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-Steady Advice Buddy..??
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 3:02 pm
Okay I have decided That i want a STEADY advice buddy which means that i want to have one specific person (that actually LOVE giving advice) That i can write to wheneva i need advice. Im senseing that some of the advicee that is giving to me is not serious. I wont someone that will actually think the advice that they are about to give to me and not go off their own disappointments. Example: If I ask someone what should i do about my boyfriend I dont want the response to be...(FORGET HIM!!! HE'S NOT WORTH IT) Just because that person have had some problems in their relationship. I wont a person that I can send direct msgs to. I also want someone that wont take FOREVER to respond bacc because I really do need help on some situations. So pleas...
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how to say i'm moving out
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 1:39 pm
i need advice on what to say to my roommates about me moving out in december/january.
heres background info.
me and 2 people have an apartment together for college because the school doesnt have dorms. we were supposed to get a 4th roommate cause its hard to pay rent with just 3, but it never happened. i've hated it here from day 1. they both ditch me all the time, they are inconsiderate and selfish, and its almost impossible to make other friends because we are off campus. i'm 110% positive i want to leave, i just dont know how to tell them. they will hate me because theyre gonna have to find another roommate or pay extra money each month. please help!! im nervous and idk how to confront them about it :/
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Should I be pissed off? Or just take the joke?
Posted Thursday September 9 2010, 6:03 am
I'm feeling a little bit pissed off at two of my friends (they're not like my best friends or anything, more like really good acquaintances). I had my b-day party yesterday and they thought it would be funny to "pie me" in the face...but they didnt just do a little whipped cream or whatever the two of them got me with **two** real pies. It was a total surprise and I didnt know what to think at the time but it was funny, although more than anything just a total shock. But I was totally covered in the stuff and now the shirt I was wearing is stained and it wont come out, that was like $30 and my jeans have stains on them too that won't come out and they were really expensive too. Besides I sat at my party, where i really wanted to l...
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leading him on wrong
Posted Wednesday September 8 2010, 1:02 am
13/f
i have this one guy in four of my classes and hes so sweet and funny but i think he likes me and i just wanna be friends cuz i like this other guy...so i dont want to send him the wrong message but how do i let him know i wanna be just friends?
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a big mistake with a long story
Posted Wednesday September 8 2010, 12:16 am
hi im 15/f and i have a boyfriend whos gay i know its strange but there a good reason why this happened. i met him a year ago as my other self. im pansexual and i crossdress i feel like im a boy inside and i act it out online not in a bad way i promise but i have an account i use for my boy side. well he messaged me one day and we started talking. we both fell for eachother and now a year later we still havent seen eathother its been a long distance relationship. he still doesnt know my real gender and i really want to tell him. one day i asked him if he would still love me if i was a girl and he said that he would still love me no matter what, he loves me for whats on the inside. even though he has said this to me i cant find the words to ...
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My best friend is my crush
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 8:41 am
I have this boy best friend who I tease always. And do you know why I do that? Because I have a crush on him. And now he has this sort-of girlfriend and whenever I see him with her I feel jealous. And he doesn't know my secret. I used to have a crush on this person and still my best friend thinks I have a crush on that other boy. Now what do I do?! I'm so confused. And the other boy is begging to be my boyfriend. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
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My friends make me feel left out
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 8:36 am
My friends always ignore my opinions! And when I tell a story, they will talk about another topic! And I feel nervous now because I know about their plan. Their plan is to make my life suffer and when I have a crush they will hunt him down and tell him and lie about me and tell bad things about me that aren't true and make my other friends my enemies. Now what will I do?! My life is going to be ruined in three months! And did I mention they will post a picture in a website with me with no underwear and no shirt or bra?!
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I always choose the wrong friend and I don't want that to happen again
Posted Monday September 6 2010, 8:30 am
I always have a best friend every year, and the same always happens. She betrays me. And we're not friends anymore. Now I'm trying to avoid that to happen again. Please give me advice on how to do that!
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he doesn't talk to me anymore
Posted Friday September 3 2010, 9:25 am
I have a best friend who I used to talk to a lot but now he doesn't talk to me. Please tell me why.
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One Best friend better than a couple of close ones?
Posted Thursday September 2 2010, 5:52 pm
I've got a couple of friends. But I'm not super close to them. They have friends that are closer to them than I am so I don't really know all the news things happening to them and I'll find out a couple of days later. I mean, we're close, but not AT close.
I have a best friend and I tell her 99% everything! Sometimes, I wish I had another best friend or maybe two more so that if there's a rough situation I'm in and I couldn't tell my best friend, at least I'll have someone else to talk to. Posting them online to anonymous people is also okay, I guess, but I'm not comfortable with that.
Am I bad for even hoping for another friend? Not a REPLACEDMNT, but more than one? Or should I be happy with what I have? I mea...
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Posted Tuesday August 31 2010, 6:51 pm
What do you if some of your best friends ask you out? And there is more then one friend too.
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My so called best friend
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 2:46 pm
18/f my so called best friend Skylar is a huge liar. Like she'll go somewhere with her Friends, and tell me she was babysitting. She did something horrible last year, she pretended to be someone and told this girls boyfriend that she was cheating on him and stuff like that. She is just such a liar. She is fun to be with. But I saw her in school
today and I couldn't even look at her. I'm so angry and I just don't know What to do. I haven't texted her Nd she hasn't texted me. If she texts me I know it's going to
be so hard not to say anything. I know she knows Im mad because I heard she was talking about me. She leaves me
out of things and obviously doesn't think of
me the same. Wha should I do?
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More than friends?
Posted Monday August 30 2010, 1:41 am
My best friend and I have been friends since third grade. I am a girl and he is a boy, we are both 16. I feel like I have a fairy tale friendship with this boy. We had our own little posse in third grade, it was him, me and two gay boys. We were always together in school. Then they two boys moved away leaving just me and this boy who has now grown to be one of my best guy friends. I can trust him with anything. I like him always being there because girls are catty and start drama all the time, being friends with this boy assures me that my secrets are actually safe with him. Every time I'm down, I text him and he would make me feel so much better, all the time. When I got into a fight with an ex friend of mine over her calling me fake, he s...
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Good Guy Friend
Posted Saturday August 28 2010, 12:21 am
My good friend came over to my house and started to try to find my "tickle spots" and wanting to massage me on the places that i have muscle pain. He also tried to lift me in a playful way. He also said "I can't get over how soft your skin is."
I'm wondering if my guy friend likes me more than a friend.
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I want to hang out with him more.
Posted Thursday August 26 2010, 1:37 pm
I started hanging out with this boy, 16, I too am 16 and I am a female. I like hanging out with him, I love being around him and he's a cool guy to just know you're around. We're making plans to hang out a second time and I don't want it to be the last. Without being mushy and gushy "I love being around you and hanging out with you" How do I tell him that I want to hang out again after this second time? Also, without being annoying. I want him to be with his other friends but I don't want our hang outs to stop.
Please and Thank You!
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Hanging out.
Posted Wednesday August 25 2010, 11:45 pm
My best friend and I want my best guy friend to come over to my house and chill with us. play some tunes out in my yard, just chill, have a good time. But he bailed and I got really mad at him, but we got over it and now everything is okay. He had told me that he actually can make it to hang out. But now I kind of want to tell him that I can't and we have to reschedule so he wonders what I'm doing and maybe who I'm with. Maybe tell him that I'm at a party or something. But I would only do that with the sole intent of him wondering and thinking about me. Which I'm not sure will happen. He bails on alot of things. But he usually either unbails.. or reschedules.
What should I do? Thanks.
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backstabber
Posted Wednesday August 25 2010, 12:31 am
a few months ago i became close with this guy chris, he was friends with a bunch of other people that i was friends with at the time. we got along really well and soon i felt like i could trust him enough to confide in him about my personal life. he really acted like we were best friends.
i have a serious boyfriend (who is also friends with chris and a lot of mine and chris's mutual friends) so i was kind of surprised when chris told me that he had a crush on me. he told me this after we had been friends for about 5 months, and to me it was completely random because to me i always thought that he thought of me as a friend the same way i thought of him0 .although i guess it would explain his motives in being my friend. after ...
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Can you help me with my friend problem
Posted Tuesday August 24 2010, 11:33 pm
Hi I'm in high school
and I have friend who is 26 and I love her she's getting married next year and I haven't seen her in along time I asked her about the wedding and she said only over 18 could come I really don't understand she was laughing so it must be a joke or not she never comes to my gatherings so is this a right friend for me or just give another chance?
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i love him but i dont think he cares
Posted Tuesday August 24 2010, 1:12 pm
hello, my names louise and im 13. i recently went on holiday with my best friend and her brother, whose friend who is two years older than me came for 3 days. as soon as i saw him i really liked him. his not the best looking boy ever but he is sweet and caring. we held hands alot and at night we slept in the front room with my friend and he had his arm round me and we kissed a few times. he knew that when he went away i would really miss him and he said he would miss me too.
since he went ive asked for his number on numberous occassions but he doesnt reply. ive spoken to him over facebook but he doesnt seem to care. if i message him he will either reply with about a sentence or ignore it. i asked whether he was free in the next two ...
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my friend is becoming a problem
Posted Monday August 23 2010, 11:51 pm
Hey so i posted a question about this already, but it didn't make sense. So i have a friend and ever since she's become a christian and well she always thinks that her point of view is right and we always end up getting in a fight about it. She treats me like crap. On Saturday she didn't want to watch this movie and wanted to watch something else and kept saying it was bad because they were cursing, and i told her i didn't care what she though. And she said well you wouldn't be saying that. And the weekend before i was eating and watching a movie and i came back and i said out loud that i didn't understand the movie and she rudely replies with well maybe if you weren't eating and paying attention to the movie and i got mad and started tell...
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