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Faith and destiny


Posted Saturday August 23 2008, 1:08 am

What's you options on faith and destiny? DO you believe in it or??

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I caught my man kissing another man and he says it never happened


Posted Thursday August 21 2008, 5:09 am

I have been with my man for over10 yrs and I caught him kissing another man. Now he flat out says it never happened and Im crazy for it. I know what I saw. I look back now and there are tell,tell signs all along,that srapping Man had very close friends but that close!Now I have gone beserk, tried to run him over. Now Im got legal problems.How do I put him out of my mind and stop this insane obsession to make him just tell me??

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idk who i am


Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 3:49 pm

ive always been a pretty jelous person, not going to lie.. i am 14 yrs old and going to be a sophmore. i am pretty, a cheerleader, hang with the 'popular' crowd, have an older boyfriend, and a lot of friends. (not trying to brag, just want you to get the full idea, i would never say this to someone and i dont want to come off as a snob). so you may think i have all this, what more could i get, right? well most of my friends have A LOT more than i do. money wise. they are loaded for the most part.. and im not poor, but i cant afford what they can and i try to fit in my best. also, im not saying im fat, but im not skinny like my friends... i try to be SUPER nice to everyone, and i have a lot of apathy for many people but when you get on my wr...

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The odd things I do....


Posted Monday August 18 2008, 3:22 pm


Okay,


Well, I think I have OCD but I am really not sure and I have never been diagnosed with it. However, Not all the time but sometimes little things drive me up a wall exspecially if I'm cleaning. If I notice dust in my room I will clean it right away and then I will stare around my room for a good hour looking for dust and then the next thing I know I'll be going insane cleaning every corner of my room! and I hate public bathrooms ewwwww! Ugh.. Are these normal things? Or Is it possible I have OCD? and how would I know I have OCD?

Thanks

BahaiMa22

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nightmares


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 3:49 am

For the past two to three months I've been having nightmares. Sometimes they're just off the wall, other times they're about things that are on my mind. I get enough sleep, but I sleep really late. I eat well and exercise. I don't get stressed out, but my dreams are always about underlying thoughts that bother me.

What can I do so I can just get a peaceful night's rest for once?

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I'm killing my self esteem


Posted Saturday August 16 2008, 9:27 pm

I used to be confident, satisfied, and comfortable with myself.

Now, I'm far from it. I can do anything without judging my every thought, every want, every action. Even as I write this I worry 'what would people think if they found out I result to an internet advice sight to gain some sense of mind'. I'm going crazy, I hate not being able to do anything without worrying if it'll hurt me, make me fat, make me lose a friend, break a rule, look dumb, sound stupid, look ugly, seem dorky, or even if I'll regret it the next minute.

What can I do to clear my head of all my new found insecurities, I don't know what has brought them on me. I'm mentally exhausted from fighting them.

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Sort of weird


Posted Friday August 15 2008, 11:10 pm

**15/f**
I get weirdly nostalgic about things. I can't throw away stuff from when I was younger because I'll just have this guilt tugging at the back of my mind forever. Like, three years ago I gave away my dollhouse and I STILL feel guilty about that.
And then when I look at old pictures I cry because I know that I'll never get to go back to that time in my life ever again. That's why I can't throw things away, because I feel like I'd be throwing part of ME away. Does that make any sense?
I gave away two old Britney Spears CDs last year because I figured because I don't listen to them so why still keep them? Well I felt so guilty (over throwing out CDs of a singer I clearly don't listen to anymore) that I had to go all...

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I feel lost for no reason.


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 12:56 am

i don't know what it is i fell so lost, like i don't know what i want or what i need or anything. i fell like I've been left in the dark for no reason. i feel weak, pushed away and unwanted, but no one has been treating me any different. i feel as if i am trapped in this world and i don't know how to end that feeling. Any one know? one day is good and i am happy the next day i wake up and i feel it, i feel the different as if everything i done yesterday doesn't exist and doesn't matter. how do i put this feel to rest forever?

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Long but I don't know what to do any more!


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 3:41 pm

So I think I am depressed but I have never been to a doctor to get help or anything. Usually I just hide all my emotions in and then when Im riding my horses I will take my anger out and use that as stress releif. But latley that has not been enough. Earlier this year I was un happy with my body image so I turned to bilimia to make myself thinner, that helped me feel better about myself until I started passing out at gymnastics practices, I was able to overcome this on my own and not have to tell anyone. I thought I was doing better but sense summer has been here I have been a weck, my anger is taking over me and I have been physically hurting myself and I just try and stay away from people because I feel as if people are judging me and...

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somethings wrong with me.


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 3:22 pm

so this year it was my second year at a sleepaway camp. i loved this camp last summer, i had the best time of my life and i loved all of the people and made so many friends. this year a little bunk mixup happened and everyone blamed me for it because i requested two people that didnt request me. it didnt end well. before camp started, the bunks were back to normal and everything was good. on the first day i decided to swicth back into my old bunk, the one i was in last year. even though i was friends with the bunk i wanted to be in this summer. but they were ignoring me so i felt left out and switched to the bunk i was in last year. anyways, the whole summer i had a horrible time and cried every single day. no joke. so after a while i was f...

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I'm confused about my sexuality: pretending to be a girl


Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 5:43 pm

Hello, I'm a male, 17 years old, and from Lebanon (Middle East). I'm really confused about my sexuality. I have a girlfriend and I appear straight to all my friends. But when I masturbate, I imagine that I'm a girl getting violated, or having sex with two guys etc. And when I watch a porn movie, I see myself as the girl in the movie, not as the guy, and imagining that I'm a girl having sex with a guy turns me on more than anything. I always like to be a girl who is having sex with guys not a guy having sex with a guy, nor a girl having sex with a girl, only a girl having sex with a guy. and I have a fake email ID and when I'm using it I pretend to be a girl, I steal girl's photos from the Internet and show them to guys in Chatting Rooms, an...

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really strange question


Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 1:23 am

whats a good site to see if you have any personality disorders or mental illnesses??

because i want to see if i have bipolar disorder or something like that or schizophrenia(sp) because both of those illnesses run in my family. and im just wondering.

thanks.

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Blood Pressure.....


Posted Friday August 8 2008, 10:09 pm



Okay to make a long story short...


I am on Lithium and Depekote (Anti Depressants) I have not taken my medication in about a month. I recently got a back injury at work and went to the doctor and he put me on some medication one being a anxiety pill. Okay, Well I took my medication (Lithium and Depekote) along with the Anxiety pill...About an hour later I ended up having a seizure. I don't remember much of what happened, However my blood pressure was 90 over 99 and I remember my entire body feeling weak and my pupils were dialated and I could hardly stand up. I was just wondering if anyone knew how close to death I possibly was? and how dangrous exactly is a blood pressure that is 90 over 99?
...

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Reading makes me sad?


Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 7:56 pm

Lately, I've been feeling like I've been wasting my time if I'm not out with friends or something. And for some reason (I think the two may be connected) I also feel empty and miserable after reading. I'm a huge Harry Potter fan, the kinds that spend time on the online forums and all that. But I've been unable to enjoy fanfiction because finishing it makes me feel.. sad. I haven't pinpointed the emotion, or the cause, but I feel kinda down. I just finished the Twilight series, which was pretty good, but now I can't stop moping around the house.
At first I blamed it on the happy ending: I told myself I was sad that such a thing didn't exist. It only seems to happen when I'm not busy, like when I have nothing to do. Any idea what's wrong with me? I want to be able to enjoy Twilight!

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Therapy Advice


Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 2:20 am

Okay, well i have been doing alot of reasearch. And lately, i know that i need a therapist. I know i have a problem. A mental problem. But the problem is...I am only 13 in a half years old! What therapist is gonna wanna help a teen who porbably thinks its just "Boy Troubles" or something?! And i cant tell my family. They wont take me...becuase they dont have enough money..and because they dont know how i feel. i normally hide my emotions. They think im fine. And i need help a.s.a.p or im afriad things might get worse!

please help me! any advice will do!
Thank you sooooooooo much!
- love Nikki (:

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14/ f stretch marks


Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 11:55 pm

I was just wondering how do you get rid of stretch marks I've had them since I was 10 and i really want to get rid of them.....if you know of some ways please tell me.

-Hopeful Gurl

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Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 9:56 pm

umm im a 17/f & over the last few days i've been smoking. & i drank a little bit of alcohol butt hat was one day. well i was wondering in TExas before u get your driver's license do they drug test you? iumm and also i've been smoking for 4 days & one day i smoked 3 cigarettes. so how long does it stay in your body? k please help me kthnxbye.

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Terribly shy, need to know how to ask for help.


Posted Monday August 4 2008, 3:11 am

I have been rehearsing with 40+ other people for 4 weeks, and most of the people I will say hello in passing, but when it comes to holding a conversation, I don't.

I have always been terribly shy. I really feel I would like to speak to 1-2 of the people I perform with, and maybe tell them of my problem. I feel bad that I haven't been talking to them.

I need to know how to ask for help from them. I thought maybe I would tell them I originally got into theater to help with my shyness. I would like to get together with 1-2 of them on an individual basis and apologize and ask for their help, to see if they would.

What do you think??? The show will end in 6 days, and I would like to make friends before this time.



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14/F


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 5:33 pm

A question just popped in my head and I was wondering can a tampon pop your cherry because I think I popped mine but I'm not sure.

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is it normal for a 13 year old


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 2:00 am

is it normal for a 13 year old guy(me) to have never been in a fight, be really sensitive(cry when im angry and when im pissed off/annoyed) and just weird things like that

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