|
Viewing QuestionsLove Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.
After break up guilt?
Posted Monday September 8 2014, 1:52 pm
I'm really struggling through healing from a break that I had at the beginning of the year. He asked me to marry him and I said yes so technically we were engaged? We never talked about why he just packed up and left because he avoided me. We did start talking again but I was afraid to bring up things because I didnt want to make things stressful . I ended up confronting him and he basically said he left because I lashed out at him for no reason, and I kept putting him out. I am not the type to lash out or argue unless someone hurts my feelings or upsets me. A lot of the times he would minimize my feelings or shut down when I wanted to deal with our issues. I never put him out, i only told him to him to leave if he can't talk to me or act...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Is he just curious or is he trying to say something indirectly?
Posted Monday September 8 2014, 11:17 am
21/f, 27/m
I'm seeing a guy that has been asking questions that somewhat concerns me. I'm not sure if he's just being curious or that he feels this comfortable to talk to me in this way and ask me these questions.
Let me first say that I'm Asian and he's Caucasian. I will say that I'm pretty conservative and I feel like respect, loyalty, and honesty is very important to me.
Yesterday, maybe he was just saying it but he would point out that a girl is hot or say stuff like, "GILF" or "MILF" to me. I feel awkward whenever he says that because I never point out things like that. He'd mention that he thinks I'm pretty and he'd compliment me but it makes me feel uncomfortable when h...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Should I give up?
Posted Sunday September 7 2014, 11:45 pm
My ex texted me out of the blue a couple of weeks ago. We were supposed to meet up and then something came up and I texted him to let him know, he seemed fine about it and texted me a few days later. I was busy that day and he told me to text him when I was free, I told him to text me instead because I forget. I haven't heard from him in a week?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
How do I talk to him?
Posted Sunday September 7 2014, 2:44 pm
Idk if my other went through bc I can't find it, but there's this guy that is a host at a restaurant. I really want to talk to him, but we haven't talked before, and I don't even know anything about him (not even his age or his name). He always sneaks glances at me whenever he can so I think that's a good sign. I just want to talk to him, but don't know how?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
I'm too scared to talk to a guy
Posted Sunday September 7 2014, 1:16 pm
Ok, so at this restaurant I go to, the host is wicked cute. He always sneaks glances at me and stuff. Anyways, I really want to talk to him, but I'm too scared. I haven't talked to him before. I don't know anything about him, and I don't even know if he's too old for me (but he's young, it's not like he's 20s). I just don't know how to go about doing so, especially bc he's at work when I see him.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
wife has left me
Posted Sunday September 7 2014, 7:33 am
I am married for 22 years but my mental health declined and i went voluntary to a mental health unit the day i went in there my wife stopped talking to me and sent abusive texts to goad me in to killing myself i was in there for. 4 months and my wife who i adore has refused to have me back or even talk to me we have two daughters together and whilst i was in the unit she told our eldest daughter to leave which made OUR daughter homeless which i never understand how she could do this thankfully my daughter has now goto somewhere to live . The thing i struggle most with is that i am still so in love with my wife and don't want to live anymore i know that is selfish because of my daughters but i can't help the way i feel i just don't understan...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
I like someone who I rejected..
Posted Saturday September 6 2014, 10:42 pm
2 years ago my friend tried to set me up with his friend because his friend liked me but I had never talked to him. He asked me how I felt about him and I said I didn't like him I liked someone else (which I didn't know he liked me). Anyway, we started talking a lot, late nights, all day. Then we stopped talking for a whole year because I gave his number to his ex (which again I didn't know about). A year later and I like him but we still don't talk I see him at school all the time just don't know if I should approach him or not. Should I forget about him or try to be friend and see what happens?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
I can't stop freaking out
Posted Saturday September 6 2014, 5:36 pm
I don't know what it is recently. But I have turned slightly clingy towards my boyfriend. Like I want him to text me throughout the day (he's not a big texter) and I hate when we don't talk at night.
I'm 23 and feel so childish! We are long distance and had some trust issues but never with any kind of cheating or anything like that. It's just hard to feel like he's interested when I haven't seen him in a while. But we've been together 5 years, so I should be used to that. We are almost able to not be long distance again. But everything has been going well, yet I can't stop picking. I hate it! He deserves to be happy and not have me pick when he can't talk! I have never been like this before and would not like if he was actin...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
how guys feel about a girls downstairs
Posted Saturday September 6 2014, 6:11 am
F/18 ive been nervous about letting my boyfriend ...go down on me... Because im afraid he might think it looks ugly down ther (i think its ugly!) Or im afraid it might smell bad or taste bad for him ...do guys like going down on girls? And what should i do considering the hair...? Shave...? Wax...? Or dont guys mind? Im so scared he thinks its gross...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
Why am I just now grieving my break up 4 months later?
Posted Friday September 5 2014, 10:01 pm
My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. He started dating someone shortly after and so did I. It was going fine (if you call breaking down crying weekly being "fine"). I was slowly getting over him then I get random text in which I reply, and I never hear back from him (SHOCKER)... well this continued for 2 months every other day I would get a "hey" or "my name" nothing interesting so I would spontaneously reply every now and then and still... nothing. I'm not an idiot I know when someone is just taunting me so of course it upsets me but I have a boyfriend so I just blow it off. Well about 2 weeks ago I decided to break it off with the new beau because he was just not keeping me interested enough if I still kept bec...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
trigestrel and pregnancy: How long until you get pregnant after you stop taking it?
Posted Friday September 5 2014, 8:53 am
if is possible for me to get pregnant after i use trigestrel pill family planning more than seven years?and how long it will take for me to be pregnant after i stop it ?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Thinking about leaving him
Posted Friday September 5 2014, 6:19 am
Hey there..
My boyfriend and I will mark 2 years in the next two weeks. However, something doesn't feel right and I get the feeling that we are hanging by the thread.
He seems distant of late. He has been going through some rough patch, which I understand.He has opened up to me and I know he has been honest.
My problem is, we have discussed his way of handling things and the fact that it doesn't sit well with me. Normally,he just goes silent.He even switches his phone off with no warning. What's left is me trying to get through to him and all he does is ignore until whenever it suits him. We had a talk the last time he did this, and I expressed why it hurts me to not be able to help him and instead get shut down like th...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
What should i do?
Posted Thursday September 4 2014, 2:15 pm
Im 23 year old business woman. And im living with my boyfriend because im pregnant. I earn more than my bf with my business. And it bothers me sometimes how he treats me. He loves me but he dont want to hang out with me. Was it his ego? On his troops. He is a boss. He could boast his self to them and everyone get jealous over him. Because he is on top. But with me he feels small. Because i earn more of our living. Is this the reason why he dont want me to hang out with them? Because of this silly ego. Because he dont want to be laughed at because im more productive than he do? Will i talk this one out to him without hurting his pride? How? We only spend few moments together even if we live in the same roof because he wants to be on his troops where he is the boss.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Should I stay or go?
Posted Thursday September 4 2014, 12:58 am
I'm 18 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 4months, and Before that ,we were good friends. I've been getting frustrated a lot lately because I feel like my boyfriend is still trying to find himself . He's a good person , but he has influences that cause him to feel angry/depressed . His mom is what I would describe a person who means well but shows it in wrong ways , causing my boyfriend to feel like he is a mistake . This can cause him to be a negative person . Then my boyfriend has these days were he is very positive he feels thankful to have me and is very happy . My problem is , I just started college and I feel like there is so much going on in his life that it's starting to stress me out . I love him to death don't...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
why is he so selfish
Posted Tuesday September 2 2014, 10:53 pm
I have been sleeping with this guy for almost 2 years but hes never fingered me or ate me out. How Doi get him to? I give him hj and bj and just want him to return the favor. We werr about to have sex one time and I told him "wait I'm not wet enough" and he says "cant you make yourself"? Who says that. .I understand this is unhealthy and I deserve better and blah blah but u just want him to want me like I want him. He hardly even kisses me Anymore. 20 F
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
threesome's
Posted Tuesday September 2 2014, 7:05 am
Should I let my wife have a threesome with another man
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
Don't know what I want
Posted Sunday August 31 2014, 12:36 pm
Hi.I am in a relationship with my guy for almost 9 months.We have our ups and downs but now adays , we've been having our downs only.It's like , we had sex 4 months ago and now , we just don't have a place where we can have it.I am absolutely okay with it , but he's all horny and devastated.We've been having so much fights lately.It's just so bad!I just love him so much and he does too.We end up leaving each other after every fight but we get back together and have a fight all over again.I cannot live without him.I try to fix the fights and they do get fixed but we have a fight all over again.I don't trust him anymore.He describes how horny he is every single day but I can't do anything about it.We don't even have privacy when we meet , it'...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
getting over a hopeless relationship
Posted Saturday August 30 2014, 5:53 am
I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (31) ]
Mom + Boyfriend= Clash A LITTLE LONG
Posted Friday August 29 2014, 11:16 pm
So... I have been having this issue going on for some time now. I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and my mom has not liked him for a while. I first thought that it was a phase. Then, I thought she would grow to like him eventually. But, now it is worse than ever. He was away for a few months for something that he needed to do for school. Those months were pure bliss with my mom. I finally remembered what it was like to love my mom again because we weren't butting heads. We were just friends. I'm 23, by the way. I live with my mom and grandparents at the time because I cannot afford to move out. I live in an expensive city and I'm a teacher, so I don't make very much money. I had a plan to move out, etc. when I had some more mone...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
can I still get pregnant if my cherry isn't popped?
Posted Friday August 29 2014, 11:25 am
My boyfriend had sex with me yesterday and it was my first time doing it he didnt pop my"cherry" and today I feel sick and my stomach was bouncing, what does it mean? And can I still get pregnant if my "cherry" isn't popped?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
|