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confused
Posted Thursday July 24 2014, 8:12 pm
Me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years and I'm 19 and he's 24 and we have a 1yr old son together. Our sex life has been pretty good but now he is always wanting oral and he doesn't wanna have sex with me even though he says he will but he just gets what he wants n that's it. Does anyone know why this is? Please help me out.
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Is marriage the next step?
Posted Thursday July 24 2014, 1:29 am
I have been with my boyfriend for close to 3 years now. When we first got together we both heavily discussed not wanting to get married. He has a child from a previous relationship (they never married) she is 4 now and I think of her as my own daughter. With a child involved being serious or not being together are really the only 2 outcomes of a relationship. Well we moved in together after 1 year and we are very happy. I love him and we are still sexually active and emotionally involved, we don't fight very often and his little girl just puts the bow on top of it all. Well, recently we decided with his former girlfriend that it would be best to get custody legally set. During the meeting he kept referring to me as his fiancé. Not sure if ...
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I CAN'T TALK TO MY CRUSH AT ALL
Posted Wednesday July 23 2014, 2:54 pm
11 year old female
Ok, so I really like this guy, but he goes to a different camp, luckily the camps like to combine to help us for middle school. Every time we have a trip where the camps combine, I think I'll get dolled up and talk to him. I get dressed nice, and get all worried about how my boobs are so small (I am just able to fit it the smallest training bra, and I haven't got my period yet so I could barely call myself a women) and my hips are big, and end up shying away. There's a girl in my camp who gave him a flirty look, and he smiled back but more politely then romantically he automatically stopped after a second, and that was that, but that means that girl likes him, right? And she is the biggest flirt in the grade, she h...
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How do I do it?
Posted Tuesday July 22 2014, 11:50 am
I asked a question about the right time to lose my virginity, and I got that answered, so when we are ready, I meen me and my gf, i actualy dont know how to lets say ask if she wants to have sexual intercourse? I really need an answer because we were even shy to express our feelings to eachother. thanks :)
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Frustrated over my boyfriends lack of opinion about our relationship
Posted Monday July 21 2014, 5:22 pm
So... my boyfriend and I (I'm a 21 year old female in Australia) have been together for 13months(which isn't really that long) but I have known him all through highschool etc. and he is actually my older brothers best-friend. In fact my brother was the one who found out he liked me and encouraged us to get together (weirdly my brother was dating my now boyfriends sister at the time just to make things more random. They've since broken up and my brother is now dating a close friend of ours from highschool and we all hang out together.We are all in our 20's)
Problems started around our 1 year anniversary with the relationship were I basically had our first fight (and by I, I mean that. Just me. I got really upset because he rejected me...
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Dirty on FaceTime
Posted Monday July 21 2014, 4:04 pm
I've been talking to this guy for about two months. We met in college but we started texting on move out day and haven't stopped. He lives in Jersey, I love in Pennsylvania. We've driven to each other three times and we have hooked up multiple times going far but not all the way. It's my turn to go next in two weeks and he wants to have sex, it'd two weeks past his birthday and two week until mine so he thinks we should. I told him I'm nervous that we'd do it and it'd be awkward and I'm nervous (since I have real feelings for him and he claims he does with me) that if we do it, he'd leave. He said "I mean, if we do it, I'd just want to do it again and it'll bring us closer."
Three weeks ago, I went away to my cabin with no ...
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Posted Monday July 21 2014, 12:44 pm
what does it mean to be a teenager .Teenagers start to hve rlationships
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I don't know how to end it with him?!?!?
Posted Monday July 21 2014, 11:28 am
So I've had the same boyfriend for about a year and I just don't love him like that anymore. He is nice and all but I just don't feel it anymore. It'll break his heart if I tell him. He's just too sensitive and needs me too much. I need someone stronger than that because I am NOT a a girl who will baby you. I don't take no shit. I speak my mind and I'm not much of a people pleaser but I don't want to hurt him. Is there a way I can tell him without hurting him. I don't want a boyfriend right now and kinda do better on my own because I can be more independent. If anyone was any ideas I sure could use em.
P.S I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 15 also.
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Will I ever have a chance with anybody?
Posted Monday July 21 2014, 11:23 am
20,f
Honestly,I'm really frustrated because of my looks. I'm 162 cm tall,65 kg,blonde hair,blue eyes. I am a bit chubby but I'm not fat. I tried dieting,exercising,Herbalife products but nothing helped. Yet I feel like I don't stand a chance next to all those pretty girls out there. I see them always having a boyfriend and nobody notices me. Recently I confessed to a guy on college and he said he likes me too but treats me as just a friend. He is a shy person and he said he needs time but I think that if you like someone you don't need time and excuses such as that. I think he is put off by my body. I have a good face,I dress nice,I know what suits me but I still have no one who likes me in a romantic way. I wish some guy would event...
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Because of religion is it really over?
Posted Monday July 21 2014, 2:30 am
My bf of 9 months just dumped me. We were Absolutly head over heels in love. He comes from a super strong Christian background but when he was in his early 20's pretty much split away from the church. His fam is super religous still and recently have been attempting to bring him back to the church. The past month he became distant because he was so torn on what to do. He is very about loyalty to fam and was struggling w the fact that they would dis-own him if he didn't come back. He's almost 30 and says he had been thinking of one day trying church again and so because of the pressure of losing his fam, he has decided he really wants to make a good hard effort now. Because I am not of the same faith, he said he had to end it. His family wou...
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He admitted he thought of me as a fling.
Posted Sunday July 20 2014, 10:35 pm
21/f, 27/m
This is slightly long, brace yourself.
I have been dating this guy for three months now. I hated the fact that I didn't know what to say when my friends asked me if we were together. I knew we were to talk about it at some point so I decided to bring up whether or not we were exclusive. We had this talk before but we didn't conclude to anything.
I've noticed that we used to go out and stuff together and now for some reason we end up in the bedroom. I realized that he stopped saying that he liked me and he wasn't as affectionate as he was before. He started talking to me more but I wasn't sure what to read into it.
This time I asked whether or not if he wanted to be exclu...
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boys
Posted Sunday July 20 2014, 1:20 pm
ok so i was on a cruise a few weeks ago and a boy started talking with me btw we are both going into 7th grade and now he is gone and i go to a private school with no boyz in my class and barely any i middle school and i cant stop thinking about him. And i think he liked me cause he came to me first
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Boyfriend stonewalling me.
Posted Sunday July 20 2014, 10:18 am
Hey there.. I write here today seeking answers. My boyfriend and I had a bit of a scuffle. I had an issue with a certain friend of his whom he had taken for lunch. I personally hate to be the one to find out things,and then the fact that he was taking a friend out to lunch also got me abit jealous. We talked over the phone and he assured me it was just friendly,and she was going through a rough patch in her life.
Hours later,it was Saturday evening and we usually talk about sleepovers or night outs. When I called,his phone was off and it remained like that all night.
Sunday morning,he said he had put it off specifically for me because he knew I would call about that issue. He made it seem like my reaction had not gone well wit...
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i need advice
Posted Saturday July 19 2014, 11:03 pm
15f/
Okay sorry this is gonna be kinda long but i need help. Before you judge and say "you're too young" and so fourth know that i'm very mature for my age. I'm friends with alot of "older" kids. like 17+, i was at a party i got extremely high, and wasted but i was taken upstairs by this 18 year old but we've been friends for a while so it wasnt random but yes we "hooked up." and eveyone knows which isnt a big deal to me because im not a slut, i dont hook up with people all the time. anyway, it didnt feel like just a hookup, it felt real. we talked about it after (while sober) and he said i wasnt just another hookup, and that he actually cared. i'm convinced because all his friends say he talks about me...
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Do you think he still wants to have sex with me? What is he thinking now?
Posted Saturday July 19 2014, 9:22 pm
This guy has been asking me for sex since Sophomore year. He's been asking me stuff like sex, and stuff related to that I see him a lot bc I'm a lacrosse manager and i became one in 10th grade and he plays. He asked me and I was like watch the game bc he was talking to me and this was during our junior year. And he was like is that a no. I didn't say anything. He asked me again and he was like are u in the middle like yes and no and i nodded my head. Also he snap chatted me after and was like i know you want to have sex with me, he's serious. I snap chatted him saying "ok ill admit it, I want too. happpppy?" and he didn't snap chat back. And then we planned on hooking up after one game but I sorta faked because we were going to hi...
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Sometimes I wonder if he's there
Posted Saturday July 19 2014, 7:38 pm
The discussion is real but is the feeling? I have always had the nagging feeling that my boyfriend isn't ready for the level of commitment we have. For two years he has reassured me that our son and I are what he wants but his words sometimes lead me to believe that he feels restricted and uneasy with our relationship. We just recently had a conversation in which he brought up the fact that he is unsure if where he is in life with us is where he really wants to be. It seems to me as if he needs some time to explore what it is that he really wants. He seems to think that his feeling of being trapped and forced into being a father and partner is simply part of being immature and he'll just get used to it. Opinions anyone?? It hurts me to hear him say he's not sure if he wants us.
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i made a HUGE mistake and need advice how what to do
Posted Friday July 18 2014, 3:38 pm
i am a female and i have a boyfriend. i'm almost 17 and he's 16. we've been together for 5 months now. i went to a guy's house, we did have a short fling, but it's over now and he ended up trying to pressure me into things, i continuously repeated i didn't want to cheat and even ended up crying over it in front of him, but that didn't stop him and he threatened to make me walk home, i was about 40 minutes from my house and had no clue where i was. so i got scared and allowed him to do some things to me..i never kissed him or touched him. then he got rather aggressive at one point and had me pinned against the wall, my back to him and arms behind my back held by his body, pulled my hair back hard and place his hand over my neck. at that poin...
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I want to go out and my bf won't let me
Posted Friday July 18 2014, 2:20 pm
Hi guys so I'm 18 years old and in a few days my bf will be 21. We've been dating for 2 and a half years but our first year was a little rough. But I would like to go out to a club and dance with my friends along with my older brother. My boyfriend is totally against it. He says only single girls have business being at a club. But when he turns 21 he plans on going out without me. I understand his point of not wanting me to get grabbed and such on the dance floor buy I know I can handle it. And if for some reason I couldn't my brother and girlfriends will be there. Im sick of doing the same thing of nothing, every night with my boyfriend and sometimes we need our space. Could someone please tell me I'm completely wrong for wanting to go out...
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What's the name for this sexuality?
Posted Thursday July 17 2014, 2:50 pm
Okay so i figured out my sexuality but i dont think there’s a name for it
For girls, same as always, sexually and romantically attracted always
But with guys, never sexually attracted, but only romantically attracted if i share a close bond with them (like demiromantic but only with guys)
Does anybody know what this could possibly be?
(14f btw)
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does he love me ? :(
Posted Thursday July 17 2014, 7:16 am
i am 17 years old n im dating this guy from the past 8 months. i have had sex with him many times ,it was alright and going well before 1 month but from the past 1 month he keeps ignoring me n when i ask him why he gives pointless reasons he says that hes busy because of college work ,we don't speak for days sometimes .is it because he has lost interest in me or something i love him a lot and don't want to loose him please give some advice what should i do to get him back the same way he was before.
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