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Sex tips for a 20 year old?
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 9:54 pm
20female.
I have a few questions.
First, is the guy usually mad if you don't give them head before having sex? I mean, I'd think they would be happy just having sex but I'm wondering if you don't give them head and just to go sex if they will think in their head, "Whats this girl thinking or what is she doing..?"
Also, I hate being on top, for anything. I've never been on top for sex and I even hate being on top when I'm just straddling a guy and kissing his neck. What if a guy wants me to be on top at some point for sex? One time me and this guy were making out and he was on top of me and then we switched, well he switched us and put me on top. I felt like I needed to know more of wh...
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Not a virgin.
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 5:35 pm
15/f
Okay, well my friend was talking to this guy that's been "eyein'" me lately. He asked if I was a virgin & she told him the truth, which is I'm not. He said he wasn't interested anymore.
Do guys automatically not like you after you've lost your virginity? Maybe because I'm not "pure/new" any more? Idk.
I just lost it recently. My reasons are selfish... I was lonely & felt completely unwanted. I've lost everybody this past year & I just don't know how to deal with my b.s. Am I going to lose everyone just because I lost my virginity? I know it sounds stupid, but any answer helps.
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Boring sex life...
Posted Monday October 4 2010, 10:48 pm
So my boyfriend and I have been together for three years now and we're completely bored with our sex life. I'm still in love with him and as is he, but we want something fresh in the relationship. Don't get us wrong, we still enjoy making love, but we just want to spice it up a little. Any suggestions?
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What to do?
Posted Monday October 4 2010, 2:52 pm
15/m
My friend said she might be pregnant and i don't know what to tell her, i am not the guy she had sex with i'm just her friend. But i like her alot and i wanna help her.
What can i do to help?
She isn't sure yet if she is pregnant but i still wanna help her so any tips would be great thanks! :)
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How do you have doggie style sex when you're a girl?
Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 6:56 pm
Stupid Q. My bf said he wants to hit it from the back and I'm cool w/it. This coming weekend we're gonna do it. How do I position myself? No graphic sex talk here pls. I just wanna know how to lay or whatever so we can do like doggy style. Thanx
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first time having sex
Posted Sunday October 3 2010, 3:11 pm
i had sex for the first time and my cherry was popped.
he came but i didnt.
how do i make it so i can orgasm and enjoy sex?
i really didnt like it.
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Can virgins have/get herpes?
Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 1:48 pm
I'm just curious about this question. Can virgins have/get herpes? Even when they don't have any sort of sexual contact?
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How'd I get herpes when we used condoms?
Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 1:09 pm
My boyfriend has herpes. He told me before we ever did anything and I accepted him for who he is and this disease he has had to deal with. He hasn't had any sores or anything since we been together but we only been together for like 3 months and he says he usually gets sores like 1 time a year or maybe 2 if it's really bad. We always took precaution to make sure he wasn't going to infect me. I looked over his penis and we made sure we were both freshly cleaned and he always ALWAYS used a condom. So 4 days ago I was feeling weird on my vagina and BOOM theres a freaking sore. I freaked out and went to the clinic and they tested me and it came back positive for herpes. I know I got to deal with it and stuff but...How did that happen?
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Long labia..
Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 1:42 am
20f.
I'm comfortable with my body but the only thing I'm not comfortable with is my labia. It's longer than normal ..which makes me SOOO unbelievably self-conscious. Even if I feel comfortable with a guy and want to have sex ..I just can't get over this. Yeah maybe they won't care ...but in my head it's such a big deal. Girls, you should know when you feel self-conscious about something it ALWAYS gets to you no matter what anyone says. I don't know what to do. I shouldn't be afraid to have sex because of this, but I don't want any guy to be grossed out :(
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BLOWJOB-how to give the best head
Posted Thursday September 30 2010, 8:36 pm
ive given a lot of head but recently i took a break and didnt really party for a while, then i had a crazy night and got drunk and wtvr and blew this boy.
we were both drunk and it was taking him so long to come like he actually colddnt and i was doing it for a while then i had to go and left before he cud finish...
i feel like i lost my touch.
can someone give me good tips?
guys?
thanks
and was it my foult that the boy couldnt come?
he just kept pre-cmming
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sex...
Posted Thursday September 30 2010, 8:02 pm
so all my friends have already had sex, and me, well, i havent. im scared its gonna hurt and such. i have a very low pain tolerance. its beyond low. anyways, i feel like im uncomfortable with my body. im comfortable with it, i just dont know if im comfortable with anyone else seeing it. i really love my boyfriend and when its the right time, i wanna do it for the first time with him, but i wanna make sure im comfortable. is there anyway to do this? and is there any explanation for the way i feel?
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addicted to watching porn.
Posted Thursday September 30 2010, 7:22 pm
Okay, so I am 15 years old and i love watching porn. and no im not turned on by in by i just like watching it. is this normal?
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never in the mood
Posted Thursday September 30 2010, 6:11 pm
ok so lately i have been feelin tired ALL the time. i never have energy anymore.
my boyfriend and i are sexually active, but i am never in the mood. if i force myself to try to have sex, i feel gross and dirty...like i want NOTHING to do with sex. this has caused problems with our relationship and idk what to do ro what is wrong with me.
advice?
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Sexual activities?
Posted Thursday September 30 2010, 10:54 am
Okay so I'm 19 male and my girlfriend doesn't want to be penetrated. I'm okay with it. But she still likes doing sexual things with each other. We have been together for a year and didn't start fooling around till 6 months ago. Basically, we are getting bored with the things we do and i don't want to hurt her by suggesting straight up sex. I want her to keep her "virginity" but we just don't know what to do. I know this is an awkward question and i feel really awkward asking it but i could really use the advice and i think i derserve this since seeing how all the advice i've given. Thanks in advance guys(gals)
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why do i feel guilty?
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 10:27 pm
soo me and my boyfriend have sex all the time. but sometimes i just get this guilt feeling afterwards like im doing something bad. and likee sometimes its not even during sex. like we'll just be doing sexual things and ill make him stop because i start feeling guilty. its nothing like my religion and it has nothing to do with him. i love him with all my heart. but i just dont understand why. any ideas?
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things to do with boyfriend
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 4:56 pm
i need new things to do with my boyfriend. kinky or "normal" things we can do at college. i wanna change things up a bit. we also haven't seen each other in a while since we go to different schools.
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69
Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 4:54 pm
how does a girl 69 while shes on top? i need really good details like where to put my legs, how to do him while holding myself up, how far i lower my body on him, etc.
and please dont leave me a link to any websites!
thanks!
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I don't feel sympathy for others...
Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 8:13 pm
14/f
I wouldn't say I'm a bad person. I don't like the fact that I don't have sympathy. But it's difficult. If it doesn't really concern me I don't feel sad for your sake..
For example..Today one of my classmates boyfriend's killed himself and she is pregnant with his child.
We are reading a book called Tears of a Tiger in class and it has a shit load on suicide and depression and guilt and death in it. And while discussing it she burst out crying and ran out of the room.
I know this is a terrible situation for her but I just can't muster any sympathy. I could fake it but that's just pretend..
I don't know what's wrong with me.
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pea tests
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 10:49 pm
why is it so nerve recking to buy a pregnancy test? feels like no matter what age you are its embarrasing you dont want ne one to know and would rather just appear at your house.
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FORGIVENESS...
Posted Monday September 27 2010, 9:21 am
Ok well me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex(stupid) and i unknowingly gave him chlamydia as soon as i found out i had it i told him and he was really understanding. Anyways i took the antibiotics and was cured he had not yet went to the doctor and we had an argument and he told me if u were here right now we would have some rough sex and i stupidly said I wouldnt have sex with you because you have chlamydia and i dont it was supposed to be a tupid joke but he thinks i was scorning him and now he is really upset...how d i get him to forgive me...byt the way we aare in a long distance relationaship...HELP ME PLEASE>
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