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Needing some advice about a "friend"
Posted Friday August 29 2014, 8:01 am
(This is gonna be a little too long, I'm sorry, but I feel like it has to be so you can understand the situation better. I'm sorry.)
Okay, so I have this friend online for like almost a year now but we've never really talked except for occasional simple pleasantries whenever we catch each other online. We've never met each other personally. Then one day, I posted something about my break up and he tried to talk to me about it. So I told him everything and he said he's there for me if I ever need someone to talk to. So since then, I've been talking to him whenever I feel bad and whenever I feel nice about myself for trying to move on. And then I made a Skype account because he said he's not on Tumblr all the time and we can t...
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My ex is now engaged to his ex before me Am i wrong for being mad?
Posted Thursday August 28 2014, 6:12 pm
We just broke up barely 6 months ago. We were together for 9 months and recently started seeing each other again for a few months.after brake up. He never mentioned seeing anyone else at all. We were together last Wed. and he proposed to her on Saturday? He told me in the beginning of the relationship he was over her as she had left town to be with someone else.I confronted him about being engaged and he was really cruel and cold and nonchalant about it! I feel I'm going crazy because I feel it's wrong to sleep with someone you know has feelings for you, and then a few days later ask another person to marry you? He feels he did nothing wrong because he didn't promise me a relationship but he also didn't make it clearly that he wasn't interested in working things out either.
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Needy girl
Posted Wednesday August 27 2014, 10:47 pm
Ok so I have became and extremely needy girl towards the guy I love we have only been a thing for like 4 months in the beginning everything was good then i took things way too serious i text him all the time and always ask him if we can hang out... he knows he has me whenever he wants so he takes advantage of it..if i back off and stop texting him and let him make the moves will this keep him more intersted?
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dating a guy for a yr.i been here thru alot of stuff.. now a baby with someone else?
Posted Wednesday August 27 2014, 12:56 pm
He has a baby on the way by a girl he got pregnant before we set boundaries and he has had money issues and i helped im with him every night and im happy but i just feel,for myself, i need that commitment especially before the child gets here to feel that security and have that commitment..i deal with a lot dating him and this situation and i feel i deserve at least that...but i dont want to feel im forcing anyone to "be" with me..although im always with him, his family knows about me, etc...do i wait it out or stand my grounds about having his all or nothing...
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Old guy friend
Posted Wednesday August 27 2014, 3:40 am
I would like to have her old guy friend to move out of the way so I can start. Rebuilding my relationship back as soon as possible with out beating him or with out getting her mad need to do in a few days or weeks and not come back /or for a while
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should i date him
Posted Tuesday August 26 2014, 6:44 pm
ok so my best friend is 15 and i'm 13. we have been best friends for 5 years and we have helped each other through everything. we know everything about each other and have great trust. I know he really likes me and I really like him. He has asked me out twice but ive said no cause ive got scared. I don't know if the age difference is to much or if I should go for it. I don't like anyone else and its not like im desperate and NEED a boyfriend but I really like him. we are both still virgins and he doesn't ever really show that he would pressure me into anything just a typical teenage boy but I trust him. what should I do?
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How should I act around him now?
Posted Tuesday August 26 2014, 6:29 am
20/f
There was this guy in college that I confessed my feelings to. He was a bit startled by my confession but he said we could try dating after our exam term is over. After 2 months he hasn't sent me a single text. We live in different towns. It is clear to me that he doesn't like me. I'm incredibly mad that he wasn't honest. I told him that it's ok if he doesn't like me back,that I understand and we can still stay friends. In spite of that he insisted he likes me. And then he went without even acknowledging my existence. I have an exam in 2 days and he'll be there too. I hate liars from the bottom of my soul. I will have a hard time resisting my urge to rip him apart. Confronting him will not help because he just avoids the...
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I'm friends with my exes and he is too
Posted Monday August 25 2014, 9:15 pm
21/f, 27/m
I have been friends with almost all of my exes. Some of them are close friends (the ones that were not serious and dated when I was in middle school/high school). I don't see them as often and I don't talk to them as often, whether or not if they are my close friends.
He is friends with this girl who was his first serious relationship... And for some reason, it bothers me.
I want to be okay with it because it's not fair that I'm friends with all of my exes but I have a problem with him being friends with... I don't know how many but her in particular. How can I be okay with it? How can I stop being paranoid?
I remember he told me he was planning on giving her stuff back....
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In love with my friends boyfriend
Posted Monday August 25 2014, 3:52 pm
20/f
A few years ago I had a fling with a guy from school but it was just a fling and never came to anything special. Last year he got with an old friend of mine and they have been together ever since. Me an him are friends an bump into each other occasionally and we have chemistry with each other but recently we ended up getting rather close and things happened but now all my old feelings have come back and I do still love him but he's with her and now I'm stuck for what to do.
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Help! how can I start moving forward?
Posted Sunday August 24 2014, 3:19 am
Hi there, I am from Philippines.
Here's my case:
We just met here at work.
We became close and good friends. Sweetness overload. And we are starting to fall BUT he has a girlfriend.
I know our status in the first place but I made a decision to still push this feelings and what we have is totally indescribable. We're like lovers which is open to every one. Hold hands, kisses, hugs, sms & calls. We decided to think of what makes us happy and what we just have for now and at work and don't mind what he have with his gf at home.
Everything went well and smooth for the past 3 weeks. Happy and unmindful of the future. But something just changed.
He is no...
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Friends after break up
Posted Sunday August 24 2014, 1:17 am
Good morning / Good afternoon advicenators, I`m 20/f and my bf is 22. I`m from India. We recently broke up a few months ago and decided to stay friends. We broke up because we had been in a secret relationship and finally he wanted to come out but I couldnt let it happen because of my family. The problem is I cant stop thinking about him and I truly still love him. I know for sure my family would never accept him so thats the reason we cant get back together. We still text each other and talk but I want to know how i can just love him as a friend. I want to be with him but because its impossible, I just want to learn how to stop thinking about him constantly without having to stop talking or texting him.
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third wheel? can't get her off my mind
Posted Saturday August 23 2014, 7:44 pm
There's this girl and I really began to like her. I'm in a messy relationship and stuff keeps going downhill. This girl I met is what seems to be perfect for me in every aspect of the word. We just met but she's beautiful in every sense of the word.we are both in a college group and there's this guy that she also began talking to. They text and are always together and I feel as though I'm pushed off to the side. I know this isn't good for me and I should get the hell out but I don't know what to do.
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Please help! about age difference
Posted Saturday August 23 2014, 12:38 pm
Okay , so I really really really like this guy who is 17. I'm 14 . He turns 18 & 3 months later I turn 15. I've already talked to my parents about it, and they litterally have no problem with it ( I was so surprised ) but his mom does a little bit. She just doesnt want him to get in trouble.. I live in NC. I just want to know the laws of dating a minor. He's like the other half of me, we are like Bestfriends. & we've already had the talk about sex and stuff. There's none of that until the time & age is right.. He told me he would never make me do anything i wouldn't want to do. I trust him and we are happy. We don't date yet though, I just don't know what to do. Is the age difference bad? Would people look at us weird? shoul...
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My Bipolar Girlfriend now Ex Again keeps coming back to me
Posted Saturday August 23 2014, 10:39 am
I met my girlfriend a year ago at school and we both had a crush on each other, one time around the end of the year we dated for two weeks then she left me. Then about a month or two later she came back to me and we started dating again, and she left me again. I went through depression twice now, and me and this girl are really in love, but I'm not sure if she's leaving me because of her bipolar disorder, she isn't on medication but if she came back to me again I was gonna talk to her about going on medication with her parents. I'm not sure though if she is leaving me because her bipolar disorder or what I need help to know what I should do and why she's really leaving me and if it is because her bipolar how can I make the relationship last...
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Struggling to break up with him-scared to be alone!
Posted Saturday August 23 2014, 8:16 am
I'm 19/f.
I want to break up with my boyfriend. We've been together for 10 months.
The problem is he's really nice and is totally in love with me. I'm worried that breaking up with him will crush him completely.
I just don't get excited about us anymore. When I get a text from him even if it says hey beautiful-I just feel no emotion. I don't really fancy him.
Recently he's had a go at me for not being able to come on dates. We live like a hour apart. I don't want to go on dates because they bore me.
Also my mum told my sister that I could do better for a boyfriend.
I know breaking up with him will hurt him no matter what. Just I start Uni again soon and wou...
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i know hes fallen for me but i dont know if i have for him
Posted Friday August 22 2014, 1:43 am
I'm a 22 year old girl. For about a year now I met a wonderful guy with a great personality. We click and get along so well. We see a lot of things similarly. He would be the ideal guy for me except im not attracted to him. I think he senses that im not but he always tells me how much he cares about me and that he's glad to have me in his life. At one point he did tell me he had feelings for me but at the time I had a boyfriend and it was a complicated situation. My boyfriend at the time and I were going through some issues and he was there for me when I needed to vent. But anyway, now, after regaining our close friendship, its obvious he wants to be with me but I don't know if I see myself with him in the future because of the lack of phys...
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Do normal, not-creepy guys even like fat chicks?
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 9:42 pm
High school girl, sophomore and I weigh 253lbs. I'm told all the time that I look far older than I am and that my weight balances out pretty well and that I don't look as big as I actually am. Gym class this last year was torture for me because most of the guys were making fun of me the whole period for being fat. I've been made fun of since kindergarten. No one's really ever liked me. I've been in a new school for two years now and no one here likes me too much. Most guys avoid talking to me at all costs. So I wanna hear it from the guys, does anyone even like big chicks??? In the last three years, I've gone from being outgoing and bubbly to being too afraid to walk to the other end of the cafeteria just to dump my freaking tray because I'...
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Me and my friends boyfriend..
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 7:11 am
So basically me and my friends boyfriend have abit of a history together and recently we've started talking and texting again. We have so much chemistry together and we both have feelings for one another but not the type of feelings that we want to be together as a couple, we just enjoy having abit of fun together but the problem is that he is with one of my college friends and they have been together for a while now. I know it's wrong to be doing what we are doing but we can't help ourselves and I know it's wrong to just let him use me like this but I kind of enjoy it. Please someone give me advice on what to do in this situation. Thank you! P.s I'm 19, female and from England.
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i dont know why he does that
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 12:35 am
Hey im 18 and my bf is 19. Weve been dating for a year and 3 months now. And during this time ive never met any of his friends. He was home schooled so i know he doesnt have many friends but id like to meet the few he does hang with. I always invite him along when my friends and i go out or get together but he doesnt even invite me with when he goes out with his friends. Why does he do that ? Is he embarresed of me...?
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Things are getting so complicated
Posted Wednesday August 20 2014, 2:07 am
It's been eight months that I am with my guy , and we love each other but we argue every single day!We fight over things we have said to each other , and silly reasons mostly.We try to fix ourselves but we end up fighting again.And he has this one problem , he just never admits it when it's his fault and that leads to a bigger fight.I also lost my virginity to him and it means a lot to both of us.And it has been a long time since we didn't have sex because we don't have a place.And he is always horny and I am not.He tries to do stuffs in public but it is very uncomfortable because people in my country stare even if a boy and a girl is holding hands.And when he starts talking about things like sex or kissing each other , I start explaining h...
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