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What to do in a relationship break?


Posted Sunday August 10 2014, 7:50 pm

So my girlfriend lost feelings for me, but still loves me so much, she tells me shes trying to get her feelings back, but for now, it hurts her when she knows shes hurting me.

Like, she feels really bad when I be nice to her and tell her I still love her despite her losing her feelings. I do admit, I spoiled her with love. We both want to fix our relationship. So we decided to take a 2 week break, so her feelings might come back when she experiences life without me. But we dont know what to do during a break...like do we still text or call? (Its a long distance relationship, 4 months in) what do we have to do during the break?

(Do's and don'ts will we helpful)

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Need advice urgently


Posted Sunday August 10 2014, 4:42 am

Hi
I've been dating my bf for for years, and Recently I had
Pregnancy signs and told him, I was so scared ,prayed for them not to be positive because we are still young. I thensaid to him that I don't want to give kids out of wedlock. This did cause him too much pain, he said that he too was born before my inlaws tied the knot, I didn't know about this, and it came out the wrong way, what I was trying to say is that it will be better if we hve kids when we are financially stable so that we won't be burdening our parents with our responsiblities.

Things started changing, are conversations are getting shorter, he no longer calls me with sweet names. He talks to me like I'm a stranger, I'm afraid he wants to end o...

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I Need advice urgently


Posted Sunday August 10 2014, 1:43 am

Hi
I've been dating my bf for for years, and Recently I had
Pregnancy signs and told him, I was so scared ,prayed for them not to be positive because we are still young. I thensaid to him that I don't want to give kids out of wedlock. This did cause him too much pain, he said that he too was born before my inlaws tied the knot, I didn't know about this, and it came out the wrong way, what I was trying to say is that it will be better if we hve kids when we are financially stable so that we won't be burdening our parents with our responsiblities.

Things started changing, are conversations are getting shorter, he no longer calls me with sweet names. He talks to me like I'm a stranger, I'm afraid he wants to end o...

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How can u stop


Posted Friday August 8 2014, 5:03 pm

How do you stop yourself from loving someone ? :( like is it possible to love someone your not with your whole life ?

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Girl Friend texting a man


Posted Friday August 8 2014, 9:12 am

My girlfriend is always texting this guy see says is just a friend that comes into work and he doesn't mean nothing to her. They talk everyday all day while she's at work. Lately I've found her texting him to see what he's doing instead of him looking for her. When I asked her about it she just said I had nothing to worry about and see won't talk to him anymore but now she has him under a females name trying to cover up so I think she's not talking to him anymore. Am I just looking into this the wrong way or should I be worried? Thanks Taz170

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My boyfriends mother hates me


Posted Friday August 8 2014, 8:30 am

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He moved out of the country for college and now he's living with his dad, his step mom and his step siblings. His mother has hated me since the start. She always puts up a face and acts like everything is okay when she's in front of me and my family. I just found out recently that she has been trying to get rid of me by telling my boyfriend to leave me. She also keeps pairing my boyfriend up with girls that she is comfortable with. I dont know what I should do or how I should react. My boyfriend is very close to his mom and I dont want to ruin their relationship as much as possible. I hope he fights for me when the situation calls for it.

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He doesn't admit it when he's wrong.


Posted Friday August 8 2014, 3:09 am

I'm feeling bad right now, WHEN I SHOULD BE HAPPY!
My exam results just came out and I was especially eager to share it with my boyfriend because He was supportive when i was losing hope at how hard the exams seemed.
Anyway, i didn't quite get the reaction I wanted. He brushed it off, didn't congratulate me, and was generally not as happy as I was. I told him so,and over the phone, he was a jerk. He asked me why I'm angry, while laughing at me and making light of the matter,not realizing that I was getting more agitated. He continued to laugh and eventually, i told him to stop and then I hang up. He called back again but I didn't answer.Now all I can think of is, my boyfriend of almost 2 years isn't happy for me and my achiev...

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I LOVE HIM BUT MY FRIEND DOES TO


Posted Thursday August 7 2014, 6:00 pm

hey guys my name is Jenna and i have a relationship crisis there is this guy and we are bestfriends he is the sweetest and he seems intrested in me but my friends are always embarrasing me infront of him we have a good friendship he lives wit his grandparents they will let me and my friends in. i went in to his bedroom and spooned him he was asleep and he woke up and i said that was great last night it was so funny i almost died well tonight he was asleep me him and my two friends went in to his room and my BESTFRIEND (female not male) was flirting with him so we went on a walk we joked around a little then said good night and im gona go to his house tommorow how should HOW SHOULD I PRANK HIM AND SHOULD I TELL HIM I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM????????????

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dating someone 20 years younger


Posted Wednesday August 6 2014, 10:00 pm

How do you go about dating someone 20 years younger than you? Who has been a very special friend

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Breaking up advice


Posted Wednesday August 6 2014, 2:40 pm

Hey. I have a problem that I really need help with. So I got out of a relationship with a guy a couple months ago and I was really heartbroken about it, then a couple weeks ago a friend of mine said that he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. Me being the idiot I am, said yes. I thought I liked him and it would help me get through the breakup with the other guy, but now I realize that I really don't like him. Also, I won't see him at all in person so I need to break up with him over text. Please help me. What do I do. Helpppp

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does he like me and how can i get him to ask me out


Posted Wednesday August 6 2014, 5:44 am

so im the girl who a while back asked how to pick between my bf and my guyfriend and sadly i picked my gf and i say sadly bc a month and a half later he broke up with me and said really hurtfull things then 2 weeks later i find out hes going out with my used to be bestfriend and since he moved on i thought i would too.ok so some i went to this 1 week summer program and me friend told me she thought my guy friend liked me nd i kept saying he probly doesnt but on the last day me and some friends were playing uno and i was sitting in the teachers chair nd he asked if he cud sit with me nd i sed yes and he kept putting his hand around my waist but at the time i had a bf so i kept pushing it away and in the gym he kept touching my thighs nd tel...

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Older guy has feeling for me


Posted Monday August 4 2014, 6:07 pm

Im 24 I was in an life or death accident and a couple of guys saved my life. I'm have contact with one of them and recently called me. He says ever sense that day he has feelings for me. Except I know he is about 6 years old and not to mention he is married. Is it possible this is true? Can it because of the accident? I'm not sure how to handle this appropriately.

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confusing love


Posted Monday August 4 2014, 11:31 am

hello
I'm a loyal type of guy one women men and I'm in love with one of mine senior
frnd she know i madly love her but
i dont know what she feels cus she
did such a things with me which
makes mee depressed and always
hurting me not talking properly
always in rude manner but
sometimes she is talking in very
soft n in polite manner and whenever we use
to hangout together she is always
observing my expression what i feel
when she use to say that she like
someone else she share all her past
secret but not telling the name of
guy (currently) to whom she like
aur loved(dont know any other guy is in her life aur I). she is not fully ign...

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i love one of my best friend she knows bt she is not fully ignoring mee nor fully allowing m totally confused what she feels for mee


Posted Monday August 4 2014, 5:35 am

hello
I'm in love vd one of mine senior frnd she know i madly love her but i dont know what she feels cus she did such a things with me whick makes mee depressed and always hurting me not talking properly always in rude manner but sometimes she is talking in very soft manner and whenever we use to hangout together she is always observing my expression what i feel when she use to say that she like someone else she share all her past secret but not telling the name of guy (currently) to whom she like aur loved she is not ignoring nor allowing mee im quite no totally confused what she feels ...??
and always saying juss move on and concentrate on your future..! if i guess she love but not showing her feelings cus she feels da...

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Confusing relationship situation


Posted Monday August 4 2014, 12:42 am

Hi! I'm female, senior in high school. Last year (junior year) I had this friend, and I started talking to this guy and dating him and then found out they had slept together. Not durin our relationship, like way before. Well she would always get really mad about us hanging out and she even had another boyfriend! The guy and I were sleeping with eAchother and had been for about two months. We could never let her find out because she would go insane. Eventually, she started hanging out with him again, and now he's totally ditched me for her! We still talk but not often, and he won't really hang out with me! I know we're just friends, and I even told him I wanted to hang out as friends and we still never have. See with their relationship he ch...

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what is love ?


Posted Sunday August 3 2014, 10:46 am

So I'm 15 and yes I know that I have not experienced real love yet with a boyfriend. When I'm in a relationship I never say I love you first because frankly I don't know how to tell if I even love them, so when they say I love you I just say it back. Which I know isn't right and I should be upfront about my feelings, I just rather not break someone's heart. When do you finally realize what love is and how do you know if you truly actually love someone ? Any advice is welcomed, thank you for anyone who answers my question.

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Why would you call an ex after several years?


Posted Sunday August 3 2014, 1:46 am

6 years ago I was in a relationship with a girl(I was 16-17 and she was 15-16). We had our ups and downs, but our relationship was what I would call emotionally intense and turbulent at times. I have never loved someone, and am extremely certain will never love someone the way I loved her. Its to the point where I

She moved away, and long distance didn't work out, so we took a "break". Since then we have occasionally talked, but its very hard to not get extremely jealous when she subtly brings up boyfriends or whatever, so we usually stop talking after drama builds up between us.

She called me yesterday after not speaking for 3 years. She is 20 now and goes to Harvard University, and has an overall gr...

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Does he like me?


Posted Saturday August 2 2014, 11:49 pm

Okay well I'm 15 and he's 17. My whole family knows him well bc he is my cousin's best friend! Anyway, I feel like he doesn't make an attempt to talk to me that much bc he lives an hour away but when he does, he flirts, or tries to show off. (In a cutesy stupid kinda way!)Like recently, my friends and I were walking and his friends and he were walking, no one said anything but he hit my shoulder and when I looked he said "Tag, you're it!" And winked and walked away! I like him tho! Dx I'm really confused! Thanks!!

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He has a girlfriend but he flirts and gives me mixed signals


Posted Saturday August 2 2014, 9:45 pm

20 Female

So I met this guy on twitter and after a few months we started flirting. He wanted a good full out blown flirtationship so we did that. At first we would just flirt but slowly he started sexting me and soon I developed feelings for him. I told him I liked him and he told me, "I think you're so perfect for me, I wish I could make myself love you." A few months later he got a girlfriend but kept on lying to me that they are "just friends" so that I will continue sexting him! I found out and we had a fight and he said he didn't want to "hurt me" so he didn't say anything. I stopped talking to him and I took me about 3-4 months to get over him. A couple days ago he started texting me back ...

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Am i gay?


Posted Saturday August 2 2014, 10:22 am

Well am a 15 year old boy with not much of a social life. When i get lonely which is most of the time, i tend to watch porn. Recently, i decided to try watching gay porn and i liked it very much. I even cum faster when i watch Gay Porn than when i watch Straight Porn. Could it mean that am gay?
Please help me.

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