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re:why do i feel like this?
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 8:58 pm
yeah, i told her how much she meant to me and i felt like i was losing her, it was my fault and that hurt me because i realized it when i was about to lose her, i was being self-centered and inconsiderate to her, i hurt her feelings lot of times and she forgives me and put up with me, but i failed to see that, and when she tries to talk to me nicely, i tend to blame her and when i realized i did all that, i feel like i disappointed myself, it felt like i did not respect her at all, and i just cant believe that i did this to her, and i guess we're okay now but i still have this guilt that i should not have done that but the good thing is that i learned a important lesson from her that i should not take anybody for granted, im glad i apologiz...
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Why does my BFF keep avoiding me?
Posted Sunday July 4 2010, 11:24 am
My bestfriend never talks to me anymore. Like i'll go up to her and ask her if she wants to sit by me she'll just snuff me all the time. I'm almost 16 and I'm a female. If someone could please give me advice that would be nice.
Thx
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Why is it bad if you hang out with a friend too much?
Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 6:19 am
People say it is bad, why is that?
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I need a list of jails in Oregon!
Posted Saturday July 3 2010, 2:27 am
I have a friend who was sent to jail for 6-8 years its a complicated situation and I don't know what jail he's in and I can't ask the people who do know to tell me because on some complicated situations!!!
But I need a list of jails a 16yr old boy would go to in Oregon!
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i don't know.
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 5:02 pm
Okay, so on facebook, everyone is doing the status' that say; "like this and i will say what i like about you" etc. and when i like my friends what they say about me is well... mean. I mean I know that sometimes they are kidding or whatever, but it really bothers me. They all say i'm mean. I'm not mean. I'm sarcastic but it is funny. It's not mean saracasim. And everyone is saying about how i'm mean etc.
Well I don't want to be precieved as mean. SO! How can I be nicer? I really don't think i'm all that mean, but I am willing to change if it makes peoples preceptions about me change.
I don't know what I'm really asking here. I just want peoples opinions on the matter etc.
However, I don't really want to change my self but I don't know.
Just help me!
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A male friend who seems obsessed
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 2:45 pm
I'm a 20 year old female and my friend is a 22 year old male. We've been friends off and on for about 5 months. He likes me in a romantic way but I don't feel the same and I've made this clear to him. He ended our friendship a couple of times because he said it's too hard being friends with me since he likes me so much. After he ends our friendship he always ends up calling me saying he still wants to be friends. The most recent time he ended it, he called 5 days later saying he missed me. He said that those 5 days were so hard for him and that he even lamented over me. He's very emotional and dramatic. He calls me everyday and tries to talk for hours, he wants to hang out all the time and says he loves me. If I tell him I can't hang out he...
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Clingy Friend
Posted Wednesday June 30 2010, 11:19 am
I have a friend who likes to do everything that I do. She always wants us to go shopping and buy the same shirt, or wear the same color shoes, etc. It just feels like she's always around. It's not that I don't enjoy her company. I just want to be my own person. Also, because she's always with me, my other friends are feeling left out. What should I do so that my friend will give me some space? Please don't say "Just drop her" because I'm not that mean. Thank you.
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Problem with friend who is involved in my wedding
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 7:20 pm
Hi, I am 47 and am getting married in about 6 weeks. My friend who is 25 wanted to make our wedding cake. I wasn't comfortable with it at the time but said ok because she really wanted to do it and it was going to be our wedding gift from her. She can be immature at times and gets easily offended. We work together on a Board of Directors for a camp. She sat on some information I gave her and lied to one of the people in charge. She made it sound like I was the one who sat on the information when I gave it to her weeks before. I confronted her about it and she got mad and said she didn't lie and made some excuse to make it sound like what she did was ok. She never apologizes when she does something wrong nor when she hurts me. Now I...
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what should she do about her dad
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 5:12 pm
My friend told me that her dad keep trying to feel on her....and she hasn't told her mother...she says he has even tried to finger her....she says she doesn't want to tell her mom until its the right time....what should she really do? Should I tell someone even though she asked me not to? I'm really scared for her!
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my friend mom dislikes me (NEED ANSWER ASAP)
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 3:19 pm
My cousin pranked call my bestfriends aunt phone and my number showed up on her caller i.d. My bestfriend's mom called me and started yelling and cussing me out for no reason. I tried explaining I didn't call but she would not listen. I believe they pressed charges againstt me im not really shure. My bestfriend wanna come ova and i have to suck up and apoligize to her mom but im scared. I hate rejection so im worried she wont accept my apology what shud i do? O BY THE WAY PLEASE ANSWER IMMEDIATELY I HAVE TO CALL TODAY AND IM NERVOUS WHAT SHALL I DO TO OVERCOME MY NERVOUSNESS..?~~
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Can never see her again
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 3:06 pm
I have been friends with ever since 8th grade when she was in 6th. I said something to upset the mother and now she is taking it up on my friend and I. She moved to her dad's and now I am told that I am too pushy and because of that, I can never see or talk to her ever again. I really love her and she really loves me. We really want to hang out, but her parents' grudges against me proves to us that every time i go over, she gets grounded. I know she wants to hang out with me and I, her. What should I do? Should I sneak around and see her behind their parents' backs? Or should I just get over it and let their stupid grudge get in the way of our loving friendship? The age difference is NOT the problem!
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my friend wont talk to me anymore
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 2:57 pm
my friend wont talk 2 me anymore, she has been spending more time with her other friend, what do i do???? :(
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Why do i feel vulnerable?
Posted Tuesday June 29 2010, 5:31 am
recently, me and my friend been distant with each other. We kept on arguing and somewhat we had issues that was never solved, so yesterday i tried talking it out with her, we had an argument yesterday and things were just falling apart for both us, i had to say sorry how i was being self-centered and things i didn't want to admit how i was wrong about, also that i told her how she meant a lot to me. Everything went fine and we're back to being friends again, but if i did not say sorry about those things our friendship would have changed.
The thing about it is, that i feel powerless,vulnerable and weak because i admited and said sorry about how i was acting towards her, everything is fine now but im crying about it because som...
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Is he nuts or is he right?
Posted Monday June 28 2010, 11:14 am
16/f
I have a gay friend which claims it's not against the laws of nature while I think it is.He said animals can be homosexual.Has he lost his mind?!
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Good natured/Kind 20 something doesn't want to miss opportunity
Posted Monday June 28 2010, 3:41 am
27/m, A little long, but a complicated situation... For the past 10 years I have known a wonderful, intellegent, beautiful woman that I knew i loved as a friend almost immediately. As our relationship grew, I realized how special she was, and recently started to understand how deep my feelings were for her. As a friend, I have always respected her wishes, and tried to keep our relationship plutonic. Over the past couple of months I have started to straighten out my life, ie: conquered an addiction, started school, etc. I think the addiction masked my feelings in this regard, as now I think about her everyday. I know i could make her happy and give her a wonderful life, but I don't want to ruin what we have. I beleive she does have romant...
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Selfishness, jealousy and guilt tripping... now I am afraid of her ruining relationships!
Posted Sunday June 27 2010, 6:49 pm
My best friend has been telling me for like the past year now that she's jealous of me, that her friends like me better than her, and all this other stuff. She is always admitting this to me, it’s getting so confusing. I CONSTANTLY keep telling her that she's beautiful, smart, funny, and that I'm nothing above her. She won't listen. She doesn't even want me to hangout with our friends from swimming together because of this. And if guys are involved she always tells me not to look nice so I don't get all the attention. That's not a good friend. We're currently fighting and I'm afraid she'll tell our mutual friends something bad about me to keep them away from me. I don't know what to do other than talk to her. I guess I just want a second opinion.
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How to get rid of a "friend"?
Posted Sunday June 27 2010, 12:05 am
Okay, So I have this friend who I've known since 7th grade. I'm now in 12th grade (and I'm a girl btw) and my friends and I seriously don't like her. We are constantly complaining about her "know-it-all" attitude and the fact that she tinks she is better than the rest of us. My friends and I have talked and we feel she is a toxic personality, and we don't wnat to be her friends anymore. The only problem is, she doesn't have many other friends and I'd feel extremely bad "getting rid of her". She was bullied all through elementary school so I feel like she doesn't have good personal skills, or maybe she is mirroring that bully mentality on us. I really am sick of her being so rude and childish. How can I get rid of her wit...
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How Do I Apologize?
Posted Thursday June 24 2010, 10:25 pm
16/f
Today's my birthday and my friends wanted to take me to the movies. After the movies we went shopping for my friends birthday party tomorrow. I was with a girl and a guy shopping. When my friend went into the dressing room to change, I was alone with my guy friend. I was kidding around and told him that he should just leave because he was complaining about how long girl's take to change. And before I knew it, he walked out of the store. After I got home, he was talking to me on facebook. He told me that the reason why he left was because in his country saying what I said was very disrespectful. I feel terrible. How do I apologize after he told me that?
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life of luxuary Vs. life of love? what do i do?
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 4:13 pm
two weeks ago i went to Hot Topic and took photo shoots. it was yesterday i had gotten a letter in the mail saying i was accepted to be a model at Hot Topic, bad part is i have to move to southern California to model at the head industry. my friends are happy for me, my bf too. but i wasnt. because if i left i wouldnt be able to spend time with them anymore. and were all really close. i knew them since i was little my boyfriends too. i mean im caught between doing something i really want and being with the people i really want. what do i do?..
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friendship growing old ?
Posted Wednesday June 23 2010, 11:24 am
I've been best friends with my friend for now 3 yrs.. & we're not your average type of bff's we do everything together , get into trouble together, talk about everything we're basiclly like sisters but lately I've been noticing her act diffrent.. she barely picks up my phone calls anymore and never calls back..takes a long time to respond to my text messages & I haven't seen her in over a week..I've asked her several times if somethings wrong or if I've done something to upset her but she responds with the same thing everytime I ask her which is no everythings fine. But its not like her to act like this..I don't want to believe in the fact that maybe our closeness has gottn to her and maybe she's annoyed? I don't want to lose the friendship.. please help?
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