reading about it and most places have said that its 99% effective in its first year of use. I am in the second year of using it so I was wondering if the effectiveness goes down as the years go by and how effective is it in the second year. I am EXTREMELY fertile and my bf says he is too so I am curious what you all think my chances are with that in? I have heard that quite a few women actually do get pregnant with it in... is that true?
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